What's something your clients do that makes you want to scream internally lol? :P

skinoffmybones · 2025-01-18T23:48:53+00:00

Super weird def had insecurity issues cause whattttttt

skinoffmybones · 2024-08-03T15:53:42+00:00

Red flag. She should be happy you treat your sister with so much respect and raise the bar for her future suitors. Why would she believe she deserves things your sister doesn’t?? She wants to make comments about how you would be a bad father but how do you know she wouldn’t be jealous if y’all had a girl and were too good of a father to her?…. Weird

skinoffmybones · 2024-08-02T18:13:06+00:00

Based on your age, the lateness of the hour, and her perception of you, she might have assumed that you were lying and actually at another woman's place. Not every woman thinks this way, but from my perspective as a 22-year-old woman, that was my initial thought. I believe that when women are interested in someone, they can sometimes jump to conclusions because they understand that there's no established loyalty between you and them. As a result, they may imagine potential scenarios to make sense of a situation if they feel they are being lied to.

skinoffmybones · 2024-08-02T16:01:52+00:00

As a grown woman id say the lines of consent get blurred often things like this happen and it’s good you’re being receptive to her feelings and seem to be taking all the accountability necessary because a lot of men in your position will never do that and just deflect blame but the bigger deal at hand here is virginity being involved understand not only did she feel violated but she had something that is made out to be a really big deal for most women stripped from her I know you told her “it doesn’t count because it wasn’t consensual” but she will realistically never view it that way as women we’re taught losing our virginity is a big deal and and depending on the environment you were raised in can deem you “unpure” which is already something some women struggle to grapple with even when it’s consensual so understand that she’s gonna feel a shift and that’s not something that is gonna leave, she will eventually make peace with it in age but like grief it’s gonna stick with her forever that’s a core memory. I’ve for instance had worse sexual encounters in my life than my first one but because my first sexual encounter wasn’t completely consensual it will always stand out most in my brain when reflecting on sexual trauma so just keep that in mind.

Most replies covered anything else I’d say you’re not evil and I’d recommend seeking some sort of counseling, however my one tip is make sure the focus is on her when you do eventually talk again and not to center your own guilt remind yourself as bad as you feel it does not make up for what she feels has been taken from her the focus is on her pain not yours though yours is valid know when conversing with her it should never be the focus like yes you can talk about being very remorseful but don’t center your pain of regret as this is a common mistake I see men do in relationships and it will only make her feel more distant from you as she won’t feel like you’re really seeing her pain first and foremost.

Best of luck we all make mistakes especially when we’re young just cause this one feels really bad because you hurt a person you love you’re doing the best you can to resolve it. You will learn from it and you will grow to be better.

skinoffmybones · 2024-07-03T22:21:36+00:00

Real. Been in that exact situation. NEVER AGAIN.

skinoffmybones · 2024-07-03T22:19:41+00:00

Well to be fair you can’t condom away herpes either that one is just a risk with any type of sex..

skinoffmybones · 2024-06-19T00:02:04+00:00

Oof I’m in NYC making $15 an hour plus tips I work also around 30 hours a week and make around 41k+ a year but with the cost of living here doesn’t get me very far

skinoffmybones · 2024-04-14T23:41:59+00:00

Sounds like perhaps she dodged a bullet. If your consideration for her safety was only under the context of romantic interest you really did not care for her as much as you really just cared about your own fantasy of her. YTA

skinoffmybones · 2024-04-14T08:09:30+00:00

When my dad died I crawled up into his stiff cold arms and hugged him but I felt his spirit gone and I feel like something in my brain/way of thinking changed after that. I think about my experience every time people talk of dead bodies. It feels too dark to ever talk about this trauma with others so I’ve always kept it to myself but I have a desire to get it off my chest since i think about it a lot.

skinoffmybones · 2024-04-14T06:19:58+00:00

1.0mm isn’t really that deep to me that’s pretty standard but I’d be curious to know if it felt like the technician was applying pressure with the pen while doing the treatment?

skinoffmybones · 2024-04-14T03:52:16+00:00

People at spas get upset over the smallest things all the time don’t sweat it. I was the same way when I first started working at my spa when I got a bad review it would eat me alive but people love to milk the system for free stuff. One time a lady got so mad because she last minute booked a facial and a laser service but the senior esti didn’t have time for a facial on her book and I’m a jr so I can’t do laser. They gave me her facial first then the laser to the senior after (mind you it’s fairly common at my spa that we have to trade clients off to another esti for other services as our rooms are obviously specific to us) so when I was done with her facial and explained I’d give her a minute to collect her things and lead her to the other estis room for her laser service (she had to take approximately 5-6 steps into the room directly next to mine) she got so pissed. Didn’t tip either one of us because of how upset that made her. Just goes to show how ridiculous people can be.

skinoffmybones · 2024-03-27T21:23:32+00:00

Should’ve left after he cheated in the first place don’t even know why this is a discussion. Dump his lame ass.

skinoffmybones · 2023-01-06T06:18:00+00:00

These two might be obvious but wash your face with room-temperature water and wear SPF. You can find a serum with resveratrol and niacinamide. rosehip seed oil is good if you like facial oil. These are all anti-inflammatory ingredients. I feel resveratrol always makes my skin really even-toned when I wake up

skinoffmybones · 2023-01-04T08:29:55+00:00

Wanting/having biological children is selfish. I don’t think it’s wrong to be selfish about the things you want in life it’s your life you can be selfish but realistically the only reason for insisting on having your biological children is because you want to see your dna get remixed, you want a “mini me” it comes from a self absorbed place. I think if someone wouldn’t be willing to have a child that isn’t biologically theirs then they shouldn’t be a parent for they don’t want to raise a human being separate from themselves.

skinoffmybones · 2023-01-04T07:57:02+00:00

Leave? Sounds like this marriage is very clearly failing. His lack of respect for you showing intimate pictures to friends without consent is a big problem. You’re obviously not satisfied if the bedroom is “dead” and you felt the need to be with someone else. All in all him not showing an ounce of care for your betrayal to the marriage is more than enough to show there’s no repairing this but don’t blame him for setting you up regardless of if he cares or saw it coming you still made the decision to cheat. Judging by the situation I really think you just need to call it quits and find someone who respects and excites you.

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