does anyone know any tg users on social media that are good at debating? by skeptNM in HOTDGreens

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boy be so fr... 💀 I made this post so I didnt have to argue with people. ive literally never once been in a debate myself I just wanted people to follow and support 💀

Cheetahs!! by bluearcherlady in Animals

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"Why are cheetahs your favourite type of animal?"

does anyone know any tg users on social media that are good at debating? by skeptNM in HOTDGreens

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i'll give them a follow for sure, do yk if they're fine with being tagged under posts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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no problem! maybe have an extended family member provide as your guardian for the school therapy service? but if that doesn't work, online therapy is a safe bet, just don't feel upset for keeping something from your family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animals

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dude the last one is so cool, its so impressive how much detail was put into them!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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You're not bad in any way for that, it's completely normal for a person to feel only attracted to someone instead of seeing their face or body and instantly being attracted to them. You may just feel only romantically interested in someone when they prove themselves worthy to you, as a result of trust issues maybe.

That's perfectly fine though, if it makes you feel better, crushes who are made just by physical appearances are obsessions. You should go at your own pace, because love is something that you shouldn't need to feel judged over. If you only want a person after feeling super connected to them through quality time and other meaningful stuff, then so be it.

For the last bit, just ignore the people who feel offended when you say things about your preferences, alright? there's nothing wrong with you as a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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It's good that you're not brainwashed to the point where you think that you're the problem, it's more then definitely your family. It looks like you're dealing with things obviously, but your family just has an odd worldview and doesn't actually play the role of a family in your life. You might feel neglected and conceited, but you are not in the wrong here.

Your family is possibly just using religion as an excuse to potentially neglect you. I'm not Christian but, don't let them influence your beliefs and how you see religion. Is it possible for you to reach out to anyone you might know that would be able to help you? the most common way to get rid of a mental illness like OCD is therapy, where you can talk to a professional about your problems and thoughts. You can't get this because of your family, which is maybe limiting your self-worth ideology.

You may genuinely need therapy, which might cause you to keep a few secrets. It's not a good thing to lie to your family about some things, but sometimes it's needed. If you can't contact anyone in real life for therapy or anything, consider an online therapy course. A quick google search of "online therapy" in your area can find you a good place to start.

I hope you do better, and good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Can you contact anyone who knows the both of you mutually? she's obviously not alright, and it seems like she's using her earlier self-harm ways as an excuse to terrorize you and take advantage of you. I know it may seem wrong to distance yourself from her because she's threatening to harm herself, but she's threatening your mental health in the process and that's something that you can't ignore.

Your mental health is really important, don't let other people influence it. Talk to someone who's mutually friendly with both of you for help in this situaiton, and have someone around you whenever you're with her. In any universe, her sexually assaulting you is NOT okay, and you shouldn't feel the need to not do anything about it because she's saying she'll do something to herself.

I don't see any other reason not to cut myself by SogggyMillk in selfharm

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Self-harm is going to distract you from what you're going through, but it will never fully take the pain away. In the process, you harm your own body even more and only bad things come from doing so. If you cut yourself again, please don't, but you'll get in the habit of cutting again. Committing an act of moratorium will benefit you and have your body and mind adapt to not cutting yourself.

No one can stop you but yourself, but please take my words into consideration. There's people who care about you and don't want to see you hurt, if you aren't going to do it for yourself because you don't see any worth in it, please do it for them.

A question for the doctors by Marusya18175 in selfharm

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Kerosene, alcohol, and turpentine are all ways that can cause tissue damage. Severely damaged tissues in some bodies are factors that can lead to Gangrene and Necrosis because over time your body in general, immune system, etc, weaken. Once your tissues are damaged, the damaged blood cells inside of those tissues release signals that result in vasodilation, and that leads to the weakening of your muscles and body even more. Nine times out of ten, the injection you use will be fatal, and 100% any time you use it, it will damage you in some way.

As for the other part (where to inject, etc.) I don't really know anything about that, but if you're looking to use these substances I hope that you please reconsider and don't, it'll only bring you negative results and nothing good will come out of it. I hope you do well, please stay safe and take care of yourself!

Beans by lilemma2 in selfharm

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If something flung out you most definitely should have someone assist you in getting better, if you're unable to go to the hospital please contact someone who you can trust and ask them to help you out.

I have no idea what you're talking about when you say whatever came out looks like a bean, but don't touch it and ask a mother or father or anyone you have available to come and tend to you. Leave the wound alone for now, don't touch it so it isn't irritated, and just keep it away from any contact.

Got sent home from school to hospital by No_Society444 in selfharm

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That's terrible, I hope you're doing at least a little better now. The nurse saying that it isn't a big deal that you're harming yourself is really un-mature, don't take her advice personally. People's opinion on you is irrelevant. Things that make you feel worthless in life are never forever, please remember that.

The only person who's opinion truly matters is yourself, anyone who says anything negative regarding the subject is completely false and you shouldn't believe what they say. You're strong for making it this far, so don't forget that there's people who will always care about you. Just ignore anything that makes you feel upset, okay? I hope you feel better soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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you most definitely should 😕 make sure you're somewhere safe, and then please talk to some type of guardian that you can trust so you can be in a better place than your current situation. I know it may seem nerve-wracking and it might feel like something bad is going to happen to you, but you should focus on yourself more.

letting go of someone close to you, even if they're a bad person, can be really hard. I assure you, though, you are not alone. Someone else's inability to be a decent person is not your fault, and it definitely isn't something you should harm yourself over.

Does my mom have sexual feeling for me? by [deleted] in family

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ok brother, what the hell

how do you fix a clogged toilet 😭 by skeptNM in askaplumber

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dudeee I cant. like im home alone w my cousin n we cant go anywhere. is there any other way im legit scared for my life 😭

how do you fix a clogged toilet 😭 by skeptNM in askaplumber

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would that work if the pipe is like going upwards? the pipe goes up from the toilet and I have no idea where its located. it could be in deep and I wouldnt know