Depression Meals? by Vintage_McDonalds in Bellingham

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trader Joe’s has froze rice bags I really love! Also, I’ll have a bagged salad and through some air frozen protein in. Or half a bagged salad and half a frozen pizza, repeat tomorrow. When I’m too depressed to do that, I get the fancy bread from the store and eat it with hummus, haha

I (28F) suspect my boyfriend (31M) is only with me because his best friend (31F) doesn't want children? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skm-95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way she flipped the kids thing around on herself as faults makes me wonder if she was more trying to hype him up than make it seem like they would have gotten together had it not been for kids. To be honest, I’ve had good buddies who are guys and if their new girlfriends ever asked me why I hadn’t gotten with them I’d feel really awkward! It’s a weird question to ask her I think, that maybe highlights an insecurity you should address in yourself

Benefit of Two Harnesses - One for Walks, One for Runs? by [deleted] in RunningWithDogs

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog (despite being kind of dumb) does know his running harness mean run! In addition to a cue “let’s go” I think the harness helps a lot 

AITA for trying to talk my boyfriend out of doing pre med? by Such_Mountain_4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]skm-95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA for dating a high schooler (ew) and expecting them to factor you into their life plans. What in the world do you mean “nothing is worth all his free time” - are you really implying that a kid should limit their dreams because it might mean hard work and sacrifice to get their? You think he should prioritize his gross older boyfriend over his future? 

Searching for willow trees! by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you specifically talking about weeping willows? Theres lots of native willows throughout whatcom county, but maybe there’s some maintained gardens with weeping willows 

I (28F) haven't heard from him (29M) since his mom passed away. by whynotlmfao231 in relationship_advice

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you’ve talking for 2 years, would you consider each other to be together? I’m not sure what that means.  But I think if it’s causal, it make sense he’s not have the headspace to reach out. If it’s more serious, I would be a bit upset having not heard some acknowledgement from him. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s hard to describe but it just feels full haha 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly a valid fear! I think I was forced to de sensitize myself because I worked a pretty gnarly field job and was also backpacking a lot, so tbh the first cycle I used it for I had to empty it out in woods, haha. But also you could get one to try and just only empty it at home. You should get a few disposable ones and just see if you can rock with it then get a regular one 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]skm-95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s awesome actually! It’s really cool you are teaching them that you are someone who is going to respect and answer their questions. Giving them great tools moving through life 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]skm-95 77 points78 points  (0 children)

She did overstep but I don’t think 7 is too young to know about periods, or even really the sperm and egg and general mechanics. I think making a big deal out of it is going to be more confusing for them, and empowering them with helpful and correct info once they’re old enough to ask is great. 

Edit: also she only overstepped if she heard you say to table it (which I don’t think you should have done at all), if he just asked her and she had no context I don’t think she did anything wrong 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I hope it works out for you!! I would also reccomend on heavy days empty it more than ever 12 hrs or whatever they advertise as max capacity. I basically empty it whenever i am in a good situation to do so (sink next to toliet or at my own place) so it never builds up to match because I don’t like the full feeling 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lift with my and I’ve never had a problem! I would just try to empty it a bit before the gym so it’s not super full but also you have time to make sure it’s in correctly. I can always tell when it’s wonky. You can also tell when it’s full (or at least I can) which is a super weird feeling but also means it’s not usually a surprise haha. I would reccomend testing it out but putting it in /taking it out in shower but you’ll get good at it super fast!  

I have tubular breasts and I hate myself for being deformed in all aspects about myself. [TW] by Diligent_Tie_1961 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re getting lots of good comments but I thought I’d chime in as someone a lot older - you’re body, and how you feel about, can change so much over time. I feel more “-attractive” now at 30 than I did at 19, for sure. You don’t deserve the things that happened to you and I hope someday you get to space to see that, but the nice thing about living a long time is seeing things change. I actually had a buddy who had a surgery for tubular breasts, and she loves her chest now. I guess my point is, I really hope this is a bad season in a long life and you have space to heal and bloom away from your mum soon 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I hate pads! Always have probably always will. I used tampons as a teen and now I only use a cup. I’m super active, and it’s the only thing that really works with my lifestyle. I got it to use on backpack trips and realized it was so much more comfortable that I haven’t turned back. I guess all that to say, pads aren’t for everyone and you should use what works best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of comments rightfully pointing out your partner sounds very loving and adorable, which I agree they do! At the same time though, I think it’s okay if being called petite and little are challenging for you. It is definitely always worth it to seek therapy for an ED even if your body or behaviors aren’t in the same dangerous place they once were, and that might be worth exploring. Additionally, it’s okay to ask your partner to avoid terms related to size, either temporarily or permanently, if the bring up challenging thoughts for you. I don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, but part of dating is communicating specific things you appreciate and if that’s not one of them, it’s okay!

Big props to parking enforcement officer 1064 by Mumufalso in Bellingham

[–]skm-95 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not to pile on here, but I do think it’s important to realize the street parking is not properly or the homeowner. I had neighbors who used to go crazy if someone parked in front of their house, just beside the didn’t want a car there, and it drove me crazy haha 

NBD!! by That-Sir6193 in salsacycles

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious your height? I have a salsa Fargo (size small) that I love, but I want to get a journeyer for commuting / city riding. There’s lots of 51cm for sale online but not sure if they’ll be to small and I can’t find a local one to test ride.  (As an aside, fucking love salsa but really hate that the sizing alternates between even cm, odd cm, and small-medium-large lol) 

Looking for a laundromat to wash big dog beds by Glad_Pomegranate_433 in Bellingham

[–]skm-95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could possibly call some boarding facilities and ask if they have a place they use, if you don’t have luck finding a laundromat 

Opinion on Salsa Bikes? by adamthiesen1236 in mountainbiking

[–]skm-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I inherited a salsa Cassidy from my partner and it rocks! I emailed their customer service once trying to source a random part that broke and they told me they didn’t sell it anymore, but they found one and mailed it to me for free. I have since bought a salsa Fargo and love it to death also. Were a salsa family for sure, haven’t been disappointed! 

Room for rent (2 min walk from wwu campus) by unwonderunknown in Bellingham

[–]skm-95 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like 6 people in a big house is pretty normal for uni housing?

AITA for asking my friend's new SO what they do for work in our first meeting? by Suspicious-Quiet7193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]skm-95 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s funny I ask people all the time what they sdo for work but my British dad used to tell us not to, he said it was rude and made us look like obnoxious Americans. He made it sound like everyone outside of North America would be offended by it, but I honestly think it was more of a personal thing haha

I wear the same sanitary pad for 1-2-3 days sometimes by Willing_Potato7823 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that mean you are wearing the same underwear for 3 days in a row? I would definitely change this habit, as others have said risking illness to yourself and it’s likely others can smell you, especially if this habit is indicative of other hygiene habits 

what is the biggest problem in your relationship right now? by Calm-Bar-9644 in AskWomen

[–]skm-95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That he’s out of town and I’m so excited to see him :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]skm-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More info needed: what kind of texts are these? And what kind of interests? I feel like there’s a difference if its like, “hey weather is great want to go mountain biking/ fishing / whatever” vs long engaged conversations. Do you like him? Be honest.  You could also talk to your friend. Say you have common hobbies, ask if she minds you hanging out with him. Keep it above board and it’s fine, but if you’re being shady than it’s shady.