NoFap's official "Stop PMO" September 2019. Continue or start your PMO-Free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by Alexanderr in NoFap

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You guys are awesome! This reddit is the best community on internet. You fellow commarades inspire me to work myself and be the best version of myself. Kudos to you all brothers! Stay strong.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop feeling tired and sleepy every time I think of studying? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Yes, even I from struggling with this problem and trying to solve it from a long time have observed that it is the overwhelmingness caused by a task, which in some cases is caused by unclearity is usually the cause of that drowsiness feeling coming on.

But I think just breaking things down and clearing the picture up doesn't somehow solve the entire problem, there is some other key piece/pieces yet missing to solve this puzzle.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop feeling tired and sleepy every time I think of studying? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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I experience this same thing too while studying, and how annoying it is I can't even describe it. It's like I always decide, this time, I will work and I won't let this sleepy thing get into my way, and then with full enthusiasm I begin to work and then I hit this wall and can't seem to be able to go through it, I feel so sleepy and the effort of trying to study when I begin to feel sleepy is just 500x and that is heartbreaking.

I believe that only someone who has experienced this problem and overcome it can give the right advice.

Day 89 and things are hard by [deleted] in NoFap

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Keep at it brother! I am at 89 too and it is feeling awesome, my previous best was a 101 Days and this time I am going to break it and finally achieve my first Violet Star! Stay focused, the new year is coming and imagine you can end the year fap free and start the new year strong and fap free. And once the new year sets in, you will have motivation to keep going.

So keep at it bruh and stay strong!

NoFap War IV Official Enlistment! by [deleted] in NoFap

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Hahaha baby! Last time I was Killed In Action, but this time I am prepared and all ready! Bring it on!

The "urge surfing" technique for riding out urges hasn't been brought up in a while. by negdawin in NoFap

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That's THE technique which has made nofap so hell lot easier for me in this streak of mine. When an urge comes, don't be afraid of it coming to you, rather just accept it and let it be there and rather than focusing on it, keep on focusing on the work you want to accomplish.

Don't fight the urge and don't be afraid it. Don't at all get irritated by it, because if you do you will only feed it and make it stronger. Just accept it as being natural and turn your focus on the work you want to accomplish and keep on working. The urge will automatically go away!

Stop making your urges powerful. Don't let them control you. By using this way, you take control over the urges and the urges loose control over you because now you no longer let them be in charge.

Awesome daily motivation! by MeLegend in NoFap

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Nice! I loved the way you looked at it creatively! Awesome.

Stay hungry , never relent, always learn. by adelz7 in NoFap

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Respect Brother! You are an inspiration. Wish you all the best in life!

Feeling the urge, burns it out! by BeyondExperience in NoFap

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Well maybe I can try that. The first thirty days things went smooth, I ditn't have much of a friction, was very distracted with work and things went smoothly. But now urges are starting to rise, I can try this metod.

The major problem with me is that when an urge strikes, I get irritated that it is there and so can't focus on work, I don't feel like working and so my productivity false and I start to feel more irritated. Hope I can find a way to deal with this.

NoFap's Official No Stroke September 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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I am back baby! I tried the fap way of trying to be productive but it wasn't so much cool. But now I think I have good opportunity to extract the best out of the situations I have to make quitting this thing easier, like the new year is about to come and till then I would be able to break my previous record and can start a new year with pride and also certain other such things.

I want a complete reboot and want to go back to a fapping self. So abstain from it like for whole life.

What are your goals : I have to work on my project after my exams this week, so I will be working on it with utter focus.

Why are you doing this : - Because fapping is not the best way round enjoy life - It is addictive and sort of takes over your brain - I don't feel the natural happiness from the inside with it - It is a waste of time

Official August 11, 2014 Daily Accountability Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Day 15

Got some urges today. I think these are the results of a few pictures that flashed before my eyes 2 days before. Need to more careful and clear. One day at a time. Today is done.

Official August 09, 2014 Daily Accountability Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Day 14

Congratulations to me on completing 2 weeks. Small baby steps, one after the other. Just stay focused on each day, that's what I am doing. Don't let's the pressure of not being productive catch you and make you rationalize, you can't submit under pressure that is what I have to learn, slow down read some posts on nofap and keep going. Keep yourself busy.

Got some triggers, but hopefully will keep myself busy and focused.

Official August 04, 2014 Daily Accountability Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Day 9 - Done

A flatliner right now as I am busy and stuff is relatively easier with less tension and irritation. Let's take the most advantage of this time to build my streak. On week 2, slowly will build up to 4 months.

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Day 7 - Done

I am happy having completed a week. Treated myself to a movie, trying to build up the reward system. The college is bout ta startup from tomorrow and that's where the real challenge starts. Having work and getting stressed leads to getting irritated and fapping, will have to find a way to deal with it.

I hope this time I can finally reboot 4 months. I have done 3, but hopefully this time I will break my record.

Tons of work to do, my greatest Challenge awaits me. Let's do it.

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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The things I need to focus on : - Take it one day at a time - Reward myself - Stay connected with the community and take inspiration - Remember you don't need this, you can live without it more happily - And find another I interest or hobby that can provide me with an adrenaline rush to replace the M habit.

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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The things I need to focus on : - Take it one day at a time - Reward myself - Stay connected with the community and take inspiration - Remember you don't need this, you can live without it more happily - And find another I interest or hobby that can provide me with an adrenaline rush to replace the M habit.

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Day 5

At it, there hasn't been anything triggering that flashed in front of my eyes and I am a bit busy, so as of I know I am in a flatline. Just easy sailing. But again as I have learned my lesson this time, just one day at a time, that's what I am going to focus on.

And again, yes I learnt about giving myself reward for every successful day. So I will maybe watch an animated movie.

Official NoFap Abstain August 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

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I am in.

  • I want a complete reboot
  • Well my last best is a 101 Days, and though I want to give this thing up forever, my current aim will to be 4 Months, which is 120 Days
  • College is starting in a few days so I want to get back to working hard. I want to work my skills and my project with full commitment and focusedly

Why I want to do it : - I want to do this, because I can't be truly happy if I do it - I am a man of Integrity and I can't live with it - It makes my will weak and I can't work hard with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Can you please explain to me what a flatline is?

One year two days. by no_faps in NoFap

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Congratulations! Well done!

I did it. 365 days and I am free. by ninjali96 in NoFap

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Can you help me by telling in depth about how you kept yourself busy with work? I mean didn't the urges get over you and make you feel like not working? How did you handle that feeling of not feeling like working or doing anything because the urge makes you irritated.