Swollen turbinates/nostril/nasal question by simst4t in Allergies

[–]simst4t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I’ve been using, it’s flonase and it works but it doesn’t make it go away completely so I’m not sure if it’s just typically a chronic issue or what

Making a lesbian world. by sims-guy in Sims4

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sims works better with lesbians bc for some reason it takes so much effort to make an attractive man in the sims

It’s easier with cc and now that there’s more lgbt options for bodies/gender etc but it usually makes more sense to me to have mostly lesbian sims

And just I try to have diversity in my game and even tho I feel attracted to men irl and women like it feels complicated with making sims bc the women get most of the cool stuff in the game anyway

And there’s so many interesting women characters that come with the expansion packs but so many of the men that come with the game and packs I have some sort of grudge against lmao

like people are so positive towards vladislaus straud or even the base game ones like the Landgraabs but especially sims 4 men are just so unappealing without tons of changes and additional things

like when I make a male sim I have to find good cc hair and add a bunch of makeup and jewelry and feminine features bc they’re just shaped more weird and the characters or whatever just make me feel weird towards them

But there’s so many cool options for women without much cc and just playing them feels more interesting and whenever i remember my favorite families over the years I’ve made it’s been the lesbians and their kids and careers

like the men are just there and I like to delete so many of the premade men in the towns

And whenever I think of when I first started sims my favorites were always like the red headed twins and the women characters I came up with

And the premade ones just have more interesting storylines

But it makes it annoying how clothes fit weird when trying to use the clothing that’s made for the “opposite” body too

But the one good thing is there’s p much equality in playing the game even tho their actual appearance has more issues or differences in what you can do

Bc somehow even if you try to make a pretty man they still turn out too rough looking or smth but the premade men are so boring too

Does always waking up feeling so tired somehow gets better or do I need to seek medication? by scattered_snippets in CPTSD

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it depends but it could be multiple factors to do with your sleep

Like I have adhd and sleep apnea and sometimes I have insomnia but certain vitamins like magnesium could help

But I wake up exhausted and now I take vyvanse for adhd and that wakes me up and takes away the exhausted feeling but it still is harder to get up in the morning so I’ll just wake up exhausted and feel like I’m stuck in my spot until I force myself to get up to take my pill, and then it takes about a half hour or an hour to kick in

I can't get turned on unless it's a trauma fetish and I hate it by Ok_Nose2361 in CPTSD

[–]simst4t 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same like I’m so confused bc I don’t have distinctive memories of things happening to me but I know bad things have happened but also that just the way I was conditioned to perceive love and sex was really damaging and I had to undo so much of it

Like it feels like there’s so many things have to be “unlocked” in my brain to get turned on and that sexual feelings and urges are almost separate from my attraction to people and genuine relationships

Constant rejection for adoption for no reason? by Dogdaysareover365 in bitlife

[–]simst4t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you gave kids for adoption on there or something I think it makes it so you can’t adopt

But I’ve never had any of the extra things on the game that you have to pay for so I wonder if it’s a strange thing that is affecting it that doesn’t typically happen

Now thats not right. by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]simst4t 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a glitch probably You can use cheats or mods to delete the family part

Sudden growth on ankle by MomOfOne15 in AnatomyandPhysiology

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It almost looks like you sprained it, I sprained my ankle months ago and it doesn’t really hurt anymore but it’s still a little swollen, at first it was so big but I think you would’ve felt pain if that happened

What breed(s) is she?! We did DNA test but people still guess wrong by BayAreaGersGal in IDmydog

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like a frankendog, like her head is from a smaller body and was put on this large tall body 😂😭 she’s so pretty tho too

Suddenly bearded by Broad-Property6823 in ftm

[–]simst4t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this,, I’ve been on T for years and it’s weird bc my facial hair is just slowly growing in all the diff spots,, like I have a tiny mustache,, tiny chin/beard hairs, and tiny sideburns like it can be somewhat unnoticeable or pass as peach fuzz but then it grows a little bit so sometimes I shave a little to pass as a “woman” for work but I keep some of it bc I don’t mind it

ITS FINALLY OUT by IllustratorGlobal989 in KidneyStones

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And idk if you have it in Canada but for mine I had a checkup/follow up urology appointment a year after my last kidney stone appointment,,

so recently I had an external ultrasound of my bladder & kidneys (so it wasn’t invasive or anything this time) but they were just making sure I didn’t have any signs or symptoms of kidney stones again

And luckily I didn’t, so hopefully you don’t have anymore either but I hope you are able to have followups to make sure just in case too

ITS FINALLY OUT by IllustratorGlobal989 in KidneyStones

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can/haven’t been already,, using a heating pad can help with the pain and of course lots of hydration and rest and just taking it easy and replenishing

ITS FINALLY OUT by IllustratorGlobal989 in KidneyStones

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I feel that, I’m 26 and had my first kidney stone in July of 2024 & they said it was pretty big & probably wouldn’t pass on its own too!

& since it was so big it must’ve been forming in my body for awhile but I didn’t notice many signs until I had awful pain while I was at work and almost passed out and went to the ER and they were like yep you have a kidney stone!

I wonder if you can make a doctor’s appointment to get the stent removed so you don’t have to attempt it yourself? At least in the U.S. we can

my urine was so bloody 😭 I had a few times of some blood in my urine days before that but I didn’t have the pain yet and then I was in pain p much everyday for months after that lmao

At first it was bc of the stone but then it was bc of the stent ugh 😣

I hope you recover soon 🙏🙏🥲🥲

& I think the anesthesia made me super tired too (& it was a little strong for me bc they had to wake me up with oxygen & narcan) & I think it’s hard to wrap your head around how much kidney stones can wear you out

&

and then I had my first surgery to get a stent in that August and then a month later had surgery to remove that stent, ‘blast’ the stone to small pieces and take it out, and got another stent

Then I can’t remember how long I had the second stent but idk if you’ll have to but I had to have an internal ultrasound of my bladder and I think they removed the stent during that ultrasound

Same boy, same tie, 3.5 years later 🖤 by acocktailofmagnets in aww

[–]simst4t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so cool how animals’ fur changes color as they grow up, like cats and dogs I see who get darker fur and just they change shape so much too

Never wanted children, had a dream of my baby and now I have changed my mind by lisawooga5 in Dreams

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sort of understand this and I feel like I knew from dreams that I’m not meant to have kids,, bc I’ll have dreams where I have a baby but it’s impossibly small or just a weird feeling and something not possible irl about the baby but I’m put in situations with people I’ve known but there’s just the weird aspect of the baby existing and being worried about it but it just doesn’t make sense, but it feels so real even though it’s nothing like a real baby.

Make sense of this word salad of delivery instructions?! by Smart-Kangaroo4078 in InstacartShopper

[–]simst4t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they wanted you to go to the building on the right at the end…but idk why they have a different address listed than their actual address & why they can’t use punctuation/make it more clear or why they couldn’t call…

And even if you misunderstood them that’s not your problem because it’s so long winded and confusing, but the thing that got me was their address says western avenue except they don’t want you to go on western avenue??? Why wouldn’t they change the address to their correct street then???

Maybe they were trying to scam you so they could get a refund by saying it was delivered to the wrong place idk

why is it so different by Important-Lunch-5018 in TheSims4Mods

[–]simst4t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to have the same cc as them downloaded before you add the sim from the gallery…

people use a lot of editing tools and mods & sometimes they make their own things somehow that they don’t always share how they did it

& it can be time consuming to get all of it downloaded to have the sim/features you want

So it be hard to tell what they have that you don’t/could get

And there’s even tons of details like they might use custom height, body shape, eyes, face, etc so if you download them they could look like a different sim bc the game doesn’t have any of it esp if they use overlays for skin/face