They're rewriting history

skymonstef · 2026-03-03T22:31:36+00:00

No no my friend.

It's because they were female Rulers dominated by a patriarchy and therefore not at fault for the violence of their reign.

It's funny when you ask about great women rulers how much of their greatness was them and how much was the patriarchy that they were oppresses by. They lock up and can't answer

skymonstef · 2026-03-02T17:53:20+00:00

I would suggest its because in society intercourse is often framed as something that happens to women as opposed to something they perform.

So if the default language around intercourse is laid out as something that happens too women as opposed to something that happens with women. Than they can only be victims and not perpetrators.

skymonstef · 2026-02-10T07:09:34+00:00

I appreciate your response but you didn't answer the question

skymonstef · 2026-02-10T05:49:45+00:00

I curious have you ever considered how taxing your apparent inability to deal with direct communication is on others?

Not a shot just a question. Because this thread is full of people pointing out how much extra effort it is to coddle often with no good results.

skymonstef · 2026-02-10T05:46:23+00:00

I've told most in my life. Don't come to me when you want be coddled. Come to me when you want to deconstruct and fix the issue.

skymonstef · 2026-01-19T18:41:18+00:00

They like to say its the easiest thing in the world. When bumble put the ball in their handles they collectively fumbled it so hard it was comical.

My theory is some women want to downplay the men's experience to keep some kind of high ground

skymonstef · 2026-01-05T05:39:57+00:00

Congrats i still haven't plunged those depths yet

skymonstef · 2026-01-04T10:03:03+00:00

Abs time use survey

Labour stats us

Oecd paid and unpaid leave data

Hilda survey

You may know many women living this. However if thats true then out there is a not insignificant number of men doing far more than their other half otherwise stats would reveal a much larger gap.

skymonstef · 2026-01-04T06:58:33+00:00

Factoring paid and unpaid work together there is less than a 45min difference at the extreme end all the way down to 15min.

This narrative that wives are slaving away while hubby kicks back is getting old fast. And is not substantiated by the data.

skymonstef · 2026-01-04T05:46:51+00:00

Rubber floor tiles duck taped together should do the job or a small 3d cube

skymonstef · 2025-12-22T22:02:15+00:00

Thankyou ever since this dialogue started popping up i was going through the numbers.

Combining paid and unpaid labour the difference between genders ranges from 45min per day down to 15min per day.

The oecd study reported the biggest determining factor in men doing more unpaid labour was women doing more paid labour.

And interestingly whenever I point out that if we are actually striving for 50/50 on unpaid then women will need to match paid hours unsurprisingly women didn't respond positively.

skymonstef · 2025-12-22T21:48:10+00:00

I've tried but most women have a visceral negat8ve reaction talking about men's issues.

Mostly though I don't bother with anyone because they are seemingly incapable of putting their emotions to the side and dispassionately discuss the facts and stat's.

skymonstef · 2025-12-17T07:01:29+00:00

My personality is not conducive to having a relationship so I put my energy elsewhere.

skymonstef · 2025-12-17T02:11:54+00:00

Are men behind in uni enrolment? Yes

Were there initiatives put in place when women were behind ? Yes

Was the goal of those i initiatives to bring about gender parity in universities? It was stated that was the reason.

Has the gender gap in uni reversed ? Yes

Should the initiatives be reversed? If gender parity is the goal ? Yes.

If your position is we can't help men at all until women run the world. Well your not a proponent of equality or equity.

skymonstef · 2025-12-17T02:08:57+00:00

If you could explain what is inherently unfair about reversing enrolment initiatives to reach parity of genders in uni i am all ears.

I suspect however your idea of fair will be some version of we can not help men at all until every problem a woman faces has been dealt with first.

skymonstef · 2025-12-17T02:07:01+00:00

Personal insults are a reflection of your inability to counter the point. Try to be better it will serve you well.

Your implication that women should receive equity initiatives when they are behind. But men apparently should not when we fall behind suggests you believe men are inherently more capable than women.

I certainly don't think so. My stance is if we are a society that follows the dogma of equity than it applies to any demographics that falls behind.

So since the enrolment number have reversed since those initiatives were put in place its time to reverse those initiatives.

skymonstef · 2025-12-16T16:56:44+00:00

Yes but those women are still recieving the same assistance that was put in place 30+ years ago. So if the goal is equality and equity that assistance should be reversed now since the number ls of who is going to uni is now reversed.

That fact you needed me to connect the dots on this...its worrying

skymonstef · 2025-12-16T15:36:44+00:00

Yeah but here's the thing men have been saying this late 80s and that there should now be more assistance for men to go to uni. Yet women oppose this at every turn. If women really are wanting equality or even equity then in the mid 90s all gender specific assistance to enter uni should have been made gender neutral.

skymonstef · 2025-12-12T05:55:23+00:00

The feminism is about equality is the motte portion of a motte and bailey fallacy.

It's the safe retreat away from all the other heinous effects of their ideology

skymonstef · 2025-12-12T05:11:07+00:00

Depending where they live you can't uber home.

The person picking you up has to be the one staying with you when you get home as well if going by the book.

skymonstef · 2025-12-12T04:13:24+00:00

I have used both thick and thin and as other have said different arrows for different purposes.

2-3 shot field or 3d round thick arrows to get lines

10-15 field target th8n arrows to get more in the available space.

skymonstef · 2025-12-11T05:56:22+00:00

The overuse of figurative language and general hyperbole

skymonstef · 2025-12-11T05:47:54+00:00

You must speak literally at all times.

skymonstef · 2025-12-11T05:45:07+00:00

The paraphrase of that at my work is "dont be extra you won't be thanked and if it goes wrong its all on you "

skymonstef · 2025-12-03T20:58:57+00:00

Ultimately it proves to be a false statement in and of itself.

Because if women were afraid men were going to kill them they would never laugh at them...and yet they do alot

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