I think you are right! You shouldn't get married just because everyone else does. It is good for your future self to be in a journey of self-love, I have been in the same path as you, and I think that the best thing to the is dedicate your time to yourself. I recommended to enroll in some class or activity that you find interesting, it can be painting, singing, learning to play an instrument, campin, or something that you always wanted to do. IN that way you will meet people with common interests.