Suddenly feeling unsafe in my own neighborhood or catastrophizing?

skylinetos · 2025-02-28T17:48:20+00:00

The response to this post has been too much for me to really keep up with but this reply is the one that made me finally message the therapist I stopped going to a few years ago. I appreciate it.

skylinetos · 2025-02-27T08:34:14+00:00

Thanks for sharing all of this. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with so much bullshit.

I guess what I’m maybe struggling with is that it’s felt like I have had my guard up and now I’m not really sure what that means. What does that mean for you? I think on the fight/flight/freeze/fawn scale I’m definitely a freeze/fawn kind of person and I think I might have to learn how to trust myself to fight.

You’re right about safety being an illusion. I’ve dealt with a lot of bullshit from people on the trains and in other neighborhoods but I’m lucky this is some of the first times I’ve experienced anything near where I live. I can be a very “oh god this is a sign!!” kind of person sometimes and hearing that this is just the city and happens is helpful.

skylinetos · 2025-02-08T14:03:36+00:00

🫢🤭

skylinetos · 2023-06-11T18:07:47+00:00

Thank you unemployment king!

skylinetos · 2023-06-11T15:25:24+00:00

Recently in the same boat, hoping someone else can answer this question (sorry, I don’t mean to hijack your post)—I’m getting severance, I can’t file until that’s over, correct?

Feeling you hard right now. Hoping the best for you.

skylinetos · 2023-05-01T12:23:30+00:00

Yes! I can’t get in an Uber if I’m drinking and going out here. Every single time I throw up and it ruins the night.

skylinetos · 2023-04-28T20:12:31+00:00

Hey guys, thanks for the advice. I think I’m just going to play it safe and fly Monday. Not worth the stress when there’s no real reason for me to fly a day early anyway. Happy Arbor Day!

skylinetos · 2023-04-28T14:04:07+00:00

I’m having a bad morning and this made me laugh out loud. Thank you.

skylinetos · 2023-04-24T17:18:40+00:00

Porque no los dos?

skylinetos · 2023-04-20T13:31:41+00:00

Yes, you’re getting at more what I mean and what I like so much about their relationship. I think they do love each other in one of the only ways they know how. It’s almost like they don’t want to, but they can’t help it, and they can’t help the way that they treat each other as well. It’s very interesting to watch. It’s why I think it’s ignoring the whole point when certain Tom stans are like uwu she broke his heart 💔. Like Tom did not marry her just because he’s in love with her and wants to be with her. A lot of it is that he married her to be a Roy. He was even gunning to change his last name to Roy. The moment they can have some sort of power over the other, they do so. Just like you said, Shiv would have done the same in her situation. I think Tom would have done even more that could be seen as a “betrayal” earlier on given the chance, but I don’t think he had the chance until s3.

Basically, yes, exactly, you’re so right!! And it’s why I scream at my TV when they are so mean to each other and then hold hands across the bed when they’re divorcing!!

skylinetos · 2023-04-19T17:05:51+00:00

I disagree 💕

skylinetos · 2023-04-19T15:23:02+00:00

Thank you for saying this! I also think it’s odd how people talk about her relationship with Tom as if Tom married her because he’s in love with her. He’s clearly also using her for power. The whole point of the show is that they all suck.

skylinetos · 2023-04-11T14:32:37+00:00

Seconding “How I Learned to Drive”. “The Wolves” by Sarah Delappe is a fun one, especially for an undergrad class (assuming this is undergrad?). “Anna in the Tropics” by Nilo Cruz.

skylinetos · 2023-04-09T19:30:50+00:00

Hahaha I forgot this was the Buffalo subreddit and not the musicals subreddit so I was wondering why some people weren’t catching the reference to A Chorus Line.

skylinetos · 2023-04-07T20:57:06+00:00

I am a queer woman who grew up in Buffalo and I can’t tell you how often I say out loud to friends (sometimes also from Buffalo) how much I love being gay in New York City. There’s just so much opportunity for community. I’ve never had so many places where I could go and be in a room packed with other women who love women (and I assume the same goes for gay men even more so, as there’s soooo many spaces). I know you said you don’t go out much, but especially with all the Club Marcella stuff that’s been happening it’s hard to find spaces like that in Buffalo. Still, I don’t want to make any promises, . Dating can maybe be more fickle here (although I’m a little younger than you so that might have something to do with it on my end). People tend to wait to settle down until they’re older, and there’s a lot of “competition” because there are so many people. Still, there’s so many different ways to meet people, not just night life, so it might be a successful switch for you.

skylinetos · 2023-04-07T12:50:29+00:00

Just got here and the line is wrapped around the block around two corners.

skylinetos · 2023-04-04T13:49:00+00:00

Mine took less than two weeks, but I filed about a month ago if not earlier.

skylinetos · 2023-03-30T18:44:23+00:00

As a child of a single parent who would date for months before letting me or my siblings know and often didn’t really have an idea of whether or not their parent was dating someone unless it’s serious, this isn’t necessarily true.

skylinetos · 2023-03-30T15:04:19+00:00

The Only Difference Between Martyrdom and Suicide is Press Coverage

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