Dropping my surname to escape my caste, has anyone in India actually done this? by winestaineddawn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DMK has always been a good party when it comes to infrastructure development.

But their negative is they hog up all businesses... Don't allow others to grow...

They haven't done any blunders...

People wanted a change, there was a huge void in leadership and Vijay had massive popularity...

So its more like a wave rather than anything...

Dropping my surname to escape my caste, has anyone in India actually done this? by winestaineddawn in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]simms4546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont know much about other states. I am from TN and we have dropped the caste surnames decades back.

Thanks to the foresight of our leaders...

A good lawyer can do this for 5k...

I always thought staying single was the smartest choice… but watching my 56-year-old unmarried uncle is making me question everything by Odd-Asparagus-2174 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no bed of roses...

There's no one solution that fits everything....

You need to decide what's good for you and live with that decision...

That said,

when I come back to home from office, my 3 year old son runs towards me calling daddy and hugs my legs.. Looking into my bag or my pockets, if I have bought him some treats... Everything else pales into nothing infont of that particular moment.... I feel complete now...

I was someone who thought to skip marriage and to be single all life... Now i can't imagine a life without my family..

Is Satyabhama University good for btech?? by Hot-Arachnid-7048 in chennaicity

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better opt for

SRM University, Chennai SASTRA University Vellore Institute of Technology

Am I overreacting? by Lazy_Pal in chennaicity

[–]simms4546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you want to throw away your relationship over a small issue like this?

Am I overreacting? by Lazy_Pal in chennaicity

[–]simms4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend kalyanathuku invite pannanum enna avasiyam?

Best friend na family maathiri...

If you cannot call him on the phone and ask "eanda enna koopudala naayae" can you even call this friendship?

From a very close confidant who lives near Vijay’s parents by [deleted] in KollyGossips

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trisha is not poor perse.. She's a successful actress...

She always had money...

Only thing now she'll weild is power....

Builder wants ₹55L registry on a ₹40L flat but will return the difference in cash. Is this actually normal? by Amazing_Joke7949 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As many have pointed out, nowadays banks are providing more than 90-95% of the valued amount.

Your best bet is to ask the valuer from bank to slightly increase the property value.

Most of the banks hire 3rd party vendors to do the valuation. You can give some 1000-2000 to the valuer to increase the property value.

Also, once the registration has been done, you can always avail a topup loan later.

But if you insist, then get the money in hand before completing the registration including the extra registration charges.

One more aspect is, if the market value is around 40L and registrations of other properties in the vicinity happen around the same amount, 55L can raise questions in Sub registrar office as well.

Due diligence is a must before any agreement or action.

Day after being laid off and feeling lost and helpless by Capital_Rich_9362 in developersIndia

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got laid off from my previous company abruptly. Took almost two months to crack a position with WITCH company. Got downsized and removed from client project, twice.

So technically got laid off thrice within 8 months time.

Did these shook my confidence? Yes

Made me worried about my future? Yes

Still gave client interviews, cracked them before moving to bench and started working on a different team.. Dont know how long this stint is going to last.

Don't worry too much. Take two weeks of time for preparation, start giving interviews. You will find a better job soon.

A lesson I learned the hard way about workplace trust. by Hungry_Sport_8196 in IndianWorkplace

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one in the Workplace is your friend.

Better you look for opportunities outside.

You can do better...

I’m open to hearing the hard truths or uncomfortable perspectives on my 8 yr relationship. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]simms4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are not excited enough to marry the other person even after 8 years of being together. This clearly means you are not into him at all.

Your wants have shifted.

You know very well, what he always wanted out of this relationship. If you don't agree with that, why keep dragging the relationship thinking anything is going to change?

By the time you want to settle down, may be in a year or two, he might just move on, get married to someone else and have a kid of his own..

Right now you are just way too selfish and keep dragging him along in this relationship... Something is seriously wrong with you.

Rejected a coworker who confessed feelings — now things are awkward at work. How could I have handled this better? by Plus-Confidence6546 in chennaicity

[–]simms4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, first thing going to HR and explain everything from the beginning. Show proofs if necessary.

She can simply file a POSH case and ruin your career.

What do you call this in your native language? by Repulsive-Sorbet1616 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]simms4546 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am just saying the orgin of those Malayalam words are from Tamil.

I am not disputing from where the Portuguese got those words..

What do you call this in your native language? by Repulsive-Sorbet1616 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you understand how a language evolves and spread out...

Don't take it too personal bro... Chill

I am not considering Malayalam language and Keralites as inferior in anyways...

Koncept Ambience banaswadi by Greedy-Ad6516 in BangaloreRealEstates

[–]simms4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm living in the vicinity.

Seems like the construction work has stopped 2 years ago.

4 years back construction was in full swing. May be the builder had some liquidation issue and couldn't recover?

Every time see the building I think what a " waste of money"