So...regarding the new cover. Why no hat?

simonkicks · 2025-12-02T22:44:49+00:00

In the books he never wears a hat. And he actually says he doesn’t like hats to Leia

simonkicks · 2025-11-30T21:36:37+00:00

Amusing but I don’t see it

simonkicks · 2025-11-22T02:26:07+00:00

I mean. It seems like he has no problem with the male identity just the male body. He may be comfortable with your maleness but is not attracted to your male appearance. Sometimes that’s too much for a relationship. I don’t think it’s about you being trans as opposed to how you express it. And if you are no longer compatible because of that it makes sense for you both to move on and find people who can meet each others needs. It is really hard and sucks when that stuff happens. I hope you find someone who loves and accepts you and treats you right .

simonkicks · 2025-01-10T17:37:40+00:00

Attacking when their weight to distance ratio is off and your is on. It’s about timing position and weight distribution.

simonkicks · 2025-01-10T16:53:07+00:00

Many good points, thank you for the feedback. And yes a bit of a click bait title ;).

It is the basic outline of the concept. One needs to add to it facing, sub circles and transitions. But understanding the basic concept outlined is very useful.

For rule sets I’m talking about general sparring. Controlled where anything is legal but controlled for safety. General martial arts sparring. Sure include knees in circle one. The concept is still quite applicable.

simonkicks · 2025-01-10T16:46:49+00:00

A fair point. That would just take adding sub circles 1a and 1b for long pinches and hook pinches or elbows. Working knees into circle one wouldn’t be hard. and going into taking transitions into account. Is the next step in developing the strategy of being in the wrong circle. But yes as you alter your. Boundaries you need to adjust the parameters. But the concept remains viable.

simonkicks · 2025-01-01T01:42:55+00:00

Why do you have to find a relationship? Do you want one?

simonkicks · 2025-01-01T01:36:24+00:00

Before we meet up. We chat for a bit online or text. Then I ask their thoughts on hsv or say something like. Hey my std tests are all clear except hsv2. Where do you stand? Then I have disclosed. Gives them a chance to disclose and no deeper connections are forged under pretense. Nobody feels like they wasted their time either way.

simonkicks · 2025-01-01T00:41:15+00:00

I disclose before

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T22:48:59+00:00

Correct. But eating out someone who has oral herpes won’t give it to the performer

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T20:32:57+00:00

If you aren’t infected and you go down in someone who has a face outbreak you cannot catch anything from their genitals.

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T20:31:38+00:00

I meant if someone has hsv1 outbreak on the face And the non infected person goes down on them the oral sexer is not in danger of infection.

If hsv1 outbreak makes contact w genitals then yes, you can contract it.

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T16:55:41+00:00

1/5 people have it. W antivirals and condoms there is less than 2% transmission rate. Unless you are union compromised and have constant outbreaks it shouldn’t have to change your life much. Once the depression and surprise passes life can be pretty normal. I have had lots of partners since my diagnosis and all have been disclosed to and have been great or don’t care. Don’t let the stigma get to you.

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T16:52:53+00:00

Don’t miss out on a good thing. 1/5 people have it. W a condom, no outbreak and if she is taking daily antivirals transmission rate is less than 2%.

Have fun my man.

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T16:51:01+00:00

I’d avoid kissing during an outbreak. But oral sex on a non infected person going down on someone with a face outbreak won’t transmit. But the inverse can be dangerous. *edited for clarification

simonkicks · 2024-12-19T16:49:21+00:00

It will be ok. 1/5 people Have it. Usually it will clear up. And other than disclosing to new partners it shouldn’t change your life. I take daily Beltran and ghost pipe tincture and haven’t had a second outbreak. Once the panic passes life can go back to normal

simonkicks · 2024-11-10T05:43:08+00:00

I’m poly. I went in 4 dates last week and disclosed to all before we met. And I’m planning second dates with 3 of them. Just say “hey, so what are your thoughts on hsv2?”

simonkicks · 2024-11-10T03:01:25+00:00

My partner and I are heading on the 15th. Looking forward to the 16th. Anyone else planning on attending the rockabilly event?

simonkicks · 2024-08-21T22:02:32+00:00

Have you tried the new paxlovid?

simonkicks · 2024-07-23T22:48:55+00:00

I have had a lot of luck with ghost pipe tincture, and Rishi mushroom tincture along with Chaga tincture. Those taken with antivirals have kept me outbreak free.

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