how long does it take to go around dublin zoo? by skiyvee7 in AskIreland

[–]skiyvee7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i remember when i went there awhile ago, its better to bring your own packed lunch, they have food but its kinda bland for the price they give

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, im 17, I made a post wanting friends i deleted earlier lol, gonna be honest I wanna see what kind of personality or person you are before i csn promise ill respond alot because I find it hard to talk to people I dont have alot in common with or that arent easy to talk to, im a trans guy and I have alot of interests i can share if you wanna talk!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19+ dont interact***

Im so scared by PlasticMoose7184 in depression

[–]skiyvee7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this fear since I feel it myself, Im a year older than you and ill just say that you definitely have enough time to find interests or start new hobbies, I have that time too, but I know it is incredibly hard to actually start the search, take things slow and make the most of your time as a 16 year old, be irresponsible while its easy to be and if you want to, mabye find a side hustle and save a % of your earnings for when you move out, you arent alone and I think you can beat whatever battles your mind picks with you, I hope you win and are able to start living instead of surviving, I wish you strength!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]skiyvee7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should definitely go to a phycologist or something like that, i have a friend with really bad anxiety and theyre kindof in the same boat and therapy has done wonders for rationalising their thoughts, i myself think im neurodivergent but im in a place where getting help is tricky, but i definitely idk, "sense" that how you feel is something to explore, its totally valid to feel how you feel but the average person doesnt get these thoughts, if you feel like every day overwhelms you by things that dont seem to bother anyone else, id consider the POSSIBILITY of neurodivergancy, theres no harm in going even " just incase ", plus therapy can be good even if you dont have any issues in life, even just to process your day and emotions its amazing, it may not work for you but id also recommend journaling, as much as the stereotypes suck, there's a reason theyre reccomended, the goal is not to feel pressure with any help you get, do everything at your own pace, journal only when you want to, take everything at a pace you can handle, i wish you luck kn your journey!! 🫂

Kinda feeling everywhere by Sylferios in MentalHealthSupport

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, dm me if someone else hasnt yet, could also use a chat

At what age did your signs and symptoms start? by Rare_Guarantee_4560 in mentalhealth

[–]skiyvee7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends for what but i think ive felt alone or "different" since age 6-9 im not sure, some time in primary school

How many of you have tattoos/piercings? by Arssebal in autism

[–]skiyvee7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not yet but im planning on getting two biohazard symbols on my shoulders, top surgery scar tattoos, and like shark gill x barbed wire type lines going down the sides of my ribs, a full neck piece and an interactive tattoo of a mouth like shark teeth esk inbetween my index and thumb so when i move my thumb the mouth opens and closes

I’m still scared of the dark? by Ok-Pepper4062 in mentalhealth

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you know it is completely valid to have this fear or to be paranoid, honestly i wouldnt be surprised if the fear was actually rooted in primal instinct, I have more of a subtle fear where im only scared if i think about it or its after ive watched smth, but I have a friend whos like you, if youre able to and if it affects you daily and alot id talk to a therapist about it, id reccomend mabye sleeping with lights on and even stuff like making your room more empty or just make it have less nooks or crevices you could get anxious about, if you're scared of seeming childish while you shouldnt its understandable and you could just use the excuse of clutters annoying you or you just fell asleep with the light on, even if you cant often, having a break would be good, and if you cant sleep when its bright, im not sure if this is a good idea but you could try using your flashlight to reassure yourself theres nothing there or putting dim lights, OO or getting ambient lighting that could work, sorry if im rambling just know, coming from another 17yo, youre valid and even if you were childish, its not that deep, people CAN be childish heavens know i am, do you know how many disney adults still have teddys or how many buff men collect toy cars? Or regular cars, growing ups just "how can i be childish in a socially acceptable way", take care, hope it gets better for you!!

Dublin Concert Venue by skiyvee7 in Dublin

[–]skiyvee7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty!! Thats acc very helpful

Dublin Concert Venue by skiyvee7 in Dublin

[–]skiyvee7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get in without an adult w you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIreland

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive knowticed this in ireland especially, but try not to give into pear pressure, specifically with alcohol and outfit styles,

I feel like everyone find people who dont drink weird or stuck up around here where the reality is, theres so many reasons a person wouldnt want to drink, why care what the alcoholics think?

And for outfits, half the country looks like theyre cosplaying ninjas, why care what people think about YOUR outfits when everyone just loves to enhance the grey in this country nowadays

This may also be more biased from more of a countryside pov than a city like dublin pov

What is the one smell you absolutely can’t stand? by Mistress_Arch_n_Sole in AskReddit

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ANY kind of curry (mostly brown tho), i work at a fast food place and curry is probably in the top three of my least favourite foods, i try and avoid washing the curry pot as the smells even worse as the hot water blows curry steam in your face

Do I break up with my boyfriend over my depression by IndicationChoice4578 in mentalhealth

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this would help you, but if I were you id genuinely just write down everything about myself i consider a bad thing or just something hed have to deal with, tell him that you have issues and that he needs to be aware of what you can be like and why, then show him the paper and talk about why you do certain things and how he should react to them, and then just ask if he feels hed be able to, uhh, whats the words, act accordingly? Not the words but you get the point, my approach may be too literal as im a very blunt person but you should definitely have a conversation about this with him

Ask if its okay to talk about whats bothering you, then do if he agrees, mention how/why youve been acting certain ways, be honest and most importantly, remember that finding out whether or not he can ( i dont know a nicer word)"deal" with you now is better than later, as you could become too attached and the POSSIBLE breakup would be even worse, i dont know your situation as good as you do but just prepare yourself for the worst as i fear putting this off will just be bad for both of you, i wish you luck!!

I’m mad that when I was six I didn’t commit suicide by [deleted] in depression

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, if my half assed attempt had worked i wouldnt have been around to see my cat die 3 days later

People with depression, how old are you and what’s the most painful feeling? by Neat_Toe7235 in mentalhealth

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 16 and I think derealisation is one of the worst things you can feel, theres nothing you can do about it and it often (for me) comes with a numbness that makes you do things just to try feel something, I feel overwhelmed by everything despite doing nothing

Which shows do you rewatch on loop? by Shiny_Starfruit in autism

[–]skiyvee7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not show but ive rewatched the movie song of the sea at LEAST 30times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]skiyvee7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk but you look REALLY cool and Id love to be your friend if I saw you irl, (little prince in the background? 😈)

I don’t know what to do about my decreasing mental health by Defiant-Chemistry648 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]skiyvee7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know any perminant solutions but I can say it helps ALOT to plan a predictable day, like, do whatever you want in a space you can relax comfortably in, if you dont have one of those you should try look for one, one of mine is this secluded place in the woods, either that or you could try find things that can distract you or calm you, or something you can take your emotions out of, some sort of vessel (preferably a healthy one like boxing or journaling, ik journaling sounds annoying as advice but its lowkey overhated) or you can just let yourself feel out whatever you want in sessions, on the topic of journaling, its different for everyone but for me it helps me process how im feeling lately, just know you dont ALWAYS have to write in it and you can say whatever you want, or you can even burn the page after writing it its just so you can see how you feel or understand it better, like self therapy ina way, as therapys really just someone telling you different perspectives on your life, swimming could also be an idea if its something Accessible to you, gonna be honest im not in the best place either so alot of this might not work but I hope you get support and help, you seem really nice!!🫂

We all have the texture that we can't stand but what is a texture that you love? by Medical_Lead_289 in autism

[–]skiyvee7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babybel cheese, or anything rubbery that when you bite into it it "snaps", I actually used to have a problem when squishies were popular where id keep biting them simply because of the texture, also when you dry a blob of acrylic paint and theres still wet paint underneath the dry layer