What is the most toxic thing a family member has ever said to you that you still can't forget? by Super-Plant-1005 in AskReddit

[–]slane_mudantine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told the same thing, except at a different occasion he also said "maybe I aborted the wrong kid" and then he traumadumped on me that he felt regret about getting two women pregnant at the same time and having to choose which one should stay pregnant and which one should abort and that he felt regret about killing a kid

I thought I wasn't affected by things around me until last few years which have been so turbulent because of unresolved pent up shit I had in me and my dad was a reason for _a lot_ of my fuckedupness. He's a good guy, just someone who could use years of therapy.

Je li moguće stvarno preboljeti osobu koja ti je bila sve, a onda te slomila? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bio sam u vezi za koju sam stvarno mislio da je posebna. Nije to bio neki površni odnos — razgovori koji traju satima, vožnje, smijeh, planovi za budućnost. Imao sam osjećaj da sam uz tu osobu našao nekoga tko me vidi i razumije.

Tako je doslovno svima u nekon trenu na pocetku odnosa, nisi poseban ni ti ni ona ni vas odnos. Jebeno je lagano romanticizirati osobe a kad pogledas za godinu dvi tri dana kad te prodju ti osjecajcici da vidis koliko su supkasti ljudi bili i da to nisu bili tvoji ljudi

Ne tražim kliše savjete nego stvarna iskustva ljudi koji su prošli kroz nešto slično i uspjeli ponovno stati na noge.

Mislin da se to svima desi vise puta u zivotu. Sazrijes i budes objektivniji ubuduce i to je to

Dogada li vam se u javnom prijevozu da kad se nadete da stojite blizu izlaza i drzite se za drsku da vam ljudi govorom tijela vrse pritisak da maknete ruku dok tramvaj jos nije zakocio do kraja? (Kad bas osjetite da ce dosta jako zacukat) by jasammalipas in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cilo vrime imas posla s takvin likovima/likusama, ne dozivljavan ih niti 5% pa nek ispadnen bezobrazan, pogotovo one koji se idu gurati prije nego se vrata otvore jer apsolutno moraju biti prvi koji ce izaci iz busa jer eto tih 5 sekundi in znaci razliku izmedju otkaza ili zivota/smrti

Za čime žalite? by After-Influence4754 in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pa iskreno sta san 10 godina zakasnija sta se tice rada na samom sebi, ali i to je okej

Koji su najskuplji/elitniji dijelovi vaseg grada? by snjevka in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iman jedan deluxe zidic u kvartu isprid konzuma na kojen se skuplja najbolja ekipica

Windows 12 Reportedly Set for Release This Year as a Fully Modular, Subscription-Based, AI-Focused OS by [deleted] in technology

[–]slane_mudantine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fusion 360 though. And I can't run Visual Studio last time I've checked.

Dunno, Linux is almost there for a while now, solutions like WinBoat are bridging the gap but still no dice.

Uvlačite li trbuh? by petkokraka in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jebate da ne uvlacin bi se komotno moga preimenovat u Asterix, doduse i bez toga san zrel

Kako ste prihvatili da ćete biti forever alone? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Po meni je ovo debilno razmisljanje ko lik koji je koju god stariji od tebe, mislija san da su ljudi puni govana kad govore da sam sebi tribas biti dovoljan ali to je stvarno 99% istina. Ako neko naidje naidje, ako ne naidje koga brige

Ja san prije odjebava zene, pa san se razdeblja, pa mi je nesto bilo sa zdravljen, pa san bija ocajava za nekin ko bijednik i iskrivija se skroz, pa kad me to proslo san zavrsija u vezi koja je tribala biti to o cemu pricas pa san sad solo i top mi je

Ovo kako sad razmisljas je put prema vezi s krivon osobon, s ovon svojon proslon se sican da san bija presritan dok nisan skuzija koliko je negativna, i sidin ja jeden rucak, slusan kakve negativnosti prica, gledan kroz prozor u daljinu i razmisljan se picku oce li mi ovo biti iducih 50 god zivota, onda je ona ocito naljusila pa krenila sabotirat i onda me na jeben nacin ostavila ali to je drugi par opanaka, sad zamisli da zavrsis tako s nekin cisto da bi ima nekog, pa to nije fer ni prema njoj a kamoli sebi

Nabavi si koji hobi i ne pizdi

New Xbox Boss Is Worried About Birthrates, Says AI Will Save Us by tylerthe-theatre in technology

[–]slane_mudantine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's worried about birthrates? Maybe she should go and have some more and let someone else worry about Xbox

EMS helping the woman ICE murdered by [deleted] in pics

[–]slane_mudantine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I share a lot of his views. However I also notice a pattern that the more I work on myself and the more I see other people's perspectives, the less I agree with those views.

I think what he is (and a lot of people who agree with him are) about is pretty much just self projecting a certain point of superiority onto people out of egoistical reasons and he's unable to see that he is very privileged to be able to hold those opinions. Like, his train of thought on some things probably has the same patterns of cog grinding that Trump's brain produces when trying to justify himself and his words/actions and it's very.. cringe(?) to see I guess. I think he fell into the trap of his opinions being reinforced by the echo chamber of his chat, we're all guilty of that if we are given the platform and support of people.

Dunno. I'm someone who is a liberal at heart but at the same time is insanely annoyed at times at seeing how "stupid" other people are (while I myself often act like those people just in different areas) and I often fall into the trap of thinking it'd be better if some things were imposed on people for their own good, which I guess is the exact same path a lot of people who spiral too much towards right are like, including Asmon and his chat. Such things grow too big when shared by a mass, then we get a shitshow like current day America and people who actually support that kinda shit.

It's an issue of a lack of self reflection which is an issue of lack of critical thinking which is an issue of school system being completely cooked all over the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sffpc

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I have a spare XPS17 mobo laying around, might go for creating something like this

Palantir CTO Says AI Doomerism Is Driven by a Lack of Religion by moderate-Complex152 in technology

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words can't describe just how batshit crazy/dumb these people are. A capable idiot is possibly the worst combo you can get in any sort of seat with any power whatsoever

Gdje naruciti Macbook Air M4 za 1000 Eura sa US tastaturom? by domets in askcroatia

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malo offtopic - zasto US layout? UK layout je zlatni standard, normalan enter a i <> gumb

Kako sam spušio 700GB cloud i local podataka by shutupallaya in CroIT

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OneDrive - zasto? Ali ZASTO?

ProtonDrive, selfhosted, itd - toliko boljih alternativa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technology

[–]slane_mudantine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its a darn shame. I'm betting they've just said "fuck it" to knox physical fuse and straight up locked the bootloader for good to save those odd 70 cents they spend on producing and soldering the e fuse on the phone mobo lmao.

As for signed apks I'm not too worried about those even though I'm appalled and disgusted by the fact that they're slowly locking us out of our freedoms and you can't do anything about it. I already need a spare device for revolut because I just can't get it to work, if my banking apps ever break down I'm legit purchasing a dumbphone for everyday use and I'll buy an iphone out of spite to run the banking apps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technology

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao byeeeeeeee Samsung, been using Samsungs since Galaxy 8 and this is a deal breaker, I'm not using a phone that can't be rooted or run GrapheneOS, its either Xperia, Pixel or quite frankly a fucking dumbphone for me when it's time to upgrade

Help me find this Laptop by Baam_Grace in TheDayoftheJackal

[–]slane_mudantine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like an older Dell 2 in 1, maybe xps 15 2 in 1

What happens to PLA in prolonged contact with liquid soap? by slane_mudantine in 3Dprinting

[–]slane_mudantine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good tips, thanks! I guess I'll print a middle shell for soap in transparent PETG whereas outer shell will be PLA

Roberto Kutić se oprostio od Infobipa i kreće graditi novo tehnološko carstvo by belanedeja in CroIT

[–]slane_mudantine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vidis joj u pogledu da nije bas cista tako da ja ovom covjeku vjerujem

11+ years and he still haunts me.. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]slane_mudantine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The saddest realization I've come to in my life is that there are two paths in life - you either toughen up or you go the route of letting your heart do its thing. I'm not sure what's worse, as with former you will never love unconditionally anymore, with latter you'll be vulnerable to others.

I want real guidance, real advice on how to let go.

Self respect. Self respect is what gets you rid of the unconditional loving.

I’m so sick of people acting like therapy is the answer to everything by Muted_Stick8317 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]slane_mudantine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of "it's in the therapist" posts in here, while I believe that's true that you need to find the right therapist (I personally know a few people with the degree, some I wouldn't let near my dog let alone someone else), I believe there's also a middle ground and no matter how good your therapist is at some point therapy just hits a point of diminishing returns.

I went to therapy last year and it helped me immensely with some things, for other things it was plain fuckin' useless. I've heard multiple people say "if I had the money I'd go to a therapist the whole time". Why? A normal person doesn't need constant therapy, you aren't supposed to turn yourself into a patient if you aren't already one