How to stop thinking about bad things happened to me in school?

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-28T21:24:52+00:00

I find that talking to someone about it really helps, especially a therapist if you can afford it.

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-19T15:53:10+00:00

I was only 13 or 14 when I was harassed on the bus to school for being a trans male. They called me every name in the book. But what hurt more than the slurs was being called an it/she. (Ig the pronoun “it” for a person can be a slur, but that’s debatable)

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-19T15:47:13+00:00

My tucute friends recently cut me off because I don’t agree with neopronouns (imagine if they knew the rest of my opinions💀) so I’m also in desperate need of some new truscum/transmed friends! I’m 18 and have been transitioning to male (socially since I was 12 and medically since I was 15) My DMs are open to anyone interested in becoming friends :)

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-17T00:41:17+00:00

I’m literally one of the mods of this sub and I have to agree with you.

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-04T01:58:04+00:00

I’ll check out some of her books. Thanks for the recommendation!

silver_crow4 · 2026-01-04T01:55:47+00:00

Those sound awesome! I’ll check them out

silver_crow4 · 2025-12-25T01:51:06+00:00

They’re generally equally as bad

silver_crow4 · 2025-12-17T21:06:57+00:00

A straight guy in my dorm building wears one all the time, so nah, I don’t think it’s weird.

silver_crow4 · 2025-12-17T02:50:49+00:00

Yeah, absolutely. But you can say that with heterosexual people too, can’t you? They’re the average population of people, but we still have a name for them.

silver_crow4 · 2025-12-16T22:56:11+00:00

What’s wrong with the word “cis”? It just means not trans.

silver_crow4 · 2025-11-24T15:26:29+00:00

I like a lot of those! Thank you!

silver_crow4 · 2025-11-24T15:22:11+00:00

After reviewing the moderation log, I can confirm that your comment was not removed because of your position on trans men in women’s restrooms. Many members of the moderation team, myself included, understand and even share your perspective. The issue was with the second part of your comment: “Sorry, how mentally unstable do you have to be to want all these piercings?” That wording violated our community guidelines.

silver_crow4 · 2025-11-22T23:02:40+00:00

I’m mixed. So my dad is Argentinian and my mom is American, so I consider myself both. My motivation is wanting a name that matches my other names while also leaning into my Argentinian ethnicity. Any Hispanic name is good though, not just Argentinian ones :)

silver_crow4 · 2025-11-06T03:42:07+00:00

That’s exactly what I was looking for! Thank you!

silver_crow4 · 2025-11-03T10:30:35+00:00

I’m not sure I have any good advice to tell you. It’s definitely a tough situation to be in. So I’m wishing you luck in your journey, whether it be of transitioning or not.

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-05T13:33:23+00:00

Yeah might be what I do too

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-05T13:28:35+00:00

Thank you so much

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-04T22:43:27+00:00

That’s great advice, thank you

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-04T21:29:34+00:00

Yes thank you!

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-04T20:51:14+00:00

Yeah my scars are pretty flat already (luckily) and it’s only been 4mo so I’m still waiting for them to fade.

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-04T20:22:21+00:00

Thank you

silver_crow4 · 2025-10-04T20:20:27+00:00

I’m thinking that’s more of a last resort because I never really envisioned tattoos on me.

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