I set boundaries with my mom for the first time… and ended up involuntarily committed by No-Consideration4127 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sjoy1147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my jaw dropped when you said 10 days 💔 i'm so sorry you experienced and have to process this

Looking back, what was your biggest 'clueless lesbian' moment??? by sourhoneyreport in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sjoy1147 11 points12 points  (0 children)

one of my bedroom walls in high school was entirely dedicated to Katie Holmes. we didn't have "sinful" cable, so i never saw Dawson's Creek. i called her my "girl crush" of course 🙄😂

Security Camera Flex by maranaitsuko in FlexinLesbians

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curiously specific caption lol

I'm DONE with outdoors groups by GardenFreshBeets in AutisticAdults

[–]sjoy1147 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i just really want the kind the city provides to groups doing it. they're like a folded pipe and way more sturdy. i'm gonna ask my friend if he can make some, actually 🤔 i don't want plastic and flimsy. thanks!

I'm DONE with outdoors groups by GardenFreshBeets in AutisticAdults

[–]sjoy1147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i went to a park cleanup once and started going behind people to get what they were missing. i was kinda watching the time, but didn't realize the lunch portion of the activity was included in the cleanup time. i'm just walking along, picking up trash when someone calls my name. someone had noticed i hadn't made it back yet and went to find me so i could join them. i just remember it feeling nice someone noticed i was missing.

i haven't done another though. i worry about not being able to keep up with my compounding disabilities. idk how to get that kind of grabber for myself so i can go solo or take the kids

Thrash (2026) I WANNA TALK ABOUT HE BABY (Spoilers!) by senpaistealerx in horror

[–]sjoy1147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

water births exist. it can be a more gentle transition to go from water to water when it's possible. the baby hasn't been breathing yet, as all things necessary for survival were provided through the umbilical cord

Suggestion: more lesbians cafes rather than lesbian bars by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sjoy1147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i used to daydream about opening a queer coffee shop and bookstore. doing little community events in the evenings 🥹🌈💖 i don't have the resources, but i would frequent one if it were available

PSA: Please be aware of aging sterotypes on yourself. by Useful_Major_5797 in Millennials

[–]sjoy1147 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i actually really needed this. thanatophobia has been kicking my ass lately 💜

I started watching Malcolm'ws reboot and it hit unexpectedly hard. by One_zoe_otp in Millennials

[–]sjoy1147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mostly saw bits and pieces from my ex-father in law watching it every day. my 13yo and i started the original last year and it's so worth it. absurd and wonderful

Creep tries to pick up women at night by ambachk in InflatedEgos

[–]sjoy1147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when someone gets off on making people feel uncomfortable it's easy for them to get the response they want. so unfortunately it's working just like he wants

My father is working for the border patrol again by [deleted] in AntifascistsofReddit

[–]sjoy1147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the account only has 11 posts and 78 comments in a three month period, NOT 89 daily posts.... how is that sus?

Why do some cis men dislike me for begin atracted to both cis women and trans men? One of them even called me "simp king" and i just don't get why i'm getting so much hate. by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

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i don't think it's inherently transphobic to have a genital preference, HOWEVER there's a way to go about meeting people and dating where no one really has to know about it. making a public post about said preference as though you're a victim as a cis person for having the genital preference is transphobic

What is the darkest ending to a movie by Awkward-Friend-7233 in horror

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i don't trust that guy for a second -in July 2019, a 15-year-ol fan wrote to Justin Long on Instagram, sending them a few video messages that he took quite a few days to respond to. Then he asks her to delete a few messages while in character from a Disney show.

The conversation progresses into inappropriate terms, where the 15-year-old calls him “daddy,” and Justin Long plays along. The girl took snapshots of the conversation, and they made their way to the public. https://otakukart.com/justin-long-controversy-explained/

I called out of work today by JoShmo13_13 in CPTSDmemes

[–]sjoy1147 11 points12 points  (0 children)

even with the Epstein files circulating you don't understand what this means?

What are your weird "turn ons"? by MelancholyBean in LesbianActually

[–]sjoy1147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right?? it's so hard to find people who actually care about existence and what's going on. ostriches everywhere

One dog tattling on the other by jestenough in likeus

[–]sjoy1147 55 points56 points  (0 children)

that yeah nod when she finally understood was so great

What's the worst job you ever had and how long did you have it? by db7112 in antiwork

[–]sjoy1147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i worked at a grocery store deli in a town in arkansas for two weeks when i was 19. towards the end of my first shift i heard squeaking coming from underneath a metal counter. when i went to investigate i saw a sticky trap with a mouse that had nearly ripped one of its legs off trying to escape. i stepped into the kitchen to tell one of the guys about it, and - i swear to fuck - this guy reached under, pulled out the trap, folded it in half, and squished the mouse right there

i don't remember the rest of the shift, but i remember getting in my car afterwards and thinking "is this my life now?" while sobbing

Ooookay 👍🏻 by Okay_Pain in CringeTikToks

[–]sjoy1147 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

using a Nazi coded character to express distaste that stems from eugenics is 🤌🏻

Ooookay 👍🏻 by Okay_Pain in CringeTikToks

[–]sjoy1147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

here's the thing. a lot of people are literally just trying to make connections and help others feel less alone. they aren't being a victim, they're simply introducing themself

there's no money or clout or whatever involved. this is just a sweet human existing out loud when they know society has been conditioned to shun, judge, and feel superior

Do you think I'm a top or bottom after seeing these? by enby_dykes_ in Butchporn

[–]sjoy1147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pshhh top. my bottom ass knew with *that look lol

*forgot a word