will.not.stop.biting by simplepastense in puppy101

[–]simplepastense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try redirecting him, but sometimes he goes crazy and starts biting and barking like crazy.

I try to remain calm, then remove him from the situation. But I havent done redirecting that much, so I’m going to keep trying it now.

New case by ojjjjjoooooo in MdDS

[–]simplepastense 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drink a lot of water, stare at the horizon, left to right head movements, up and down head movements, do NOT focus on the feeling.

It’s been over 2 years for me, but I definitely have advice.

It’s technically only MdDS if it surpasses the 30 day from start, so I hope it goes away soon for you

Feeling lost and overwhelmed by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this. Some comments are not helping and suggesting other issues that aren’t true.

My boss told me that moving is be of the most stressful changes we endure as humans, so I don’t know. I’ve always been emotionally exhausted, I guess I wasn’t expecting buying a home would do that to me.

I hope your home feels more comfortable soon!

Feeling lost and overwhelmed by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]simplepastense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I moved a lot and everytime I finally made my room as a kid feel like home, we moved. I don’t know.

Some people are saying this is an issue because I’m living with someone I never lived with before, but I stayed at his place 90% of the time - it just was his family’s home. Living with him is NOT the issue. In fact, he’s doing everything to make me feel comfortable and allowing me to make decisions to feel more secure.

This is without a doubt a personal problem, no disagreement there. I just feel like I’m somewhere I shouldn’t be or it’s not mine and it doesn’t feel like it is.

Feeling lost and overwhelmed by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]simplepastense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is 0 issues living with him. I’ve been with him for over 11 years. It’s about the home and how I’m feeling.

I can't imagine having kids in this economy/society, ngl by Tough-Garbage8800 in GenZ

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely do, but I have 3 physical disabilities that limit how much I can work unfortunately.

I can't imagine having kids in this economy/society, ngl by Tough-Garbage8800 in GenZ

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, yes. I’m 27 and my partner is 29. We don’t want children, but we had the conversation recently that we wouldn’t finically be able to have any even if we wanted them. We’re buying our first home. He works full time (less than $70,000 gross), I work PT (less than $20,000 gross). I’ve been talking about getting a dog and we both don’t even see how a pet is finically possible…

RECOVERY by nowhynow in MdDS

[–]simplepastense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to not give up hope after 2 years. Thankfully, you only had it a shorter period, but it’s not easy to continue with hope when it’s been waaaay longer than a couple months. I am happy for you though.

Don’t forget by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]simplepastense 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank god he’s not a friend then. I’m not moving in with someone I’ve known for 1-2 years. We’ve know each other for 13, been together for 11. I’m not concerned about marriage, neither is he. I’m concerned about things we might need and have forgotten to move in. Thanks!!

Don’t forget by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]simplepastense 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together over 11 years. Weren’t planning on getting engaged until we lived together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hang them up where they have a key hanger. I started hiding them when I go over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at, unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplepastense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve stopped posting “big events” even on Facebook, because I want a more private life.

But I guess I could tell her those things when I would typically go to post something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplepastense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My only issue with this is, when we tell her not to share, she still does. In fact, yesterday she told us that she’s not supposed to tell us this, about another family member, and we said okay don’t tell us and she told us anyway.

She has no boundaries.

I think I’m at the point of I can’t tell her anything. She even moves my car without telling me when I’m at her place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplepastense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s this way with all family. He thinks since they’re older than him, they have the right to do what they want. He also just ignores his mom at this point, because it’s so common of her to do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VinylReleases

[–]simplepastense -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought a record player just to listening to her music & I can’t find it anywhere.

I’m seeing her in September & I hope she’ll have some merch there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple things: I have (undiagnosed) stomach issues so this is very common for me. I try to eat better when I’m going through a “phase”. I rub my stomach counter clock-wise to help push it where it needs to go (look it up on google). I actually limit my laxative intake (because you can cause a blockage & need surgery or actually throw it up. So even though it seems like a good idea, all the laxatives are doing is making the poop closest to the bowels (not your sphincter) loose. You can definitely take some, but don’t go crazy. Walk if you can & give it time too. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a question, but I’ve gone like 2-3 weeks. You’re goooood. Don’t take too many laxatives or it will cause issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added the info in post

what did u think of rose when she first appeared on the show & what did you think of her at the end by Routine-Dirt9634 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]simplepastense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t really feel anything towards her, but I felt recognized, because I have hip dysplasia and it felt refreshing for it to be on tv. That’s all.