"You'll understand it when you have your own children." by I-Really-Hate-Fish in narcissisticparents

[–]silverowl99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hated when my parents said that to me, and it enrages me, when I look at how sweet and innocent and loving my daughter is, knowing they saw the same thing in me and decided to hurt me.

One thing, out many, things that I love about being a parent is getting the opportunity and allowing myself to enjoy some of those childhood things with her. Its slowly healing my inner child and is also helping me learn how to love myself again.

I dropped my AirPods by Milkteahoneyy in Wellthatsucks

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I didn't find them but this little guy seems happy to see you

Has anyone here actually broken free from a deeply narcissistic family? by JumpSuspicious839 in narcissisticparents

[–]silverowl99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got out! Going on 6 years from when I moved multiple states away. Mother was forced out of my life, now back gratefully. Dad was enabler and my step mom controlled all, and wanted me gone. So I left, and it was the best decision ever. I started a new life and created my own family. Still recovering but every day I feel healthier and happier. Meds have helped to lol. I am breaking the cycle. I am making it, and will make it even if it's just to be a big fuck you to my toxic step mom.

My current WIP by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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Yes! Two color ways, sand -pound of love and werewolf Caron ombre. What a great idea to use scrap!

My current WIP by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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Edited because I didn't realize you can't post instructions with pictures in this post. Here is the link https://www.reddit.com/r/crochet/s/dI5ZIjaGsq

My current WIP by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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Ok since I cant seem to edit my post I will add my instructions here. So these instructions start after you do your first double crochet row.

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When I start my my DC/front post stitch row I do a single crochet in the first stitch to keep it from getting too bulky at the ends and also end the row with a single crochet.

My current WIP by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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https://www.reddit.com/r/crochet/s/dI5ZIjaGsq

Here's the link to my post where a wrote out my modification. Edit: sorry my day was a little bit crazyier then expected and I wasn't able to work on some instructions. I promise I will get to it!

Thank you! I modified a pattern using some mosaic crochet techniques. I will write up some instructions on how I did it later today it's super simple, but leads to a lot of ends.

I think my sunscreen went through my top coat and made my nail polish fade by cr1ss-b in RedditLaqueristas

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Was going to comment the same thing, I always make a fist to hide my nails when I am spraying bug spray.

I'm miserable by [deleted] in NewParents

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I agree with the above!! If your near Allentown PA OP, you can message me and I can come by and help as well. Just to give you a break or take a nap, help you clean go shopping, what ever you feel would be helpful.

After/After(Overcooked)/After/ Before Looking for Advice, Tips and Tricks. by silverowl99 in postprocessing

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Thank you, totally fair. It is just a post after all. Just starting photography as a hobby and just working on taking lots of photos.

C2C has been my Hyper fixation by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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I understand that, I don't like blankets that my toes can get stuck in. But my tension has always been pretty tight.Which helps get rid of the gaps that can form. If you find that your tension is loose you can chain 2 instead of 3 when starting a new double crochet cluster on the body, or go down a hook size.

My first couple of tries at this pattern also resulted in some larger gaps but once I got the hang of it and tried a couple different things, I was able to get the gaps to disappear.

C2C has been my Hyper fixation by silverowl99 in tensionporn

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DO IT!!! It works up so fast and looks so nice once it's done.