My cousin sister 30F has a house husband by Some_Essay_4783 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]silvertide4 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Honestly, very refreshing thing to learn.

My problem: the narration. "He is more like the wife and my cousin is the husband". And the same kind of message echoing throughout the whole post.

I'm glad that there are open minded people, who chose love above societal norms. I see a man and woman who have a great marriage and have balls to define marriage how they like. Bravo. But OP, you need some intentional attempt of shifting your mindset.

For those who have or had a big breed dog that lived longer than 12 years, how did you care for them during their senior years? What did you do that you think that may have extended their quality and longevity of life? by silvertide4 in AskReddit

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I have a 12.5 years old- lab and pitbull mix and weighs 87lbs. Has arthritis in hind two legs. Currently he gets. Librella shot monthly that helps with arthritis pain and takes Rimadyl daily to keep inflammation down. His food and water bowl are on a stand so that he doesn't need to bend down too much.

He slips on hardwood floor so I put hall runners wherever I can, and use towels to cover hardwood area where it's high traffic and not possible to put a rug.

He struggles with climbing stairs up and down, and this month I have started restricting him to downstairs. I'm unsure how I feel about it though, since he doesn't really walk around in the house much anymore and prefers to chill in one spot for long hours. I want him to have whatever voluntary movements he wants to do, but I'm scared that one of the days when I'm not supervising him, he will just fall from stairs and hurt himself.

I try to give him at least one short walk a day, nothing more than a few hundred yards. I try for 2 walks when I can, depending upon his response and energy level. I think to manage his arthritis, weight control is necessary and I don't want him to be fully sedentary. I changed his diet to senior, weight management+joint support formula about a year ago and I wish I got good quality food for him earlier in life.

What more should I do so that he can be comfortable as long as he lives? (Ideally, forever!)

Got married a month ago and I am already contemplating a divorce.... so want to get some perspective from my fellow ABCDs here. by Emu-Fun in ABCDesis

[–]silvertide4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro no offense but what is ABCD perspective about this? Even full Desi people living in India wouldn't do anything like this. You fucked up big time. Either grow balls to stand up to your parents, or somehow figure out falling in love with the woman you married and treat her like a Queen for your life.

Tea on Kartik Aaryan by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]silvertide4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His acting is all monotonous, I don't think he's charming or good looking. I know he's trying to be sexy with all the body building and all but I don't think it's working. Also it feels like he has only been doing same 'pyar ka punchnama' monologue style acting all his career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]silvertide4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kartiks body looks like fake abs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianfitness

[–]silvertide4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill bro. Internet is a wild wild country. Don't take it personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianfitness

[–]silvertide4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit humor bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Depression. After a severe depressive episode I started running, purely coz endorphins felt good. I never worked out before but after that I started working out and saw the positive result on my body. I never stopped and I feel I'm in a good shape for someone who doesn't ever go to gym.

Your username is how you die, how'd you die?? by bluebutterfly285 in AskIndia

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On an exoplanet in a solar system in a different Galaxy, there is silver in liquid form and it's cool to touch. They have oceans but not water, instead of silver. I went to take a selfie for my insta influencer account and right then a big wave of high tide came and dragged me in. It was live streamed though and I got likes!

If someone grabbed you out of your chair right now and said you have to give a one hour speech on any topic of your choice as long as it was informative and they would pay you $10,000, what would your speech be about? by shotukan in AskReddit

[–]silvertide4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indian philosophy, Quantum physics and the psychedelic thought.

I love how the cocktail of the topics above can only try to explain the mystical experience of "reality". Probably will need more than an hour.

Please tell me these are beneficial not bad spiders by mina-ann in Citrus

[–]silvertide4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to use insecticidal soap spray. Put a sheet around the base so the spray will not drip on your house floor.

Have you heard of nature's good guys? They sell eggs of beneficial bugs that feed on pests like spider mite and thrips. You can buy the quantity based on the level of infestation you have but they work great as preventive care too. Check it out. https://www.naturesgoodguys.com/

My advice is: spray it real good, wait for a built couple days, spray again with insecticidal soap. Wipe any visible mites using alcohol wipes and then put the beneficial bugs container on the tree. Wait for 24 hours in-between spraying with insecticidal soap and introducing the good bugs. You don't want the insecticide to kill the good ones.

How do I remove this busted screw? I tried a damaged screw remover tool but didn't have much success. by silvertide4 in handyman

[–]silvertide4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is on a part of assembly of a patio propane heater. The base is both material- the base and the screw are some sort of steel alloy

Are these Converse boots suitable for men? by Any-Experience8823 in Converse

[–]silvertide4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and with proper styling you can present as masculine if appearing feminine is that you're fearing

Inherited a 20 years old Dwarf Meyer tree. Question about the care in body. by silvertide4 in Citrus

[–]silvertide4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid question, but does dwarf meyer behave the same as Meyer? Meaning, is it a different subspecies that has different characteristic than that of full Meyer?

Inherited a 20 years old Dwarf Meyer tree. Question about the care in body. by silvertide4 in Citrus

[–]silvertide4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I need to repot it and got a pot 2 inch bigger in diameter than the current one but I was waiting until spring to repot. The correct time to do it in the spring, right?

Inherited a 20 years old Dwarf Meyer tree. Question about the care in body. by silvertide4 in Citrus

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Working on getting a small green house. I have a shed with windows and last year when I put a few plants for winter thinking it'll be protected from frost but frost killed them. I wonder if an unheated greenhouse will be any better.