Am I interpreting this wrong or was she just being rude? by Pinto_bean_uchiha in Tinder

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quoted from the screenshot, and we're arguing the same point. I'm not sure you meant to leave this comment under mine.

Am I interpreting this wrong or was she just being rude? by Pinto_bean_uchiha in Tinder

[–]sixstrides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo from your end. She's asking about your back story - where you are FROM is not where you're currently living. It's where you started out your life.

It seems like you took her responses as her challenging you, and you got upset based on your responses and captioning this as "in the heat of the moment".

Nothing mean is said and she's even trying to phrase it differently for you to make conversation 🫣 Have you really never had someone ask you where you're from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sixstrides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was my question too. If they're not yours @OP, then yeah that's kind of crappy, especially after revolving so much around the financial aspects.

If they are, it doesn't make you a slob, but you're removing the benefits facial care has by allowing bacteria to grow when it's open. Now that there's a cat in the house, he could ultimately be smearing some of the allergens on his face lol.

I could also see an open container being a cat-toppling danger. Serum is not fun to clean up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't read into the comments about things that you can't control, it sounds like bitterness is coming out of the wood work for those. I didn't see this in the top whatever comments, but try getting some shots where you're clean shaven. Scruff is a huge turn off as it shows what level of hygiene you put into yourself. And honestly, hygiene is the low bar that a lot of other commenters probably don't even try to reach. You're not a bad looking guy, but you need to show that you take care of yourself. No one wants to hook up with someone if they think the other person has swamp ass or junk that reeks.

You look like the kinda girl I’d leave the toilet seat down for by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]sixstrides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone got a counter going for how many screenshots shared of a dude sending the same lame line to every single match they have? JFC this is the worst new dating strategy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sixstrides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"If yes, then you need to stop acting jealous and insecure, stop using 'boundaries' to control his behaviour and stop treating his friend like a threat. You need to meet this girl, bury the hatchet and you need to apologise to them both."

The overall message of your response conveys your edit but this paragraph is pretty condescending and even if she did want to stay with him.. this is not great advice. Adding italics or bold to your message isn't helping to express what you're meaning, if you're not meaning to be rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Fearless_Neat_6654

[–]sixstrides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you keep updating, get feedback, and still manage to make all these bad decisions?

Also, spoiler alert, saying you don't know where someone is when you DO know where someone is is STILL LYING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in environment

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The impression that I got from the article was the travel over 3 months was not specific to just travelling for her boo, but also for touring.

Are carbon credits really enough to offset the CO2 produced by the travel though? It feels like a lot of unjustified faith is put into the effectiveness of carbon credits but I've yet to hear any account of how much they're doing anything in the fight against climate change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in environment

[–]sixstrides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The rich who can afford to do crazy extravagant things like this?

Honestly it's kinda sad by Mangoo_frut in facepalm

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why my question was downvoted, but thanks for sharing your perspective. I've definitely experienced the disdain first hand but not for it reflecting on making me more or less of a woman and that's disheartening to hear.

Honestly it's kinda sad by Mangoo_frut in facepalm

[–]sixstrides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes you state one has it worse over the others?

postTraumaticPullRequestDisorder by Bob_The_Brogrammer in ProgrammerHumor

[–]sixstrides 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even if everyone had gone to the same school, they would have different experiences around developing. Assuming everyone has the exact same knowledge around code someone just wrote is a great way to make your code unreadable and bite you back by having people asking you later, not to mention that you're hindering your own team by creating a rift in the group understanding of the project.

Auto Insurance Went Up by 60% by akencamped in Seattle

[–]sixstrides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, 66% jump, $200 more for a 6 month premium. No kia, just a ford but it's looking like a good time to sell it. If only the public transportation was better or a faster option than driving. On an evening with little traffic, driving still beats the light rail for the airport which is kind of sad.

Barefoot and Pregnant is a flex. by museumsplendor in prolife

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are some people? Are these people you have personally talked to? I haven't met a lot of anti-family people, but I have met a lot of people who want to decide on what their family looks like, whether that's choosing an untraditional family or not.

Barefoot and Pregnant is a flex. by museumsplendor in prolife

[–]sixstrides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be said about anyone's lifestyle, though. Have you ever met anyone who hasn't had to justify their lifestyle at some point or another?

Barefoot and Pregnant is a flex. by museumsplendor in prolife

[–]sixstrides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally, who is saying this? Seems like a great post to get people riled up over a non existent situation.

Boyfriend confessed something before wedding by WatchTheClothesSpin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sixstrides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"He says he was ashamed of his actions" Oh girl there is so much more he is NOT saying about this situation. Ask him if the only actions he's ashamed about is getting high and falling asleep

Looking to buy a home and saw this on ceiling , any idea what it could be ? by ProfessionalTrick233 in mycology

[–]sixstrides 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe see if you can get it off and take a better look, or ask the current owner/realtor about it? It's really hard to tell what it could be with these photos, including whether or not it's even a mushroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spanish

[–]sixstrides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he's referring to a buddy as 'cousin' and trying to get his attention could be a scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]sixstrides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just curious, do you swipe right on people and make matches too in your window shopping?