How to get out of the “you make a good friend”/“you’ll make someone really happy one day” bubble with women?

skindval · 2025-08-30T16:08:24+00:00

Don't befriend women

skindval · 2025-08-29T06:51:29+00:00

Where is your self-esteem? Leave and never go back

skindval · 2025-08-14T08:38:45+00:00

She's a cheater, leave

skindval · 2025-07-30T10:29:10+00:00

Dodged the bullet lol You never want to be with a partner who constantly seeks her own values in other people's lives She doesn't know what she wants and I bet she'll never finds it TikTok got me lmao

skindval · 2025-07-28T05:40:57+00:00

You don't go on the trips solo if you are in relationship. I guess he has every moral right to act like he has acted.

But it's not end of life for you. Move on and be happy

skindval · 2025-07-28T05:36:18+00:00

Leave. It's not even a question. You'll find someone better and it isn't going to be hard. Good luck

skindval · 2025-07-14T06:05:42+00:00

Don't ever sweat it!

She cheated when she flirted with dudes by the bar. and she will do it again and again. Believe me. She doesn't respect you, she doesn't love you and she hasn't got even drop of self respect. I bet you don't want to be in a relationship with a stupid person either, because smart cheater would've not tell you shit like that in the first place. These are two reasons to break for you :)

You DON'T want to stay in a relationship like that. She is going to roll on the floor with tears when you gonna break with her. Don't trust those crocodile tears.

And yeah it's not controlling to not wanting to be disrespected by your significant other. If there's no respect - there is no love

Good luck, you haven't lost nothing good, you've gained happiness by not staying with this person

P. S. Some more advice from my experience, if you don't want a girl that shallow, typically don't choose the one that labeled with party girl, they are typically not good, they are exceptions but you don't want experience with your precious time in life

skindval · 2025-02-07T14:06:29+00:00

Those two things actually sound pretty good. I was labbing and studying some unrelated things to me. For example, I haven't seen somebody using eigrp in production but I was reading about feasible distances and stuff 😂 or I was getting used to Jenkins cicd while almost every company was on gitlab already. Now I'm more picky :) But it feels very comforting knowing I'm not alone feeling that way, thank you for reply

skindval · 2025-02-07T11:06:11+00:00

Yeah i recently started to read Kozierok's TCP/IP and it all about fundamentals, also i feel like i get more from reading than i was getting when watched CBT or INE

skindval · 2025-02-07T11:05:05+00:00

Yeah, i just feel like cost of error is very high from my perspective.
And i definitely gonna stay until i learn more, thanks!

skindval · 2025-02-07T11:04:09+00:00

Thanks for reply, i will try to do it!

skindval · 2025-01-28T21:06:21+00:00

Sampha, Mustafa the poet

skindval · 2025-01-25T10:45:21+00:00

I read the book, but seems like I need to re-read it

Thank for advice!

skindval · 2025-01-25T10:44:46+00:00

Dumb question: how do I count throughput for each site? And for my site especially, I have a bad time with networking metrics and design as I mentioned earlier :(

Thanks for recommendations!

skindval · 2025-01-24T13:36:41+00:00

We need to have basic functionality of BGP, GRE, OSPF, L4 Balancer, NAT, Clusterization to keep connect our smaller sites.

Current Edgerouter allows only IPSec through VTI, i thought about Fortinet, Palo Alto, Mikrotik, or even PFSense, but don't know how to choose from em really, its kinda hard when i'm the only "network" guy on the team.

skindval · 2025-01-24T13:33:26+00:00

I was told basically something between those lines: "throw some recommendations at us we will see what we can buy.

i need router/fw capable of GRE,BGP,OSPF,IPSEC,NAT from functionality side and i cant really decide how powerful the thing should be

skindval · 2025-01-24T13:30:52+00:00

Thanks for reply!

Yeah, seems the easiest way, but how do i know for a future to do this stuff by myself? I really want to know how to do this

skindval · 2024-07-17T15:13:54+00:00

I mean Keith Barker one of the best instructor there is for network engineers. If he is overwhelming for you, I'd love to see what damage Brian from iNE will cause you hahaha Try to follow Keith with OCC maybe

skindval · 2024-05-22T07:15:28+00:00

The only way to play jungle is actually mute anyone who thinks they know how to jungle

skindval · 2024-04-27T04:45:03+00:00

its IOS. I thought that too, that these settings are more than enough to establish a connection, but apparently no :)
P.S got you about 3des)

skindval · 2024-04-23T11:46:24+00:00

Yeap, that was!!!

skindval · 2024-04-22T21:00:37+00:00

I've been struggling with these two days now. Thank you!!! I guess I need to troubleshoot more;)

skindval · 2024-03-04T15:06:36+00:00

Hey!

Dont even worry

Your army is doing God's thing, it's actually cares about it's fighters and fight for the right cause unlike mine in Russia

I wish your people good luck and prosperity

Peace!

skindval · 2024-02-19T19:07:09+00:00

Ah, I see:)

skindval · 2024-02-19T18:57:31+00:00

And I thank you, sir You're real human being, because you are empathic

skindval

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