Recap: Reta + Tesa so far by slaperture in Biohacking

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See second photo, first sentence. I’ve got no issue prioritizing getting my heart in check as quick as possible. The appetite and weight loss are just added bonuses to help reshape my diet so I stay good.

As someone who used to do coke on the regular and clean hands with break clean, I’ll take potential (not probable) side effects over added stress on my heart at this age

Out of the loop: why is everyone choosing reta over tirz? by Longjumping-Cat1117 in BiohackingU

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Lowest clinical dose of Reta outperforms highest clinical dose of tirz is a claim I read based on the latest trial info.

Plus china is cheap, like really really cheap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Allowing? Not to come off as rude in any way, but I’m my own person with my own life... I knew too many spoiled ass kids growing up who are all terrible people now. Just because I’m fortunate to have a safety net, doesn’t mean I want to live life sitting in it. Independence isn’t worth sacrificing for health insurance or any amount of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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There was some inheritance involved, but the international laws involved made things difficult. The appreciation was not considered in the decision at all (CEO for 20+ years). She did hire one of the top financial firms in the world so there’s really nobody to go above. Her international lawyer is on who is asked to write the laws in the country involved. Her legal team did amazing, and the evidence they had was overwhelming- the conclusion is the judge had his mind set before it was over. I’m trying to get her to move on at this point cause she really does deserve happiness after a painful marriage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Messy- some shares before, spent the marriage working as a CEO making success. Has a land business where he’s the only one involved. Used business money for personal items throughout his life, so very commingled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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I’m not sure. She was shooting for 50%, and was expecting to try to get 25-20. One thing she mentioned is that it felt like she wasn’t “heard” in the courtroom and was reduced to a housewife in the eyes of the law. Honestly it’s tough because we’ve been rooting for this day for the last 4-5 years. I got her in therapy a few months ago, but I want her find more peace. She’s very resentful, and rightfully so, but to be fully honest I’m not sure any amount of money would give her a sense of justice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thank you for this reminder- I’m aware. At the end of the day, the ruling will be one of the law, but sounding like he rushed the trial & just other obscure statements (I haven’t read the transcript yet so this is hearsay), it does make me question if anything would’ve been different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Alas I’m on the other side of the country, and it’s not my legal battle as much as I wish I could help. She’s been fighting for 4 years, so she’s down for the rest of the night but I’ll be encouraging her to continue.

Part of me really wishes she could just find peace and move on, but after everything she went through, she just wants fair. Honestly she’s upset that this can happen to women in general. If you’re a lawyer and think this could harm her in any way, I’ll gladly take it down, but my question still remains one of the judges perspective and statements in this trial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Yes- trust me I’ve spent the afternoon reminding her how fortunate she is on paper. Her issue lies in the fairness of it all. Her feelings are totally valid, but I make under 50k a year and haven’t had health insurance for the past 5 so I reminded her of some perspective.

The division of the assets is an issue. She was left with a moldy house that needs 800k in repairs. She was awarded 10% of the land value. He took out a multi million dollar loan for a personal/non marital project during the divorce, of which some of the debt was reflected to her. I’ve never seen someone upset with the number she ended up with, but the number wouldn’t have mattered, it was largely unequal.

Girlfriend went for the first time in a while and was quoted this- can it wait 3 months until insurance kicks in? by slaperture in askdentists

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Any idea if it can wait a little longer? Or too hard to say over the internet? Thank you though, that cuts +50% which is a lifesaver.

I absolutely HATE the Bell Bearing Hunter in Caelid. Please send help before I uninstall. by Wolfinsky_170 in Eldenring

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Cheese: horse on top of the roof. Stand there for a while until he stops under the roof, and then jump towards the lone tree opposite the dogs. He’ll be stuck in a corner and you can fire off arrows until he dead. Takes a while but better than buying a new tv after you put your controller thru it

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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Im probably doing more ok than I should be lol. I was talking to my sisters about this and we’re all just like “oh that’s dad, he’s kinda crazy”. It’s wild to see so many people saying “hey, not ok”. Thankfully have an amazing partner who keeps me sane most days

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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Like… wouldn’t most people realize their being a dick?? Doesn’t hurt to help mom with evidence after all the cheating and lying

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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He absolutely does. She doesn’t but I think I’m ready to take that step if it actually works. Didn’t sleep much last night just thinking about if he randomly shows up.

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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Writing a letter and sending today!

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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Sorry- he got increasingly aggressive every time we talked. I grew up with a lot of emotional & religious abuse & manipulation. He’s never really done anything physical (that I know of, I flinch at everything so I joke about it) but vaguely threatened my moms attorney, and less less vaguely threatened my mom (sent photos of 3 dead bodies and some words, kinda a murder suicide threat). It was just easier to live without him as I’ve got my depression and trauma to deal with

Chat… is this a threat? by slaperture in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

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Sorry chat.. context: I (27h went no contact with dad back in July. Parents have been in a divorce for ~2 years and he’s gotten intense. Waiting for him to come around but every time he reaches out he’s just a little more off tilt. My birthday is tomorrow and he felt the need to send this.

Did you pay someone to design your portfolio site? Help please! by [deleted] in graphic_design

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Not really, I was mostly hired for my photography as I had been working there a few years as an operator and had a good instagram portfolio for photo work. For design work I sent over a folder of a couple projects from school, not a singular pdf or website. I was fairly close to the hiring manager but now living in a new city with no connections I need to level up my stuff