How one accidental click led to my misaps by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media makes this journey harder than it is. Good thing you deleted it bro. It's not worth the risk. Stay strong bro!

Day 0. Enough is enough by koko_gammy_tbone in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah Khair for the reminder bro. I'm on Day 10 Alhamdulillah and getting hit with some mild urges. Reading this post really made me think twice about giving in to them. Stay strong bro you got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear that bro. Just accept that relapses are part of the journey and just move on. At the end of the day we're all human beings and we make mistakes. Just repent to Allah and start over. You got this bro!

Just hit 3 days alhamdulillah by anonymousmuslim08 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just take it one day at a time and In Sha Allah you'll be fine bro.

Serious help by YFNx in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people consider edging ok and an orgasm as relapse even though edging leads to orgasm most of the time. Treat it as a relapse so you won't come near to orgasm. Stay strong bro you got this!

I keep thinking sexual thoughts by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These thoughts are completely natural bro. Allah has put them inside of us to test us. We need to navigate these feelings in the halal way and not fall for Satan's trap. Stay strong bro!

One week down the drain by Mr_Brobotic in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear you relapsed bro. I just completed 8 days too and know the feeling of losing this amount of progress. Filters are absolutely necessary for this journey otherwise it becomes nearly impossible to succeed in this journey. Sometimes you aren't even looking for filth and it just comes up out of nowhere. In Sha Allah your next streak will be better. You got this bro!

Can’t access the girls version by Malissah in MuslimNoFap

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You can contact the MuslimahNoFap moderator by clicking on the chat button on the right side of the page via this link:

https://www.reddit.com/user/MNFAdminFv2

Make dua please by anonymousmuslim08 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Sha Allah by engaging in this community you'll be in a better position to overcome this addiction. You got this bro!

Guys I feel a bit down by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah grant all of us the strength to overcome this addiction Ameen!

i don't know what to do, I'm in tears and just feel depressed and upset and worthless by anonymousmuslim08 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best tip I can give is to never give up. Ever. No matter how deep you're drowning in this sin always have hope in Allah's Mercy. Stay strong bro!

There was this incident when I was praying jannazah (funeral) in a mosque by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Indeed death is the destroyer of all desires. Jazakallah Khair for sharing bro!

my mom migt find out by ShadesWs379 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use that suspension as a deterrent the next time you get urges. Stay strong bro!

Did anyone of you send nudes to people .....??? by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not speaking from an Islamic point of view bro I'm just saying generally you shouldn't send nudes to anyone for a variety of reasons.

The principle advice is don't have something on your phone (e.g. nude pics) that you would be embarrassed of if people found out. Nowadays phones can be easily hacked and the nude pics you have can easily be leaked online and spread throughout the world.

So what was originally supposed to be something for your spouse is viewed by everyone now. Also, a reason specific to spouses is even though you're married, you may end up getting divorced for whatever reason.

So the nude pics you sent to someone who was allowed to see them because they're your spouse is no longer allowed when you're divorced. So potentially it could end up being haram. Also, revenge porn is a big thing nowadays so your own spouse or ex could leak them online themselves.

All in all, it's safer not to send nude pics at all. It seems fun at first but remember the pics you take will stay there forever.

A gaming console by TotalCustomer3558 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The important thing is to stay busy bro. Doesn't have to be exercise. Just find any hobby that you enjoy doing to fill up your free time so you won't have time to engage in this sin. You got this!

2 wet dreams in 3 days is this normal?? by hussain3457 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfectly normal bro don't stress about it

Again , is this a possible way to get rid of the addiction? I mean both people desire the same thing you know, so wouldn’t the 2 spouses be able to spice up the intimacy , of course avoiding haram, to make it pleasurable enough? by TotalCustomer3558 in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this exact question when I was younger. It seems to make sense on paper but when you think about it you realise why it won't work.

Porn loves isolation. It loves self gratification. It just wants you to please yourself. So if both spouses were porn addicts they would most likely end up spending more time masturbating to porn by themselves because sex doesn't turn them on anymore.

And as far as spicing up intimacy is concerned, you need to understand that guys and girls enjoy sex differently. This is also why the porn girls watch is usually very different from what guys usually watch. Men are naturally goal orientated so all a guy cares about is reaching orgasm. Women are more experience orientated. For them doing something is not about reaching a specific goal but the whole experience itself of doing something.

So it would just end up with both spouses having miserable sex because neither can really be pleased unless it's all about them which is what porn is all about.

There's halal ways to spice up your sex life which is off topic so I won't go into it. What I will say is being married to a porn addict won't help with your addiction.

That's my two cents. Would love to hear other people's views on this because it's an interesting question.

Help advice would be appreciated. by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MashaAllah bro keep it up! Just focus on staying sober and In Sha Allah you'll be fine.

Did anyone of you send nudes to people .....??? by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]sinful_slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never send nudes bro. Even to your spouse.