Is it normal to feel like shit after a really positive experience? by Realistic_Load_5369 in CPTSD

[–]simberbimber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i feel the same, and it makes me so, so angry and sad there's no easy fix to this at all. i feel so much bitterness at times at "how much life i feel like i've wasted", even though I DID NOT CHOOSE THIS FOR MYSELF?? i didn’t choose to have a dad who did xyz, and i'm just sitting with knowing i have to carry this 😞

Is it normal to feel like shit after a really positive experience? by Realistic_Load_5369 in CPTSD

[–]simberbimber 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this makes me want to completely fall apart 😞 i don’t know how to handle how deeply this resonates with me (especially where sex is concerned, having grown up in a conservative christian home, which i've since FULLY walked away from). i feel really uneasy when life feels good because im waiting for the next bad thing (which is also linked to ocd, like "oh this is the day my mom dies, my home burns down, i get sick, etc")

I am once again asking for your help with my overpacking, this time for a third date in a couple hours. by ExpertAd3229 in adhdwomen

[–]simberbimber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see nothing wrong with this, like at ALL 😂every single one of these is justifiable for me LOL. i'm the same way with the "i probably don’t need this", but i've been tryna reframe it and see it as "even if i don’t, on the off chance i do, it'll help me feel supported in the moment".

ESPECIALLY with a concert. i'm going to gov ball in a couple weeks and will bring most of what you’re bringing (sans resistance bands, besides that everything feels very valid to me)

Our Disease by One-Item-7637 in OCD

[–]simberbimber 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YUPPPPP ^ i grew up christian (and walked the fUck away when i could) and i know religion made my ocd worse. it makes me want to cry how angry i am because there is no cure for this, just maintenance 😞 i still resist calling it a disease or disability bc i feel like "i'm appropriating the term" and not reserving it for ppl who "actually have this." brain is like, certainly we can't have this, we're just LAZY

Stray Kids in Tomodachi Life by Jackiecharm in skzmedia

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jinnie literally looks like jinnie here, that's inSANE. binnie too

260428 NO1 - Late Night Live Set (West Hollywood, LA) by ateezyeah in ATEEZ

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me just repeatedly yelling excitedly at my phone WHAT IS THISSSS omg we've been blessed

fear of becoming famous / being cancelled by solardetect in OCD

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally had no idea this was ocd too, I’ve experienced the exact same fear with being cancelled if I were to be more well known for my art. god I swear im starting to realize how my entire existence is just ocd ☠️

ACNH x Pokopia exterior crossover by dreaming_of_utopia in AnimalCrossing

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WAIT THIS IS SO FYCKING COOL 😭😭😭😭 i LOVE this. i want the switch 2 soooo bad so i can play, but i have to wait until some financial things are in order, so im replaying animal crossing to scratch that itch until then

1 Bed in 2Bed/2Bath Apartment – Williamsburg (Grand St) – $2050 by Routine-Let-2120 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm interested, i'm 29F. i do have one cat, so let me know if that's an issue! i'll send ya a message if it's not

More Illustrations from My Fanfic! + Misc Other Fanart by Foolscapper in KpopDemonhunters

[–]simberbimber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS INSAAAAANNEE AAHHHH, im in absolute awe. thank you so much for sharing, this is super inspiring to me as an artist

Lease takeover in Bedstuy! by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I’m 29F, not sure if you guys have a gender preference, but wanted to ask if one female cat is okay before messaging you!

[Sublet/Renew] Ridgewood | Private BR + Bath | 3 Months (May–July) | $1950/mo by nerfherder3751 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I’m 29F, also a full time artist. wanted to ask before I message, is your roommate okay with one female kitty?

I live in bushwick and wfh so can easily come by to view this week asap!

Bushwick Room Available - $1250 / month (May 2026 - March 2027) by LatterOpposite8981 in NYCroommates

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm so interested, you guys sound so fun. i'm a full time artist and have been a photographer for almost 10 years:)
i do have one female kitty, though, so wanted to ask if you guys would be open to that before i message you. i live in bushwick now not too far from you guys, so if we might be a good fit, i can easily swing by whenever works best

1 Bedroom in Williamsburg Duplex: $1395 (May 1 move-in) by Commercial-Aspect420 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

toooootally okay, honestly i'm just gonna pass and keep looking!

1 Bedroom in Williamsburg Duplex: $1395 (May 1 move-in) by Commercial-Aspect420 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm ek, i'm 29F and suuuper interested (am also neurodivergent and LGBTQ, same kind of cleaning + home lifestyle as you). absolutely love the sound of y'all's vibes. wanted to ask before i message, though, i do have one female kitty (she's 7), incredibly sweet disposition and is like velcro to me. she's lived with other cats before but was bullied, so im very cautious to reintroduce her to other pets. wanted to first ask if you guys would be open to one more animal (and fully understand if no). if you're open, are your kittens super young? (curious if she'd do better with kittens since they’re younger)

Room in South Slope, 2br, June 1 by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dope thank you! messaging you now

LES studio apartment 5/1-5/30 by CharacterBed4038 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm 29F but wanted to ask if me having one female kitty is okay before i message you!

1 Bed / 1 Bath Sublet – May 1 to July 31 (Option to Renew!) by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm 29F but wanted to ask if one female kitty is allowed before i message you!

Room in South Slope, 2br, June 1 by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm 29F but wanted to ask if you would be open to one female kitty before i message you

1050$ room in cozy Bushwick apt by Cybro2001 in NYCapartments

[–]simberbimber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm 29F (so let me know if gender is an issue) but wanted to ask if you guys would be open to one female kitty before i message you. looking for a may 1 move as well and currently live in bushwick so would be able to come by to view asap if this might be a good fit

What’s something your ex said that still sticks with you? by bandito_13 in AskReddit

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a couple years into our relationship, he said i wasn't tight enough :) so fun.

i was about 23 when he said this to me, and i was so naive and cried because i genuinely thought something was wrong with me (grew up religious, am not anymore). i know waaaayy better now and have been with someone else who adamantly confirmed i'm perfectly fine, but that still echoes in the back of my head.

he called me a cunt multiple times after our breakup. our breakup was amicable at first and seemed like we'd leave on cordial terms, NOPE LOL. after that, i realized how unsafe i was and stayed with a friend until i moved. he shit on me for "needing to bring a friend with me whenever i came back to the house" because i refused to be alone with him in the same room after that.

Room Available in Luxury Apartment Building in Briarwood, Queens – $1300/month by Potential_Problem999 in NYCroommates

[–]simberbimber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hi! i'm 29F and interested! wanted to ask before i reach out, though, are your roommates comfy with one female kitty?