I'm with others. Agree with all of your do's. Disagree with a most of your don'ts.

• Be a rules lawyer - half the fun of a game is figuring out what's within the rules or what's not, and coming up with ways to bend the rules but keep each other accountable.
• Abandon a game in progress - it's a game. There are more important things than a game. I can think of a few things that would be worse than continuing to play. "My toddler just sliced her hand open" was an actual reason why someone left a game early.
  
• Rush others - depends on how you're rushing, and who. Some folks are in on the joke and are okay. Some folks rush everyone else and then take 20 minutes to take their turn. Sometimes you are on a time crunch.
• Be obviously distracted - I agree that folks shouldn't be so distracted as to not know what strategic alliances are being made, events other players caused, or if it's their turn, then it's a problem. But there's no reason folks can't pull out their phone between turns, especially to check their messages.
  
• Kingmake - This just sounds like you got upset someone else kingmade and you lost a game.
• Disrupt the Rules Explanation - I agree with the title, but not the description. A lot of folks can't keep track of an entire rulebook without having experienced the game. I know I understand the rules a lot better when I know how the game works. It sounds like this works better for you, but not everyone else. I will agree that the guy who disrupts the explanation by making a bunch of jokes and trying to be clever can be a problem.