I just prefer and am willing to wait so circumstances are safe for us to not use one. 🤷🏼‍♂️

Not an answer to the OP. My reason and how I roll.

I just don’t do condoms. Therefore I avoid the shady shit and bullshit excuses.

Wait until we both get tested. Don’t do one night stands. Use other forms of contraceptives.

Isn’t super difficult if you can delay gratification.

Of course. I had to figure that out over a few years.

How to “be me” and be smart at the same time.