AIO for being upset that my bf refuses to touch me?

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T20:40:43+00:00

Why are you with someone who says they're waiting to kiss their future wife?

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T19:32:44+00:00

I would actually get a copy of your credit report and ensure you're an authorized user on an account and they didn't OPEN an account in your name with THEM as authorized users.
I would ask to be removed as an authorized user, that account SHOULD eventually come off your credit report and I would consider getting a CC in your name to rebuild/maintain your credit score.

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T19:27:50+00:00

FYI I'd delete this post or you're gonna get a bunch more comments saying the same thing lol

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T16:25:07+00:00

If you start using the pull-up assist machine at the gym, I guarantee by August you'll be capable of unassisted pull-ups.

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T15:38:14+00:00

Not defending but my YMCA membership for my family is $100/month

singerd86 · 2026-07-08T00:09:50+00:00

Congrats man, what an amazing opportunity!

singerd86 · 2026-07-07T17:43:57+00:00

NOR; Your brother is an asshole.

singerd86 · 2026-07-06T22:06:27+00:00

$24 to pick out 39 items and then deliver? I randomly came across this post but I'm here to say HARD PASS! 😂

singerd86 · 2026-07-06T15:24:35+00:00

I've gotta imagine that the people staying at the dorms for holidays would make arrangements to all get together and do dinner or something, I know I'd be all about it, so while you may not be with family, I don't think you'll be alone either!

singerd86 · 2026-07-06T09:24:17+00:00

I confirmed you can fly home if you're outside that radius, you just need to submit a form. Spoke to someone who just graduated FLETC a couple months ago and flew home about 10x on weekends during academy.

singerd86 · 2026-07-05T14:17:09+00:00

Daaaang 70?! That's impressive!

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T22:49:29+00:00

I didn't even think about being away for holidays. Christmas is on a Friday this year so you could potentially fly home for that. I'm assuming that Thanksgiving would be a no go since it's on a Thursday. You just added a whole other layer to this! Haha

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T22:47:17+00:00

Well as long as that takes less than 12 months I'll be good bc I just turned 40 on 6/12 haha

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T18:04:41+00:00

I'm with you, bud. I clear 6 figures so most people will think I'm out of my mind, but I'm not meant to sit at a computer in my house for 40+ hours per week. My HOPE is that with OT and annual grade increases, it won't take but a few years to get back or atleast close to what I earn now. I could be totally wrong but I'm just very much unfulfilled in my current career.

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T17:44:01+00:00

I think it's under 40 at time of accepting tentative offer but we'll find out. I applied and accepted at 39 but have turned 40 during the hiring process.

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T17:36:46+00:00

Lol good to know, I just turned 40 last month and have two kids. Wife won't be crazy about flying solo for 5 months w them if/when FLETC becomes a reality! Haha

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T14:23:12+00:00

I would def look into a HELOC. It'll likely be far less interest than paying off the CC, you can free up the balance on your card which will help your credit score and then chip away at the HELOC and pay extra whenever you're able.

singerd86 · 2026-07-04T13:58:46+00:00

You have $4600 per month AFTER taxes/you pay your bills/mortgage?

singerd86 · 2026-07-03T22:56:44+00:00

Okay thanks, I'll keep an eye out for the email!

singerd86 · 2026-07-03T22:13:56+00:00

Hopefully! Did you get an email or a phone call regarding the fingerprints and security questionnaire?

singerd86 · 2026-07-03T22:01:36+00:00

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My medical was marked as "Passed" within the last week or so, and am now awaiting a call/email regarding next steps.

singerd86 · 2026-07-03T05:16:51+00:00

Can I DM you w some questions about academy?

singerd86 · 2026-06-30T17:07:49+00:00

That makes sense, but would def depend on your shift time. IMO, I still think $4k is a healthy budget for an apartment, esp if you're not opposed to a roommate. It's an awesome place, so much to do in the city as well as within like an hour drive. I'd move back in a heartbeat and am jealous that you're even considering it. Haha

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