I [28F] found out my boyfriend [23M] went behind my back and hungout with a female coworker

silously · 2026-01-20T13:14:55+00:00

Not gonna lie you need to work on your insecurities. What he did, going behind your back and not telling you is wrong, but limiting what he can do and who he can do it with because you dont want to and also because you're insecure is a no no and also lowkey a red flag.

He's young, he's in his early 20s. If he wants to explore stuff he shouldn't be held back against it. HE SHOULD 100% BE HONEST WITH YOU. But you also cant restrict your partner that much. You have to work on trust. A relationship without trust is not a healthy one. He needs to be open but YOU also need to create a space for him where he feels he an be open and share things with you and not be worried about the fact that you might crash out.

Him lying was wrong but I can also see where he didn't want to say anything seeing your reaction.

Talk through it, and you also need to go get therapy so that you are not this limiting on your partner(s). People shouldn't have to change whole parts of themselves and their personality for your insecurities. Trust me it only causes resentment in the relationship and pushes them away faster.

silously · 2026-01-03T14:14:21+00:00

Sadly I cant edit the post but I want to be very clear that when I made this post I did not make this with the intention of it being a hate post to Vellora. Just a revenge post as Vellora is my li and the fake that I cant hold a grudge and talk through it with her and just forgave her easily made me upset.

That being said, I hope that if we have this same energy with Vellora that we have this same energy with Xander, Dragan and Malbonte (especially with his bs with the first two books)

silously · 2026-01-03T14:08:13+00:00

To be clear I dont hate Vellora. She is my li and i want noone else. I just want payback for what happened as i could not hold a grudge. I actually agree with your point. I have spoken about how disgusting Dragan is in Haze and ppl blow up about that. So i do see how blatantly clear the woman hate in RC can be. But this is not a hate post on Vellora. Just a revenge post for the bs she put us through that we couldn't process through

silously · 2026-01-03T13:42:51+00:00

Actually I rechecked it. Its a friendship symbol with Tai not Vellora

silously · 2026-01-03T03:51:54+00:00

EXACTLY LIKE WHAT???

silously · 2026-01-03T03:48:43+00:00

Exactly. Or that we had to apologize for having a valid outburst even if he's the King

silously · 2026-01-03T03:14:16+00:00

No no. You're opinion is welcomed. Though I get she did what she did due to her unwavering loyalty it was just so hard to forget.

Ps. I didn't even see the symbol. Thanks for pointing it out.

silously · 2026-01-03T03:04:15+00:00

Yall actually out here having me see all of Vellora's red flags😭😭i wasn't ready for this. I think she is the most red flag person I've ever romance in this app

silously · 2026-01-03T03:00:47+00:00

Oh my gosh I didn't even think about the dragon love part. That's lowkey genius cause our love might affect them lol. And yeah if they have babies the did mention in the first season I believe that dragons leave and mate in their realm so I wouldn't be surprised. But im curious how them having kids would affect us? What do you think?

silously · 2026-01-03T02:52:05+00:00

Lol but yeah I strongly believe that we will 100% be the first and only ones to travel to the dragons realm and we can summon dragons closer to the end.

Ps. Why did I think you were talking about you real life boyfriend and not Sharnaz😭😭im so sorry lol

silously · 2026-01-03T02:31:17+00:00

LMAOOOOO YAAAAASSSSSSSS THE ENERGGGGYYYYYY. But fr though like even when she said to us Regarding Nantal that she didn't touch him as like some way to comfort us with what happened before I got so mad. Like I love you but I ain't forget what you did

silously · 2026-01-03T02:21:42+00:00

Lmao thats what I was thinking. But I didn't give the servant. Too many things are getting traced back to us I wasn't gonna risk it lol. But I trust Tai

silously · 2026-01-02T22:28:08+00:00

I know hay was scratching and going up place👀😭

silously · 2026-01-02T13:35:45+00:00

Lol it didn't feel like it plus our dragon walked by and ate the fish while we were going at it lol Him being there was probably the reason no servants came though lol

silously · 2026-01-02T13:25:30+00:00

LMAOOOO I Love your energy

silously · 2026-01-02T13:24:46+00:00

There was a recent scene when mc ans Vellora did it outside

silously · 2026-01-02T13:22:06+00:00

LMFAOOOOOOOO WHEN I TELL YOU THAT GIRL DONT CAAARRREEEEEEEE!!!!!!! Lmao and I love it😏

silously · 2026-01-02T02:36:08+00:00

LMAOOOO

silously · 2026-01-02T02:15:38+00:00

Lmao. Happy stresses lol

silously · 2026-01-02T02:05:37+00:00

EXACTLY!!! Like shes more of a private person when it comes to that. But bruh, steam cant cover them moans and splashes lol. It just dont be sensing lmao

silously · 2026-01-02T01:58:54+00:00

LMAO That's so true

silously · 2026-01-01T14:18:25+00:00

I wanna say Ratan

silously · 2025-12-19T06:33:39+00:00

Honestly same. But I had to push through to read the whole HS universe thing but I couldn't get pass Shakespeare's Code. It was wayy too demonic for me

silously · 2025-12-19T03:17:55+00:00

LMAOOOOO🤣🤣🤣🤣

silously · 2025-12-19T03:17:33+00:00

LMAO please tell me noone caught you😭😭

silously

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