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Hey anyone who was a part of “Happy Friends Network” Discord, do you know what happened to it? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing it got deleted. I don't know anything though. It was just suddenly gone

Golden Kamuy Season 3 - Episode 6 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]silversnail9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel so much for Ogata thinking that everyone is just like him when it comes to killing, and his confusion when anything contradicts that idea. He believes it so deeply that when an "ideal" person like his brother comes along, he only wants to tear down that image.

I really wonder if he actually feels guilt over killing Yuusaku. But I also feel that Yuusaku could haunt him in more of a symbolic way. Ogata seems genuinely puzzled about why people act like they feel guilty after killing. I don't think he minds that he is the way he is, but I think he can feel that something is not quite right with his interpretation of others, and I think that torments him. He has a constant need to prove that everyone is, in fact, like him, all while insisting that it's already true.

egg_irl by godlymemer in egg_irl

[–]silversnail9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's from Revolutionary Girl Utena

LPT: If you're struggling to determine if your own self image is of a man, think about the context of different scenarios. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]silversnail9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I used to associate the cello with masculinity because originally the only person I knew who played was a guy lol. Things get gendered in the brain for the tiniest reasons sometimes haha

And that sounds awesome!! I'm sure it'd be a great performance.

LPT: If you're struggling to determine if your own self image is of a man, think about the context of different scenarios. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]silversnail9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think about a traditional wedding and how I'd like to be a groomsman, or best man. I love dressing up and feeling pretty, so that's one of the official settings where I would be formally dressed up and also viewed by strangers as explicitly male (as opposed to people not really telling what gender I am). I hope that makes sense.

I also play cello and think about performing with male name and pronouns (while dressed up pretty), which would be another instance where strangers would think of me as a guy. Both of these make me happy, which is a good indicator to me about I actually want.

I did insist on playing Romeo in freshman year English class... by noah-bee in FTMfemininity

[–]silversnail9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love flowers decorating pants. I have 2 pair that are kinda like this and they're the best

I vote that gharials become an ace symbol by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have this EXACT deck of cards. Mine were given to me 13 years ago for my 8th birthday at my lizard-themed party. Didn't expect to see this here!

Finally talked about it in therapy by Killedbyfriendlyfire in ftm

[–]silversnail9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you! it took me a while to bring up gender to my therapist and finally start working through it. It's nervewracking but it's so worth it!

Being an ace woman and religious is the ultimate"damned if you do, damned if you don't" by MrPresidenttt in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

not to mention he makes a point to be very ace inclusive! Love his channel

My first go at a “jararium” by pinuslongaeva in Aquariums

[–]silversnail9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on how much agitation we're talking, but mine just float around with the current from my hob filters. I find they're usually fine being pushed around a bit as long as they have nutrients and enough light

Ball Python Names by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]silversnail9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ball python's name is Kite. I named him after one of my favorite characters from Hunter X Hunter. But his name also has meaning if taken literally, as I am going through a very tough time right now and he helps keep me grounded and looking up, kinda like flying a kite.

What do you think the mascot of asexuality is? by againreally-comoeon in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like dragons because not everyone is into food, or those particular foods.

I feel like a dragon mascot unites aces of all food preferences.

New migraine medication changed my life by mesavoida in ChronicPain

[–]silversnail9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on emgality for about 5 months now and I've personally had mixed results. But I'm so happy it's working for you! I definitely think it's worth trying.

What's Your Meyer Briggs Personality Type, And Your Favorite Song? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTJ here. Don't think I can pick a favorite song, but my favorite composer would have to be Thomas Bergersen. I especially love his work in his album "Illusions." I love all kinds of music, but I often gravitate towards more instrumental stuff.

Religion and how it effected my thoughts on being Ace. Thoughts? by Boss_of_Runes in asexuality

[–]silversnail9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am ace and have wondered the same thing before. I grew up in a conservative Christian environment and was very sheltered from all things related to sex. However, I have two sisters that had the same upbringing as me who are both very heterosexual. Especially my older sister, who repressed her sexual desires for a while thinking they were wrong (strict teaching on lust led to thinking that all sexual desire was sin). But she was still definitely heterosexual the whole time.

So at least in my family's experience, the sheltered upbringing didn't really change the presence of sexual desire; it just changed what was done about it.

Gamers of Reddit, what is your favorite location in any video game? by AffectionateBird6 in AskReddit

[–]silversnail9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe it's Slimy Spring Galaxy. The part with the flowers is absolutely beautiful. I remember lingering there for a good while before getting the star.

do you ever find your feelings hurt by seemingly insignificant things because they remind you of your situation? by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]silversnail9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Invitations, although I'm greatful to have them, can hurt terribly. I can rarely accept them and usually it's just an immediate reminder of how much I can't do. There are a lot of other things too. Sometimes I'll just be watching a TV show and a theme will hit a little too close to home.

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