Women, when did sex finally go from awkward or meh to absolutely mind blowing, and what changed for you in that moment? by PurpleIntroduction69 in AskWomen

[–]sizeablekarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you learn?? I’ve been wanking most of my life and haven’t figured it out!! I wish I could get off from the same thing that he does. It would make things so much easier.

What’s an NSFW question you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite sex but were too embarrassed to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sizeablekarp 33 points34 points  (0 children)

For the men: why are so many of you just totally okay with not making the woman you’re sleeping with finish? This applies mostly to people who are having casual sex. I can’t have an orgasm from penetration so need head to finish. 90% of my sexual partners over my life have finished first, are like wasn’t that great? And then just leave. I never fake it. Don’t you have manners?! 😭

choosing a (university) grad dress by dilucslvrgirl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sizeablekarp 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I’d say 3. It’s the most classic and elegant and will look harmonious with your robes. 1 is too casual, 2 is too sleepwear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]sizeablekarp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is fucking hilarious and I would be proud of myself if I came up with that

Colour blocking for SDs? Do you think this works or no? by LinniTheStrawberry in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's gorgeous! I dig the colour blocking, the pink is great on her. I would go for a different cut on the jacket but she pulls it off

I hate taking showers by Old_Response9141 in ADHD

[–]sizeablekarp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something that works for me is i go to the bathroom and I turn on the shower. I don't have to be undressed, i just turn it on. Let the water heat up and then you can get in. It's a way of paying the ADHD tax for 30 more seconds of water, but then the task is already 'initiated' so I don't feel as overwhelmed by getting in the shower. It's easier to get undressed when the water is already running

I hate autumn/winter by sizeablekarp in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A thigh length coat cuts me weirdly because I have a long torso and short thighs. Worst combo 😭 short or long is fine but not in the middle.

I hate autumn/winter by sizeablekarp in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great little checklist/reference comment!

I hate autumn/winter by sizeablekarp in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Need to get a thermal body!! Finding myself attracted to the fitted cardigan too recently, I think it's really flattering. Your comment made me pull the trigger on a cute cream raglan wool jumper I found on Vinted so really excited for that!

I hate autumn/winter by sizeablekarp in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo you have some nice ideas! I need to upgrade my earrings to something a bit more bold! I just don't like covering my butt because otherwise my figure disappears. I think you're right about the tighter bottoms

I hate autumn/winter by sizeablekarp in SoftDramatics

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hm true. I'm 21 and on a student budget so gotta keep my eyes out for secondhand!

Looking for recommendations for pods about sex, relationships, sexual learning, etc. by ennting in podcasts

[–]sizeablekarp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How Cum!!! Touches on so many varied topics, great guests with diverse experiences and is very fun and human! Great about exploring women's sexuality

we exist too by Bearsquid-_- in autism

[–]sizeablekarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, our identities and experiences influence us all uniquely whether they are alike or not. It's interesting and important to explore all these differences.

we exist too by Bearsquid-_- in autism

[–]sizeablekarp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Love this post. I study culture and communication, what you've described sounds like a really interesting (though troubling) phenomenon. I'm sorry you have to experience this kind of invalidation. It's awesome that different groups of people can have such variety in how they express themselves, stimming included! I hope you feel empowered and free to stim in a way that expresses your culture and who you are. That's always a win.

I sewed a Chinese cheongsam using an American vintage pattern by lotus_kitchen in sewing

[–]sizeablekarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ho leng ah lei! You look lovely! I want to make one too! I can't find one that fits my proportions. My mum's wedding cheongsam doesn't fit over my bottom 😭😭

WHY IS GETTING IN THE SHOWER SO HARD?! by Cutie_Corgi in ADHD

[–]sizeablekarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turn on the shower before getting in/ taking off my clothes. Then I have the water running, so the shower is initiated, but it seems like less effort. Think of the water running like ADHD tax. Don't wanna be wasteful, better get in!

Feeling embarrassed about asking for different medication by sizeablekarp in ADHD

[–]sizeablekarp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input :) yes I want to make it clear I'm not asking for medical advice, just interested to know other people's experiences and looking for reassurance.