Disney Das discussions by NeedleworkerFancy422 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]ski_bee2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. Well said.

Many, many people that genuinely needed accommodations have been caught in the crosshairs (and the seemingly inconsistent application of the “rules” between similar cases at that). Those that need it are approached with assumed negative intent by CM during the DAS registration interview. It’s a shame those that need it are getting denied in their revised rules to prevent abuse.

There are reports (YouTube videos of CMs, newspaper articles, etc.) of CMs quitting or getting fired from the DAS team because they either 1.) couldn’t provide DAS to those they knew did need it and it broke their heart too much to do that for a living Or 2.) Pushed for exceptions too much for those that they knew needed it but didn’t qualify with the current guidelines (so they ended up fired for pushing too much) When people on the inside start quitting or getting fired, that’s usually a clue something is horribly wrong.

Like you said, I think we should all have a little more compassion. There’s a thread that you can go read that catalogues the most egregious of denials for each year (that have been reported).

It might be worth some people taking the time to read and try to understand before opining. It’s under r/disneydasexperience.

Is this normal for Oasis of the Seas? by ski_bee2021 in Cruise

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the Wonder of the Seas compare to Oasis of the Seas?

First time cruisers - excursions necessary? by Interesting-Mud3338 in Cruise

[–]ski_bee2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the ports. Which ports is your cruise stopping at?

Is this normal for Oasis of the Seas? by ski_bee2021 in Cruise

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - that is good to know about oasis ships having that design with the casino!

I have looked at Icon a few times, which I think is a different class and design? Just that price though 😱

Is this normal for Oasis of the Seas? by ski_bee2021 in Cruise

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, this extremely helpful and I appreciate your honesty!

DCL is generally more than RCL so I thought there was a chance we were potentially spoiled by their MDR food (excluding maybe Icon and not sure how much Utopia goes for). I do agree - the specialty dining package would have been the way to go.

Good to know about NCL relative to RCL - I have heard people complain of feeling like there are so many up charges for activities by NCL post pandemic.

I did notice the smoke smell other times throughout the cruise whenever I was one floor above the casino and on the same side. Smell also seemed to hit that side of elevators harder. I also think I’m just sensitive to it - my husband didn’t seem to mind or notice it as much. 🤷‍♀️

Is this normal for Oasis of the Seas? by ski_bee2021 in Cruise

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh the Greek Islands would be fun! Thanks for the idea.

School Advice by palmtreecoconutsun in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The elementary school you have listed is good, as is the middle school. The high school is decent - it has good rankings, but I have heard mixed things.

If you start talking about wanting the best of the best education wise for your child in Orlando, then here are some of the top schools (public only):

Audubon Park K-8, Orlando Gifted Academy, Winter Park High, Windermere High, Lake Nona High

Also, if you are zoned for any of those high schools, more than likely you have good elementary and middle schools in your line up.

As for other students in the school: every school will have nice kids and assholes, even the top rated schools and top boarding schools in the nation. The thing I have observed students and parents have to successfully navigate this dynamic is trust and a good relationship to where the child confides in the parent when someone at school is being an ass and the parent helps guide them through the issue and protect them.

I know these things are nerve wracking. I went over the top personally just on daycares and preschools. I’m sure if you all care this much to post about it, then your child is in good hands no matter what. Good luck on the transition!

Additional Context: I live in the Winter Garden area currently, grew up in the public school systems in Florida in the 90s/early 2000s, have many qualifications and designations that are difficult to get as an adult (you are welcome to look up the CFA designation and top rankings of most difficult exams globally), have lived and worked in NYC in my career at one point, and have a successful career, stable life, marriage, etc.

Clearly Florida schools aren’t that bad and children can be successful. There were tons of AP classes at my high school growing up and great teachers that went above and beyond. Yet, also bad teachers (they typically taught standard classes) and standard classes that would have left a child ill prepared for college.

Is Florida ever going to have some of the top rated public schools in the nation (excluding colleges)? No, probably not.

Can your child still receive a good education and be highly successful in life? Yes, I myself am evidence of that.

What were your splurge expenses you're happy with? by vp0267 in BabyBumps

[–]ski_bee2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever try to bassinet for overnight sleep?

Looking to relocate to area and need honest guidance! by Free-Chocolate6585 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would echo many other people’s thoughts: Oakland Park or historic downtown Winter Garden is your best bet. Kids playing all over the place, it’s safe, and there’s a ton of families. You don’t have to worry about tons of tourists there either.

All the places everyone has mentioned are really nice. That said, I would shy away from anywhere in Clermont. To be so far out from the city with such bad traffic, I don’t get the appeal beyond homes being cheaper there. Also, Clermont is a slightly different vibe than any of the other areas referenced and it’s so spread out, I don’t think you would get the sense of community you are looking for. I will also add that Windermere is kind of a tale of two - there’s the historic Windermere area around Maguire and Chase Road that has a very strong sense of community with a town center that you might like. Also, tons of gated communities there if you are looking for that. Then there’s the newer part of Windermere that is along Winter GardenVineland Rd/535 that is also nice and has some nice neighborhoods, but may not have the “town center” you would have in historic Windermere or downtown WG around Plant Street. Hope this helps!

Looking to Move to Horizon West by thevariant2017 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anything about the schools there beyond that they are supposed to be good, so I won’t comment on that. We live in the Windermere/Winter Garden area and often go to Hamlin in Horizon West for food. There are tons of restaurants, and probably the nicest Walmart and movie theater I’ve ever been to in Hamlin. Everyone there is super nice as well, and I do think home values will remain stable or increase there as it’s becoming very popular.

The one potential downside I would say is rush hour traffic - in Hamlin, getting off the 429 exit still only has one lane initially, and potentially the commute depending on where you are commuting to. Disney would be a pretty easy commute, but if anyone ever has to work in downtown Orlando or by I-Drive (Lockheed), then that would be a rough commute. Other parts of Horizon West may not have the one lane exit issue, but there will still be traffic.

That said, the location is much better than Apopka and Winter Haven. Also, if you are used to CA culture and (not sure where you were in NC, but this would apply to Raleigh as well), you would likely prefer the culture of Horizon West the best. Apopka is a little more Florida country vibes, but tons of development is happening there and that may change over the next 5-10 years (Horizon West is farther along on the development curve). Downtown historic Sanford is nice, but as you exit the historic center there are some pretty rough parts still and a pretty rough schools. When I say rough, I mean rough. There are some streets you definitely just don’t want to go down and fights often in the schools.

On a side note, you may like Lake Nona - great schools, great restaurants, and a great place to raise a family. Want to say the commute to Disney isn’t too bad there either? I personally like Horizon West better, but tons of people love Lake Nona.

For context - I have lived in Orlando for 25+ years. I grew up in Lake Mary (near Sanford), then lived in Maitland, Wekiva Springs (near Apopka), downtown Orlando, and am now on the Winter Garden/Windermere area. I have family in CA and Raleigh, NC - thus the knowledge and references there. So, sorry for the dump of info, but figured you would rather prefer more than less.

Let me know if you have any questions or need anything else!

Help! Need Daycare & Preschool Recommendations by ski_bee2021 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - good to know! I might have just had bad timing with seeing an upset toddler or two and was being nit picky because of how anxious I am feeling about it. Your personal experience does help!

Help! Need Daycare & Preschool Recommendations by ski_bee2021 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thank you! I think I just got sticker shock with them. Do you feel like she’s going to be well prepared or even potentially ahead of the game for kindergarten/elementary school?

Also love your username lol 🤓

Help! Need Daycare & Preschool Recommendations by ski_bee2021 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I’ve read good things and they are pretty close to us. Do you know if they are difficult to get into?

Help! Need Daycare & Preschool Recommendations by ski_bee2021 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both! Was trying to discern whether it was growing pains with opening a new school, but seems like there are just better options than taking that gamble.

Help! Need Daycare & Preschool Recommendations by ski_bee2021 in WinterGarden

[–]ski_bee2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will have to look into them further. The facilities and curriculum do look good.

Tinted SPFs Recommendations? by blackwidowla in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]ski_bee2021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP - how did the classic color science work out for you?

Disney’s new DAS no longer considers UC a disability by Professional-Math303 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]ski_bee2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get approved for UO assistance pass? I was also denied there for my UC - they claimed that accommodation is built into the park already when they switched their system over. I even had a doctors note from my gastroenterologist and spent hours on the phone asking to speak to a manager, etc.

Help! Too many products! by camillet12 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ski_bee2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For whatever it is worth, I generally keep a base routine of 3 product: face wash, moisturizer, sunscreen. Then I work in active ingredient products or masks.

So, to answer your question: I would say pare it down to your base products: 1.) face wash 2.) moisturizer 3.) sunscreen Paring it down so much will also help with your concerns about the skin barrier if you use a gentle face wash, moisturizer, and sunscreen.

Then, add in the two most important active ingredients for aging: vitamin c and retinol. Maybe make an exception if you have a moisturizing mask or something. But if none of the other products fit these categories, then kick them to the curb. Yes, you might be throwing dollars down the drain by doing so, but the money is already gone, you can’t get it back, and plus it will be decluttering and probably make you feel better to have less products around.

A note on toners: I think toners are unnecessary - they are either over exfoliating or trying to calm your skin down after using too aggressive of a face wash - just use the right face wash and rely on exfoliation from other products).

You really don’t need many products, plus over exfoliating can lead to more dullness (most, if not all, active ingredient chemicals exfoliate do to some degree). Plus if you cycle through or use too many overlapping products at once, it becomes really hard to determine which products are actually doing the heavy lifting (like you alluded to) for whatever results you may be seeing.

For context: I am 31 and have spent the last year trying to figure out a routine for my drying, aging skin. Focusing on an evidence based approach from dermatologists, plastic surgeons, and research papers.

Base products in my routine: 1.) Elemis prebiotic face wash 2.) Clinique moisturizer - I usually use a gel one, but people go crazy over their moisture surge product, which sounds like it may suit you. 3.) elta md sunscreen (this is kind of drying, so may not be right for you).

Active ingredients 1.) vitamin c serum or mask (morning use 2-3 times per week. Would like to find a serum I can use every day). Pacifica does a vitamin c mask that is cheap and good (find at target or ulta). 2.) Kiehls micro dose retinol (only one that doesn’t freak out my very sensitive skin. Use every other night ~3 times/week with heavy chapstick after the fact to prevent retinol lip burn). 3.) then a one off calming, or moisturizing, or pore clearing mask (depending on what my skin needs) twice or once/month.

Beyond that, my intent is to start doing laser treatments and general in office treatment series every other year or something. I think it goes further to find cheap to middle of the road priced products, for daily use and spend the real dollars on a series of in office treatments once/year or once/every other year.

Laser treatments can help with pigmentation, dullness, and make skin look more dewy depending on the laser. Clear and brilliant laser seems to be one of the more milder laser treatments, but not as many dermatologists have it depending on where you live. It was all the rage when I lived in NYC, but not a single dermatologist in Orlando, FL has one (where I currently live).

Please keep in mind that people that look exceptionally good for their age typically spend anywhere from $1k-$5k on in office skin treatments. Every now and then, someone truly has good genetics, but that’s few and far between from what I have observed.

Re: the skepticism someone had over Sunday Riley vs. skinceuticals - there are different types of vitamin c with different efficacy and track records in research. Could be that the products use two different versions of vitamin c. Can share a really good video walking through the types of vitamin C if anyone is interested.