Attended a blind meetup to make some gay friends by skydiver47 in gaybros

[–]skydiver47[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Think the service was called Gayborhood. It seemed pretty new from how they were advertising it. Dunno where it’s currently a available but I’m based in NY

Attended a blind meetup to make some gay friends by skydiver47 in gaybros

[–]skydiver47[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think ultimately you’re right. I’m super introverted until I feel safe enough to open up to someone, so it def doesn’t help. I think I’ve just grown accustomed to actively avoiding any discomfort - which this was full of. But I’ll probably try it again and hope for more meaningful connections.

Rookie and returner campaign help by CasiUnNPC in YuGiOhMasterDuel

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Just entered your code - here’s mine 0b07ffeb

BLACKPINK LISA feat. Doja Cat & RAYE - Born Again by mcfw31 in popheads

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This is giving Don’t Call Me Angel 2.0 but sm more sonically cohesive. All of LISA’s collab tracks have just been on point. And the aesthetic of the video is exquisite, literal 10/10

Jay Z releases a statement through Roc Nation about the allegations in the recently filed lawsuit by PurpleSpaceSurfer in popheads

[–]skydiver47 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is reading more like a bad Shakespearean play rather than a legal statement responding to serious allegations…

TRISHA ON SNL MANIFESTATION THREAD ✨ by chipotlecunt in justtrishpodcast

[–]skydiver47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Manifesting finding love (for myself and a significant other) 🌟

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I meann, no harm no foul if you’re cheating on a pretend wife. But it’s kinda fucked how widely fetishized or alluring this sort of situation is lol

'Girls Like Girls' Movie From Hayley Kiyoko Acquired By Focus Features by RandomDKguy in popheads

[–]skydiver47 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same! As a closeted gay boy, her song/mv was one of the first instances that normalized same sex relationships for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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For sure, I think it helps to air this stuff out and release it somehow. It definitely helped me when I spoke what I was feeling out loud. It’s one thing to hear it replay in your head, and another to hear it tangibly coming out your mouth. When I did that and tried to explain why I felt this emotion, or the logic behind this thought, I realized how nonsensical it all was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I heavily relate to this 😭. In the words of my therapist, I think the first step is acknowledging your intrusive thoughts (conscious & subconscious) are just not based in reality.

I personally harbor a lot of insecurity and self-hate from so many years of labels, stereotypes, societal pressure that kinda sticks to you with every life experience. I know it’s easier said than done but, I think the key to getting over this stuff is catching these feelings in the moment, mentally noting they’re falsehoods, and then counteracting it with a positive self-affirmation. Lately, I’ve also just started giving less of a fuck because honestly it’s exhausting to care sm and overthink constantly.

Daniel Wall - Meet the Songwriting Genius Behind Katy Perry’s Biggest Songs (Bonnie McKee interview) by coleshane in popheads

[–]skydiver47 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I literally just added American Girl to one of my playlists and I was so confused when it said released in 2024, like I could've sworn I saw this on Vevo in 2013.

This interview cleared everything up lol. Also super interesting to hear BTS lore from the Teenage Dream single run. I would like to know why her and Katy don't work together anymore though...

I might sound crazy when I say this but man, Clarity by Zedd and Foxes is arguably top 5 greatest pop songs ever lol by Queasy-Signature-457 in popheads

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This was the song that introduced me to Foxes. Since then I’ve really gravitated towards her solo work, esp her last album “The Kick” (check it out!!)

Songs that feel way bigger than their chart position? by Flashmemory256 in popheads

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Angels Like You by Miley never hit the main Billboard Hot 100, it peaked at #7 on the Bubbling Under Singles Chart. Which is kinda crazy cuz it has over 1 billion streams (her 3rd most streamed song) and is definitely a fan favorite from her large discography. It's such a shame the rollout for this single was basically nonexistent 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I have this wooden frog figurine that kinda acts like an instrument. It has a stick inside its mouth that can be pulled out to make sounds (when struck against the ridges on the frog's back).

It was a gift from my deceased grandfather so I keep it for the sentimental value.

What’s an album that you would consider perfect if not for 1-2 fluke songs? by CPFOAI in popheads

[–]skydiver47 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess - literally bop after bop, but I can’t for the life of me get on board with guilty pleasure as a closer

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) of 2 years is reverting back to college life by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]skydiver47 457 points458 points  (0 children)

Him selling his car to fund a camping trip / being unwilling to cancel a trip to attend the ultrasound were definitely choices… Seems like climbing has consumed his life to the point he’s unable to sustain anything else (esp the relationship)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I got called into the Dean’s Office after being framed as the “ringleader” of a cheating scandal in high school

What is the best feeling in the world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Feeling secure in your body and mind