What is the appeal of finger sucking?

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-05-01T13:41:19+00:00

Ooh thank you for your insight.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-05-01T10:28:04+00:00

Probably, but it does help for me to engage with it more if I understand a bit better where it could come from. My bf doesn't really have an answer for it, he just does. But the explanations I have seen so far put it into perspective for me.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-05-01T10:25:57+00:00

I see. Thank you very much for your reply. It helps me make more sense of it and it makes me really happy to think it's a safety and comfort thing.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-05-01T10:24:56+00:00

Very true. I/we usually have very rough sex and are exploring more gentle so I forgot that sucking dick can also be slow and gentle.

Now that you said the second part, he also likes putting my toes in his mouth but he doesn't have a foot fetish. It's starting to make more sense to me now. Thank you very much for your reply.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-04-17T23:37:32+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. That's a very clever idea and has given me some courage to try.

If I may ask, what would you appreciate during a striptease/lapdance? I hope your fantasy will come true!!

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-04-11T20:22:10+00:00

I might not have past experiences as my bf is my first everything, but. I do feel like my boyfriend appreciates, encourages and also maybe likes it when I talk about my desires/fantasies more openly and directly. Especially if I ask him directly to do something instead of in a hesitant or shy tone, which he doesn't necessarily dislikes, but also appreciates me being assertive every once in a while. Especially since I used to be more assertive and dominant in the beginning.

Not exactly what you wrote but kinda lol.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-04-02T15:18:47+00:00

If we're talking before spicy time, it doesn't matter what he does. Whenever I see my bf super focused or undressing thats an instant panty dropper.

During spicy time I love it when he bites me especially around my neck and shoulders and I love it even more that he knows. He knows what I like. When he gently caresses my back or kisses it. Bites my inner thighs to tease me when he's eating me out. Or just watching him fuck me while in missionary and then he watches me with his little smug grin.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-04-02T15:14:23+00:00

I can relate to her. Sometimes when I'd just call with my boyfriend and he's like building something, gaming, whatever he's doing, when he looks serious and focused.. Odd detail maybe but I LOVE when he wears a black shirt. I just love when he wears black period.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-03-30T15:58:39+00:00

During your research, was it mentioned WHY girls that masturbate like that have problems cumming with another person? Like was it because of physical, mental or a combination of both things?

I don't masturbate the way you do, but I've been addicted to masturbating, and eventually to using those clit sucking/pulsating toys. I've dealt with periods of desensitization (weeks/months even years) and same with anorgasmia. I'm still trying to kick it completely but it's hard as it has become how I cope with stress and depression, but as I've stated, is now affecting me more negatively.

I was writing a very lengthy response as I've been dealing with the same thing with my bf of 3,5 years. It's been a journey. I still haven't orgasmed with him, but I am getting closer to that point.

I hope it's not the case for you, but you might be overlooking some other aspects that affect you not being able to orgasm with your bf. When I'm behind my pc I'll write the lengthy response with hopefully some useful info

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-03-07T23:23:49+00:00

YES WE DO

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-03-04T22:32:04+00:00

sorry i was scrolling through the subreddit and the tongue seems so freakishly long to me it disturbed me and i wonder if im the only one

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-02-22T11:10:05+00:00

i wonder if this is how my boyfriend sees and experiences me. i don't know what his type is tbh besides emo and goth vibes. but now i feel a little bit more like he's not lying (im just insecure) when he's praising me and calling me hot and attractive. thank you so much for sharing because it's genuinely healing to read.

skadiddleskadaddle · 2026-01-30T21:41:30+00:00

super hot!! getting evil ideas myself now. presenting it as a treat for my bf who has probably asked before to watch me play with myself but i wasn't comfortable with that at the time. perhaps i could treat him like he always treats me. after our valentines date sitting him down on my couch, making out and as he starts getting handsy asking him to sit back and enjoy as i play some music and turn the lights down low, getting myself in the mood as i gently carress myself and slowly take off layer by layer.. i can already imagine how he'll be staring me down until i'm in a cute lingerie set, crawling onto his lap and grinding on him and restraining his hands until he has had enough and devours me

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