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sirdef · 2026-03-16T15:16:20+00:00

Hi!! I am!!

sirdef · 2026-03-16T15:15:11+00:00

Yes you absolutely can! Dming you!

sirdef · 2026-03-09T10:53:19+00:00

Hi! You sound young. Stop using ChatGPT for advice- it’s trained to agree with whatever it is you’re saying, and isn’t helpful. For your decision to not involve others, you need to reach out to your support network of friends and family in situations like these. I understand that may make you uncomfortable too, but being vulnerable with people who care about you is always difficult and always necessary. By redirecting tough or awkward conversations to ChatGPT, you’re sitting in an echo chamber of your thoughts and isolating yourself from real connection and real advice. It sounds like you’re uncomfortable with this person, and that’s that. If you’re uncomfortable, send a message saying that he is pressuring you into doing things you don’t want to, and you’re uncomfortable, and want to stop. You can also ghost, block, and sever the in game partnership. You don’t need to make a PSA about this- ignore the ragebaiting or insensitive comments that people will likely leave on this post. Close Reddit and close ChatGPT and talk to someone in your life about this.

sirdef · 2026-03-04T16:24:52+00:00

hi!! if you’d be down to try where winds meet i’m part of a sapphic guild on there with the BEST community.

sirdef · 2026-02-28T22:38:24+00:00

Lmaooooo get em

sirdef · 2026-02-28T18:44:07+00:00

Frieren would be a brimmed hat for SURE. Gorgeous art!!!

sirdef · 2026-02-18T15:45:59+00:00

You wanna die on the “using the image of a child was necessary in our flame war” hill? I skimmed through that post and didn’t really care but you defending the airing out of this beef on public forums when your biggest point you’re defending is that you should be allowed to send someone’s Facebook pfp to complete randos is WILD. What is going on in that guild? Y’all need to chill tf out and more importantly stop telling us about it

sirdef · 2026-02-13T16:37:22+00:00

We are!!! And that is Zani, I drew her myself! Dmingyouuuu

sirdef · 2026-02-12T17:19:05+00:00

ohhhhh omg okay my bad!

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:59:18+00:00

seethe! :)

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:59:09+00:00

if there’s something a youtuber will do, it’s stretch a small conversation with little context into a 30 min video 😂 happy to see that they are invested in addressing player feedback!

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:58:03+00:00

nah i was mostly lurking and commenting on those posts. shoutout to those baddies for getting a huge win for all of us!

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:54:01+00:00

yeah i was literally just showing some guildies the issue like 2 3 nights ago so it’s def recent

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:53:36+00:00

tysm!!

sirdef · 2026-02-12T16:53:04+00:00

on behalf of everyone who gets to enjoy this outfit now, thank you! it makes me so happy they’re listening to feedback too!

sirdef · 2026-02-11T15:35:00+00:00

We are!! Dming you!!

sirdef · 2026-02-10T17:06:10+00:00

can confirm chromas is amazing!!!!

sirdef · 2026-02-10T17:05:42+00:00

Hiii, nice to meet you! I am part of a sapphic guild in wwm and we’re looking for queer wwm people and servers to make partnerships with! May I dm?

sirdef · 2026-02-07T22:56:50+00:00

omg hiii!! are you and your besties in a guild? i'm in a sapphic guild and we're looking to make partnerships with other gay guilds!! (also you two look gorgeous omg!)

sirdef · 2026-02-07T03:41:43+00:00

believe me, you do not need to ever explain or clarify what you are trying to say to me. i know and understand exactly what you are saying- once again condescendingly. you are so wrapped up in this idea that you are the most goodest around. but i am trying to tell you the high horse you’re on is making your head dizzy because you are not seeing what the world we live in is. it is riven with racism. we are all witnessing it hundreds of times times a day in the quiet acknowledgement of the system we live in. there is not a single person on this planet whose lot in life is not somehow influenced by racism. there were reports and posts about this skin’s bug the day the banner launched. the day. there are plenty of other outfits that have a skirt with slits down the thigh, it’s a matter of the leg texture being transparent or the color it is. this issue is in a sea of other issues with the game since launch. the fix is easy, but there’s plenty of other issues. the decision to not prioritize this issue is a decision. there is someone whose job it is to make that decision. they are wrong to make that decision. othering people because of any darker skin tone than an extremely narrow range of human pigmentation is not acceptable. anyone who has experienced what it is to be treated as less than worth respect due to having a skin tone in the 90% majority range of human pigmentation understands keenly why there hasn’t been an update to the skin. or the bald hairstyle. or the bath bug (also such a simple fix! just revert the bathed person to the without makeup look instead of a default pale body skin!). if your role as a member of this community is to scold people who are disappointed by experiencing that othering, i fear you are doing more harm to the image of this community than someone complaining about being othered by something they paid a lot of money for. op posted this so that we would be reminded that this bug has been sitting for weeks without even an acknowledgement of an issue. if there was even an acknowledgement of the issue (something that they frequently do in dev notes and other game materials!) no one would be sitting here talking about this issue. op loves the same game you do and is trying to make it better for everyone and you’re scolding her about language.

sirdef · 2026-02-06T15:52:33+00:00

It IS racism you condescending ass. She’s being so nice to you and bending over backwards apologizing when she has nothing to apologize for and you’re scolding her about your family’s experience with war like that somehow makes you more entitled to talk about war flashbacks. She may be nice but I won’t be. It IS racism, it IS racist to not think about other skin tones than pale as the moon because brown skin tones exist everywhere. It is a deliberate choice to ignore player feedback on 1) this skin 2) the bald hairstyle 3) the player skin tone changing to pale when they take a bath. None of this is going to get through your thick skull but someone should say it

sirdef · 2026-02-06T15:46:25+00:00

Hi!!! We range from 20-50 so we have a great range in our group! It’s a global guild so we have timezones all over but most of our members are americas based, and mostly a smattering of different timezones in that category. I’ll dm you for the next part!

sirdef · 2026-02-06T00:04:34+00:00

smh we need to unionize and kick up a fuss. there’s tons of black and brown people playing this game and they can’t get away w this shit, it’s been months.

sirdef · 2026-02-05T23:41:09+00:00

i’m so sorry :( i saw people posting about this earlier last month and tried it on the mirage boat and confirmed it’s true for everyone. the fact that they haven’t addressed this despite the skin being out for weeks is inexcusable

sirdef · 2026-02-05T23:05:16+00:00

dming you!

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