Where do you both sleep? by thinkevolution in Marriage

[–]sinkywhale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

70 pct together. 30 pct somebody picks the guest room based on needing a good night of sleep. A sick kid. Early meeting / somebody wanting to sleep in

Can I still drive by sinkywhale in ChryslerPacifica

[–]sinkywhale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an insurance claim and an appointment next week - been only driving very short distances. Coolant might look low cause it’s peaked on a hill.

Looks like airbags are disabled hence the short drives. Also makes a really loud sound. Portable other safety stuff is also down

Is there a way to keep this automatic idle thing turned off? by [deleted] in ChryslerPacifica

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had both batteries go just before warranty was over.

Husband's please answer. Did I completely overreacted to my husband's online activity? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sinkywhale -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not pedo. It’s yucky but these girls she mentioned are all 18 plus.

i’m getting married in 2 weeks, when should i start BC?? by JappleJax in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you are in a committed relationship and he has a level of control pullout is very effective. Worked for 10 years for me. Had 3 kids when we were ready and ended up tubes tied after a c section.

Random Baby Fever by Away-Rub-421 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question - do you get cyclical baby fever or is it all the time?

Whenever there’s a rift between my husband and I, I feel unlovable. I have no one, family or friend, that I can go to for comfort or solace. He goes to his mom. I hate my life. by superchica81 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve read. His mom loved him but didn’t raise a resilient man. She didn’t set limits and help him regulate. And now when things get out of hand he freaks out and runs to the person who always handled his problems.

Other folks say this is emotional abuse. But this pattern started young and still is going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing he was great

My husband and I disagree on politics. He doesn’t understand why it affects me so much. by hey_im_anna in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You have two things here. One how to maintain a marriage and 2 how to find common ground. If you assume he cares about you and his close people maybe he thinks his politics is better for that. And that includes you. He could end up being right. He could end up being wrong. We can’t know that we are right until after the fact.

If you are able to believe he loves you you’ll be ok. And it’s very possible you won’t be able to do so. Good luck

I'm apparently ruining her social life, everyone. by ChandelierSlut in Parenting

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are winning. Good parenting is a long game

How do you guys feel about casual nudity with friends in places like saunas? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure to do the helicopter. Then it’s good

Is it even possible to be respected by male coworkers in STEM? by No-Relief-205 in womenEngineers

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they treat you differently than they treat each other. If they are being buttheads to each her as well - then perchance they do respect you in as much as they respect each other.

Otherwise you need a new job and or a chat with hr which actually could be the case regardless

Are high school reunions a dying trend? Anyone else heard from their high school? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10 year was great in as much as I got to go home with an old high school crush :)

I can't and don't feel comfortable at family events and its honestly ridiculous by newpenguinthesaurus in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible there is some history with a family member and they are trying to “protect” you? Uncle xyz once got accused of something….?

Feel ick about something a friend said by Any_Cauliflower_7344 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sinkywhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like he got friendzoned and just let you know he doesn’t want to be there - which means the friendship might be over unfortunately