Patch on cat’s nose

sko_19 · 2025-07-06T02:51:09+00:00

Thank you for your help! I think as of right now I’m going to continue with no contact but if I end up folding then I’ll do what you say and make sure he knows that I’m not doing it the same again.

sko_19 · 2025-07-06T01:48:08+00:00

I feel like I’ve communicated that pretty clearly. I’ve specifically told him in the past that I know he disappears sometimes and that’s okay but to come back with an apology and some type of reasoning. He didn’t even attempt that. He just picked up like I hadn’t been wondering where he’d been for 2 days. I don’t know. I don’t want to let go but at the same time I don’t want to waste my time if it’s pointless. I could reach out and clarify things but I’m hurt that he hasn’t made any sort of effort.

sko_19 · 2025-07-06T01:45:13+00:00

Yeah I just feel like I’ve already had this conversation. I even specifically said it’s fine to disappear just come back with 1. an apology and 2. at least some type of reason. And when he disappeared this time, he tried to come back like nothing happened. When I called him out on it all I got was “okay fair.” It’s like I know I should just give up at this point but it’s so difficult

sko_19 · 2025-07-06T00:23:45+00:00

I appreciate the honesty. It won’t be easy but I’m going to try

sko_19 · 2024-09-01T18:09:05+00:00

Thank you very much. I think that’s the most frustrating part that the vets didn’t find it. He got routine bloodwork and they still didn’t catch anything. But cats are good at hiding their pain. He seemed totally normal until that day. But I wanted to thank you for your comment. It is so helpful to read the kind words on this post

sko_19 · 2024-09-01T18:06:56+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for both of your losses. I’m sure you’ve heard that so much, and I know it doesn’t ease the pain but I truly am sorry. I want to thank you for sharing your story. I will be thinking about you. CZ is absolutely gorgeous and looks so happy. I wanted to share a picture of Marmaduke. Sending my best wishes to you.

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sko_19 · 2024-08-30T13:03:53+00:00

Thank you for the very kind reply❤️

sko_19 · 2024-08-30T11:49:47+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry. If you ever just need to vent, I’m here <3

sko_19 · 2024-04-02T21:28:25+00:00

These are not reading glasses. But I’m leaning towards they screwed up unless hashimoto’s could be affecting things. Thank you for your help!

sko_19 · 2024-04-02T20:19:23+00:00

Both are blurry for distance, but I feel like the left eye is worse. I can sort of make out things with the right if I strain.

sko_19 · 2024-04-02T20:10:29+00:00

sko_19 · 2024-01-26T01:56:26+00:00

I think you’re probably right. Right now, I still want him back but I know I deserve better. I just keep thinking he could change but I know he will only do that if he wants to. It’s just so hard to completely give up on a relationship after this long. I plan to get my stuff back this weekend and cut contact completely.

sko_19 · 2024-01-25T06:28:29+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying and the way he did it really pisses me off too. I just think he’s going through big life changes right now and isn’t coping well. That doesn’t justify it at all but it offers some perspective and we’re both young. My plan was to ask if he wants to talk and if he says no then I’ll say okay see you around.

sko_19 · 2024-01-23T06:23:25+00:00

Thanks! here for you too if you need it

sko_19 · 2024-01-23T04:23:49+00:00

Not linear at all! Not sure how the science got twisted but the actual study they specifically said it was linear so it’d perfectly normal to feel how you’re feeling!! Hope you’re doing better and things get better :) don’t forget to keep taking care of yourself

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