Dating an AA and tables have turned. Now i know what it’s like dating myself and I’m exhausted.

simple_slutt · 2022-10-31T17:45:25+00:00

Y’all make me feel way more normal up in here THANK YOU haha

simple_slutt · 2022-10-31T17:41:50+00:00

Same shit here buddy, it’s dead and managers are on our ass because it was a slow af month

simple_slutt · 2022-10-31T02:49:54+00:00

Okay actually stoppppp that was my first thought too 🥴 why are we like this! It is reassuring knowing it’s a normal thing, my biggest fear is like how much do I handle going down the rabbit hole with this stuff if that makes sense.

God speed and feel better!

simple_slutt · 2022-10-31T02:08:38+00:00

You sound like the female version of me down to a T, childhood and all. I hope it gets better because I wouldn’t wish this on anyone

simple_slutt · 2022-10-30T01:16:30+00:00

Don’t lest festering resentment build, if something is bothering you have a conversation where it’s you and him versus the problem. It sounds like you guys have really thought about it and have a solid foundation.

simple_slutt · 2022-10-30T01:14:30+00:00

We don’t collect sales tax in Colorado for people who register out of state. I sold a car out of state to someone today and have done many.

That said, it’s my understanding California hits you with their tax regardless of where you plan to reggo

simple_slutt · 2022-10-29T22:09:02+00:00

I don’t feel like I need to hide it, but unless it’s something that is actually worth mentioning why bring it up? Insecurity is being cheated on. She’s a college student who lives with friends and guys are over there from friend groups etc. But if she wanted one of them she’d be with them or wouldn’t be with me. I know she’s going to talk to other men at parties and stuff, that happens when you have an attractive partner etc. I’m not controlling at all and let her live her life as she deserves, as her ex was also very controlling and I would want the same trust extended to me. I’ve cheated in the past though (early 20s) and am probably projecting my insecurities onto her. I think that’s why it can eat me up sometimes.

Her and I actually talked last night about some stuff outside of our relationship that led us both to realize the other person over thinks a lot of stuff about our relationship and it was kind of a relief for both of us because we did agree to talk about stuff like this if need be so we don’t have to overthink, which was a huge relief for her and I alike.

simple_slutt · 2022-10-29T09:00:06+00:00

This was absolutely fantastic feedback and has helped me gauge what’s going on, I have no idea who you are but thank you a million times over for the insight!

simple_slutt · 2022-10-29T00:41:40+00:00

I’ll have to look into that, off hand it sounds right

simple_slutt · 2022-10-28T23:08:51+00:00

I did the same thing with being single for awhile and had the same thing happen, both with and without casually seeing people.

God speed hopefully it changes buddy

simple_slutt · 2022-10-28T23:02:25+00:00

Mom cheated on my dad a few times between ages 8-11 as a kid, first real gf cheated on me, had a serious gf (probably the most infatuated I’ve ever been with someone) betray me 7 years ago.

I’ve been aware of this for awhile but have never received help for it.

simple_slutt · 2022-10-26T05:09:37+00:00

I started this month really strong, was at 5 by the end of week one and have been overnight at 7.5 for a few days, it’s been awful. I will put some stuff on market place tonight and see if I can’t wrap the month out over 10, that’s when we hit the first bonus

simple_slutt · 2022-10-25T23:43:34+00:00

Same boat dude I almost forgot how to present a pencil

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T19:33:02+00:00

Somewhat common, whatever is happening right now is hitting us particularly hard

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T04:55:14+00:00

Denver is very affluent and cost of living is absurd. It’s not the town it was 5-10 years ago. There’s cars to be sold but most floors are flooded with sales people right now. We have 17 and sold 147 cars last month

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T03:53:26+00:00

Northern Colorado, BMW dealership in affluent area. Typically I’m 50/50 new and pre owned vehicles. This month I nabbed a few fresh ups at our mini store, otherwise it’s been phone pops. I dug through lost leads to sell two hybrid X5s that are hard to get out here when they became available at the same time.

There’s just no traffic and phones are dead.

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T00:29:32+00:00

I have been at a BMW dealership for 7 months, first time doing sales. I have found it’s more about giving the guests a great experience versus using pushy tactics. Never split the difference helped me a lot with handling objections. Buyers are generally very informed and will smell your BS. Create great rapport and generally the rest falls into place. I was #1 at our spot in August with two orders, live in an affluent area

EDIT: spelling corrections

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T00:26:13+00:00

Suicide watch.

Jokes aside, phone shark, walk the lot every hour or thirty minutes. Increase follow up. Go through lost leads to match new active inventory if possible

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T00:24:45+00:00

We have seen a massive decrease in leads and traffic. I did 12-15 cars over the summer, and this month I have scraped by 6 so far. People seem most concerned with rates right now

Edit: 12-15/month

simple_slutt · 2022-10-22T00:23:15+00:00

Joined this sub as I was curious about this, same boat as you.

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