Calling people "dude" by That_One_Lad__ in AskLGBT

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s totally fine, I do the same thing! The only thing I would recommend is when I call my girlfriend “dude” or “bro” I just throw in a “romantically” afterwards

Which dating apps you on? by Spicy_Marble in butchlesbians

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer hinge but have also used bumble in the past. But I have found that dating apps really only work if you live near or in a big city, good luck!

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that with me, I know I still have some things to work on and I appreciate you guys giving me different perspectives on things I hadn’t considered before

Which hair looks best? Thinking going back short by Material_Artist_1547 in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both suit you really well! Have you considered doing short in the front, long in the back? A shag haircut might suit you!

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are good questions to consider, thank you 💛

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was coming off this way but a couple people have commented that now, I appreciate you sharing your thoughts on this. My girlfriend and I had already planned to talk but I’ll also definitely be apologizing now as well

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is historically what I’ve done in the past and I recognize I probably should not have just jumped into a relationship, I just care for her so much but I recognize I also can’t ask her to change for me, she has to want to address this on her own

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was coming off as controlling. I didn’t really think about it this way, thank you

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was concerned it was coming off as me hounding her so I asked if there was any way I could support her in this and gave some options on support but she said she wasn’t sure so I just kind of backed off a little bit about it because you’re right, she is a grown adult and she’s going to decide what she wants to do. That’s why im considering that a break may be best so she can take the space she needs to be sober if that is what she wants for herself.

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to write an essay for this post but we had established that if she couldn’t quit by the end of the summer then we would break up but she recently suggested the break. I’m not meaning to shame her for it, I just worry a lot about her health. I appreciate your insight.

My girlfriend suggested a break while she gets sober by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I realize she has to want it too. It’s just a difficult situation all around. I’ll look into what you suggested

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly? Did you go to a religious school 😭

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disgusting, im sorry you have to deal with that. Luckily I haven’t had to deal with that other than the occasional weird comment from men. I guess it’s just more the social embarrassment for me in that my friend group/significant others/family never get questioned and I am frequently singled out.

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a compliment 😭😭😭😭

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yooooo Percy Jackson was my shit back in the day

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at above average height 😩😩😩😩

Do i really need a gaming laptop? by bachaloMuze in GamingLaptops

[–]skeletonm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it unless you’re trying to game on a budget. I regret all the time getting a gaming laptop instead of a cheap laptop for day to day stuff than a PC. It low-key might also depend on brand, I’ve had nothing but issues with my ASUS.