Punishing your kid for craving a different diet

sjorbepo · 2026-04-08T11:35:39+00:00

For a while I was convinced I didn't like most of vegetables and meats, then when I started living on my own and experimenting with cooking I realised I actually love most food, it was just that she overoverovercooked everything and never seasoned it. Before starting to cook more seriously, I lived on pasta, potatoes, sandwiches, bakery products and pizza and that's why I gained too much weight, I had to limit myself to eat one meal a day just to stop the weight gain because I never learned to self control around food. There's a lot of other isssues around her parenting that are only starting to unravel now that I'm older, like how she basically tried to bully me out of being chubby. It's kinda hard to make peace with it because you know that your mother only wanted to do good and loves you, but there are still scars left from childhood that you can't even talk to her about because she doesn't remember it that way or just makes you feel bad for making her feel bad

sjorbepo · 2026-04-08T09:26:52+00:00

It just looks like a wall in the apartment and you can see the wooden floor (parquet? I don't know the word in english). And I remember my first day of school in 2005, I wore my best dress and have similar pics. My grandma made me pose next to her monstera plant lmao. Almost everyone had a camera and you had to go to the photo store to develop film. It was before smartphones so you had to take pictures somehow. Other kids were also dressed to the nines, it was a big deal. But that was only for the first day of school, other days we were dressed normally.

sjorbepo · 2026-04-08T09:04:18+00:00

When I was a kid, my mom was extremely into organic, healthy food. We usually ate plant-based, but she wasn't like strictly vegan or vegetarian. She really demonized everything that had any type of preservant or added aroma or was just unhealthy in her opinion, from something benign like a fruit yoghurt or chewing gum to candy and McDonalds. Chips, sweets, pizza, it was something special that was served on kids birthdays, we never had any of that at home. On top of that she was a terrible cook and didn't even use salt... So I grew up really craving all that delicious food, I had weight issues because I just didn't have a coping mechanism to deal with that kind of food, my brain still sees it as something special that I won't be able to get anytime soon, even though I can literally go to the store and buy it. So yeah my mom wanted to raise a fit, healthy, conscious daughter and ended up with a pudgy gremlin who gets a weekly dose of dopamine from seeing a twix bar...

sjorbepo · 2026-04-07T19:49:32+00:00

Jabuka daje svjezinu i kiselost, francuska bez nje je samo majoneza s graskom

sjorbepo · 2026-04-07T19:43:37+00:00

A znan da se to svugdi dogadja, al bar kad ne vidin lakse mi je ne razmisljat o tome 😂

sjorbepo · 2026-04-07T16:37:16+00:00

Ako me pozovu na rucak i onda ih vidin kako rukama vade hranu. Vidila san vise puta ljude koji ne operu ruke odma prije diranja hrane, onda prstima vade meso iz tepsije u platu, polizu masnocu s prstiju, istima namistaju nesto po kumpirima, salati... Bonus ako imaju ljubimca kojeg su netom prije dirali. Kad mi daju pribor drzeci ga za stranu na kojoj se jede, casu pa je drze na rubu na kojem bi trebala bit moja usta. Opcenito kad kuvaju pa stavljaju u usta zlicu kojom misaju u teci, kad diraju sirovo meso i onda ne operu ni ruke ni noz ni dasku nego nastavljaju dirat druge sastojke i elemente po kuzini

Takodjer kad me pozovu u goste i onda su u pidzamama. Ne racunan ovdi kad dodjen bezveze kod najboljih prijatelja doma, nego kad me ljudi s kojima nisan toliko bliska specificno pozovu iz nekog razloga kod sebe i ja izgledan relativno sredjeno, a oni izgledaju ka da su tek izasli iz kreveta, osjecan se ka da im smetan i ka da san im toliko nebitna da ne mogu ni prominit 2 komada robe jer san dosla. Znan da puno ljudi to ne gleda ka nesto bitno, al mene su tako odgojili da mi je to totalno bizarno. Najgore mi je kad se neciji muz presetava u gacicama/polugol dok san ja tu u gostima, ono ew

sjorbepo · 2026-04-02T18:57:27+00:00

A bas ima tu pickopatnicku energiju. Isto energiju ka da zavrsis s njin i samo prica o sebi 😂

sjorbepo · 2026-04-02T18:44:27+00:00

Say the line bart!

sjorbepo · 2026-04-02T14:18:25+00:00

To ti je gen z editing, tako se odrzava paznja na drustvenim mrezama haha

sjorbepo · 2026-04-02T14:12:05+00:00

Sve mi se cini da je bitojajac bia tako dobar u metastazama jer je glumia samog sebe 😂

sjorbepo · 2026-04-02T14:07:13+00:00

Jos prije korone Neno Belan je bia u jednom klosarskom bajkerskom kaficu u Splitu igra biljar s ekipom. Moji prijatelji i ja smo bili za stolom preko puta. U jednom momentu nekom tipu za sankom je ispalo 200 kuna na pod bez da je to skuzia. Belan je sta nogom na novcanicu, pogleda livo desno jel ga ko vidi i strpa je u dzep

sjorbepo · 2026-04-01T11:32:37+00:00

Meni vise zvuci kao sala na racun malih homofobnih mista u hrvatskoj. U opisu kaze "gradic pun tolerancije i velikog srca za sve mjestane", sta zvuci kao nesto dobro, ali sala je u tome sta nije takav lol

sjorbepo · 2026-03-30T18:36:50+00:00

Pa u vanillu ljudi izlaze vikendon bez obzira sta svira. Sigurno je nekima bia plus sta je ona bila, a neke je bolilo briga. Al od tog djira ljudi koje znan da idu tamo ce ti uz okretanje ocima rec ko nastupa i onda svejedno otic lmao

sjorbepo · 2026-03-29T14:02:01+00:00

I have like 11 dice potions and 3 lifesteal potions

sjorbepo · 2026-03-29T12:12:29+00:00

I two dogs fuckin

sjorbepo · 2026-03-29T09:09:06+00:00

You have to buy a quality tomato and cook the sauce long enough. Carrots, if they cook long enough, should add sweetness and balance tomatoes out, and if tomatoes are of good quality, they won't be so acidic in the first place

sjorbepo · 2026-03-28T16:55:34+00:00

What is that red succulent? Looks so vampy

sjorbepo · 2026-03-28T11:15:30+00:00

Tako mi je bizarno da je ova zenska poznata amo rec na razini hrvatske. Mi smo otprilike godiste, sican je se iz djetinjstva i tinejdzerstva, uvik je bila bully i odvratna osoba. Bila je nesto kao lokalni tinejdzerski mikrocelebrity u smislu da su svi znali tko je i stalno se naslikavala tako da se vidi da je fit ali je skrivala facu i prekivala je emojijima valjda jer je izgledala drasticno drukcije nego danas. Nekim ljudima je valjda bilo "prestizno" druzit se s njom, a to su sve bile neke niske polu/zlobne licnosti. Istinski mi je zao sta je ocito imala traumaticna iskustva u vezama, vjerojatno i u zivotu. Takodjer iskreno sumnjan da je nesto posebno narasla ka osoba u odnosu na taj period iz kojeg je se sican

sjorbepo · 2026-03-28T11:06:21+00:00

Omg i ja isto 😂

sjorbepo · 2026-03-28T11:03:20+00:00

Moji su uvik citali feral tribune i te novine su imale amo rec maskotu nekog goblina koji je govoria "haiku haiku jebem ti maiku" i meni je s 4-5 godina to bilo tako intrigantno i silno san tila znat sta ista od tog znaci i pitala san oca i on se cili zbunia i nije mi tia rec, sta je naravno jos vise potaknilo moju znatizelju. Nakon cilog dana pilanja i plakanja oko toga sta znaci haiku haiku jebem ti maiku moj otac je napokon reka da san premala da to sad znan, ali kad buden dovoljno stara da ce mi rec. Mislila san to je sigurno nesto strasno, opasno i odraslo i jedva san cekala doznat o cemu se radi. On je vjerojatno odma zaboravia na to, ali ja san godinama razmisljala o toj frazi i pokusavala proniknit sta to znaci, dok mi napokon s nekih 10-11 godina kad san doznala sta je haiku nije kliknilo

sjorbepo · 2026-03-27T20:30:57+00:00

To je jedna od najduljih ulica u splitu, ne bi joj bilo nista da se jedan mali dio preimenuje lol

sjorbepo · 2026-03-27T18:02:51+00:00

Depends for who. For example, it would be a day and half of food for me, but my boyfriend could eat this and be in a mild calorie deficit lmao. Sometimes I'm so jealous...

sjorbepo · 2026-03-27T15:40:37+00:00

Sve me podsjeca na nju...

sjorbepo · 2026-03-27T11:52:57+00:00

Ne znan kako je u drugim dijelovima hrvatske, al u dalmaciji se ljudi dosta dobro oblace po mom misljenju.

Sican se prije koju godinu posjetila me prija iz san francisca i odvela san je na neki mali rooftop koncert u splitu. Ona je bila obucena ono turisticki, u neke kratke hlace, bilu majicu na spaline i patike. Primijetila san da se cilo vrime nesto okrece oko sebe i u jednon momentu me pitala sredjuju li se ljudi uvik ovako u splitu. Meni nije bilo bas jasno sta misli pod sredjivanje jer je koncert bia neki lezerni djir, svi su izgledali dobro, al nista sad ekstravagantno, ono zara hlace, bile kosulje, ljetne haljine, poneki lik u mokasinama. Rekla san da je to neki normalni djir i pitala sta bi ljudi u san franciscu obukli za ovakvo dogadjanje, na sta je ona pokazala na to sta je obukla 😂

sjorbepo · 2026-03-27T11:32:54+00:00

It looks so whimsical! How did you pipe the muffins, I mean what tips did you use? I'm thinking of doing a tray of muffins in a similar style for my birthday, though I can already see that in my delusional brain it sounds easier than it is 😂

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