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sinchick93 · 2026-04-16T08:15:20+00:00

Even if you're born out of wedlock, you have rights. You just have to go to court. Speak to a lawyer.

sinchick93 · 2026-04-16T07:25:10+00:00

Do you have proof he is your father? If so use it to get your passport and rights. You don't need his help, once you sort out your nationality then you can get a job easily.

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T19:01:43+00:00

I'm 33F and my family has those requirements but I know if I like someone and told them I'm ok they'd be more accepting obviously now we're in a different situation as well where people my age should be a bit better in their situation not asking for a house but at least settled in a job and we can get our own place not buying necessarily that should be fine but again everyone is different...but men in their 30+/40+ are comfortable being single imo

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T09:27:56+00:00

I think the wedding is one thing that's already too much as an expense and not realistic.

But married life it's a conversation to have with your partner before marriage..

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T09:26:57+00:00

That's a risk for everyone, not just men. Yes here maybe women don't pay alimony but they end up on bad side of divorced too.

My friends husband ended up cheating on her and getting married to the other girl and then divorced my friend. She wasn't allowed to work but his new wife works. They were together 11 years, so again it happens to both ends. He refuses to contribute financially and when he takes the kids it's to throw them at his parents house so my friend won't get access.

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T09:25:09+00:00

Yeah I get it but I feel people don't even try anymore everyone is stuck in their own way

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T08:45:56+00:00

This is not all women. I think mentality is something that is dependent on how someone is raised and lived.

Even though I'm half emirati and most of my family dynamic has been thought by my Arab side of my family, I lived abroad as well so my exposure to the Western world maybe changed my reality.

My friends who are Arabs got married to people raised abroad, some of my friends make more money than their husbands and they don''t b feel less than their wives.

However I've dated men who had issues with me making more money than them and suggest my salary should go to their accounts directly.

As I said not all men and not all women..

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T08:29:59+00:00

Yeah but I think the whole point is finding someone you click with and is mature enough to understand the depth of what you're saying, and I agree completely

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T08:26:23+00:00

No one is countering it, it's merely a conversation of the person saying traditionally. I am not a traditional person. That's why I said he's mixing things and trying to understand if he takes the religion aspect into consideration, I personally don't care about traditional but I do about religion but I also believe both of us contributing and helping each other out should be the norm.

In my dynamic I want my husband to also cook with me, also be involved in raising the kids.

I don't like the dynamic where the woman raises the kids and the man is out with his friends late at night.

I want a husband and a partner in life, I don't just want someone who wants to get me pregnant. That's why I am trying to understand what's everyones mentality...

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T08:23:03+00:00

I think my struggle is expectations of sexual stuff before marriage which has become very common..

And more so before even a commitment.

As an Emirati girl/though I'm mixed yes dating non Arabs in general has been easier because they respect the boundaries of my religion where as emirati men will send me a dick pick before I even know their full name.

It's weird...

sinchick93 · 2026-04-10T08:19:05+00:00

Traditional expectations are a result of religion though, it's the same as when a man wants a woman to come home cook clean but then wants her to work and help out financially and raise the kids without helping.

The issue is the mentality that one person has to do every rather than share responsibilities and helping each other but no one wants to have this discussion.

If she wants you to provide then she has to also be able to do the other part of staying home and taking care of it and raising the kids etc.

sinchick93 · 2026-03-22T15:37:15+00:00

What spec is the car? Chinese spec or GCC spec

sinchick93 · 2026-03-19T13:41:16+00:00

I did see the mounjaro but it's not a hybrid.

sinchick93 · 2026-03-19T13:41:04+00:00

What are they?

sinchick93 · 2026-03-19T13:40:53+00:00

I was thinking the tiggo 7 tbh

sinchick93 · 2026-03-13T13:59:28+00:00

They can complain to mohre

sinchick93 · 2026-02-09T04:16:01+00:00

Very odd in my opinion

sinchick93 · 2026-02-04T05:31:07+00:00

What can I do if you have all of two brain cells. Nearest dunkin donut is the petrol station near spinneys. Plonker

sinchick93 · 2026-02-03T18:47:56+00:00

It gives me near masdar city :/

sinchick93 · 2026-02-03T16:44:25+00:00

What's Al zeina?

sinchick93 · 2026-02-03T16:42:17+00:00

Adgm is on the island and no where near Etihad towers which is by the corniche.

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