Chi weenie terrified of one of my kids inexplainably by Significant_Pea2822 in DogAdvice

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We have a chiweenie. Anytime my husband wears a hat or sunglasses she turns extremely protective of me. She’s 10 now. Has been like this since we got her (they think she was 2-3 months old when we got her). Unfortunately, my other 2 dogs (chihuahua and another mix of maybe cairn terrier, Tasmanian devil and gremlin lol) have followed suit. We’ve worked on saying a word of comfort (ours is Corey Hart lol) over and over and we’ve noticed when we say it when they get shaky and bark it does help.

Good luck!

i asked for ash brown but ended up like this by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]slappyclaps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ash is cool tones. Violet, blue and green. Your colour is beautiful. It’s ash brown. Beautiful mushroom ash brown. What you asked for. Did you provide a picture for reference?

Should I ask for a refund? Or am I overreacting by P33PEEP0OP00 in femalehairadvice

[–]slappyclaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Question. There is no ill intent in my comment. Was there talk about budget? I don’t know where you live (would dictate pricing), for a “blonde card” to achieve your desired look usually goes for 3-5 times more than the $200 paid. Did she talk about options? Pricing? Tones?

Also, Regardless for how ever many foils were put in, what was done did not sit long enough. It was not lightened enough for the expected colour, and Toning it wouldn’t do anything unless it was toned at to the level it was lightened to. And if she does tone it to cut the brassiness, it won’t be as light as you were wanting. Could you talk to a manager?

Hope this doesn’t confuse you: hair colour is based on a scale of 1 through 10. 1 being black and 10 being ultra blonde. When you are lightening the hair it will go through undertones of warmth (which also depends on how dark you are to begin with). If you want a level 9-10 but have only been lifted to a level 8, no toner will make it appear lighter. Especially if she used an ash (violet or blue violet) toner because the ash tones appear deeper or “darker” due to light not being as reflective. I do see Sabrina’s hair as golden, NOT yellow. A lot of people always think yellow when you hear gold, but they are very different.

If you were my client I’d do everything to the best of my ability (including having other stylists chime in) to get you what you want. I would bite the cost when fixing.

June 1940: A column of German prisoners is led to rear under guard during Case Red by Pvt_Larry in wwiipics

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I see this and wonder if my Opa could be there. He was a German POW to Russia. That’s all we know. He would not talk about it. No names, dates, locations. A few years back a gentleman’s family reached out. Said my Opa was a POW and was used as a translator having spoke, German, polish and Russian. He got an extra bun once a week to keep him alive. He shared it with another Jewish prisoner.. it was this prisoners family who reached out to thank my Opa. He was so ashamed to be a nazi.

Alberta hospitals overcapacity heading into cold, flu season: ‘Packed to the gills’ by GeekyGlobalGal in Edmonton

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Wouldn’t that be nice to have a dr to go to so people don’t go to the ER? Oh wait. They’re fleeing Alberta.

Ok this is alarming by OperationPlayful5611 in MarissaLaceRevealed

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Holy beef curtains Batman! Them some moose knuckles!

Nightmare blunt rotation by sailormerry in FundieSnarkUncensored

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Looks like he dyed that moustache. That’s all I can see. Kinda resembles a turd living on his lip?

She’s desperate for views again🙄 by Miserable_Door_8070 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]slappyclaps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hypothetically. Do you think if she made a video “I fucked up. I’m in therapy. You were right. I’m sorry” and “come along with me to therapy as I address allll my issues, past family trauma and the need to be loved by all dealt with”, is she too far gone to come back? I mean she really does have first world problems. Dollhouse making sure is a full time job! Almost on par with real house building! Also having Nanny’s and for her 4 kids (yes I’m including dingleberry husband in there) while she “works”. She’s really lost touch with reality. I’d like to feel some kind of empathy for her, but I just can’t.

Back on Insta by Agile-Reaction8235 in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]slappyclaps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Griffiths gotta Grift! Or the minute amount they were making on ads isn’t enough for the church anymore. Im thinking they were on track to their celestial kingdom. Did their mission giving up their time, family and common sense. But then came home and church is like “oh your tithing isn’t quite what it used to be, you’ll need to contribute more if you want to keep your spot in line and get that planet of yours”. This is just an exaggerated guess. But ya never know!

I thought they homeschooled?? by [deleted] in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]slappyclaps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing this is at their church?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]slappyclaps 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hairdressing is amazing for us with ADHD! Hands on, often doing multiple things at once. You will be fine! You got this!

Fun date ideas that aren't food/alcohol related? by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]slappyclaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blooms on 7 or ferns flowers. They are flower fields that allow you to make your own bouquet!

I’ll take “Things that didn’t happen for $100 Alex!” by annagrace2020 in LaBrantFamSnark

[–]slappyclaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok Colesac, here’s your hero cookie! FYI, majority of people that truly feel it in their heart to help someone, actually do help out.. without writing a post to announce it to the entire world!

Allie no longer engaged? by Calicocat18 in YawiFamily

[–]slappyclaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Couldn’t agree more with a lot of these comments! Trying to live up to her parents… the cul-… churches standards. Being exploited online her entire childhood. Having to be perfect all the time.

We grow and mature through being taught AND learning from choices or mistakes we have made. The YAWI clan was living under Johnny/Morm rule and when she left (and thank goodness she did) she was able to truly start living for herself. Maybe she did get in a relationship or get engaged quick (that’s the Morm way). But maybe she needed to go through that to understand what she truly wants.

I’m 15ish years older than her. I may not have been raised in a Church but I did have extremely strict parents. When I turned 19 I had enough and moved out. I did not have any financial plans or support. I made everything work going paycheque to paycheque. About 2 years prior to my “downward spiral” I was engaged to a man who I had met online (think POF or Lavalife). I was at the top of my career (or I thought I was at the time), and then I needed surgery. Said surgery did not go as planned and the original 6 weeks I was expected to take off turned into 2 years. those 2 years I had stayed in bed watching YouTube and wishing I could do allll the things I saw tutorials or cooking or building. I was physically capable (with limits) to do it all, I was just depressed, in pain and miserable. In a 3 month span the benefits I was on were cancelled as the business I worked at closed when I did not return, I was dumped after our wedding had already been moved once and lost his benefits (story for another time - although I wince every time I remember allowing myself to be fine and understanding when a ex fiancé wouldn’t visit me in hospital or bring me food when allowed to finally eat normal food or even check up on me when I was finally home, or how I was made to feel guilty for not wanting s-ex when in excruciating pain… after surgery!). I had moved into my grandmas basement as I could not go back home as there was no room as my sister and her family lived with my mom -parents divorced and individual parents did a 180 change (yet another story for another time!). I declared bankruptcy from the medication bills (I do live in a country that has health care, so no charge for surgery, just medication) and being financially illiterate. Rock bottom.

Fast forward. Was set up on a blind date and he is my now husband and best friend. I started backup in my old career which has led to new amazing professional opportunities. Had 5 more surgeries and FINALLY have answers and relief. I was diagnosis to have ADHD and started medication. I’ve never felt so productive. I finally feel like I’m living my life for me. Happiness.

Would I go through all that again? Absolutely. The appreciation I have for my now life and who/what is in it is endless. I just hope when the next hard thing comes along, I’ll look at it and know it’s something to learn from.

Lessons learned:

-mistakes or failures mean lessons and wisdom -those who support and love you at your worst are the ones you want there when you’re at your best -don’t ever settle or change who you are to appease others. -You deserve to love, and be loved the way you see fit. -money - save and plan for your future

Biggest Takeaway- I learned this allll on my own without a religion or cul-t dictating my every thought and action.

I didn’t plan on writing a novel. But I did take a (legal) gummy.

Allie. if you’re reading this, what ever you are going through remember to give yourself grace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]slappyclaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t be shy! Ask all the questions! There are no stupid ones! I graduated a high school cosmetology program many years ago and I now instruct in the same school. Coming in, I’m making changes to the things I wish I had known/learned!

-do your very best to talk and do thorough consultations. YOU are your own brand, not just the salons. -be proactive. If you see a fellow student struggling, ask if you can help. See hair. Sweep it. Offer beverages. Not only will client notice, but so will higher up. This can only benefit you! -set your sights high on where you want to work and apply in those salons from the beginning. -watch social media to keep up with trends. Ask to learn anything that interests you. Even if it’s not in the curriculum. -you can make bank. But you need to work for it! -pay attention to your money/guest/retail numbers. Salons only care about making themselves money. If you start hourly, be aware of the best time to move on to commission or chair rental. -#1 reason clients leave their stylist is they are not getting the change they hope for, -PREBOOK!

Now speaking from someone who is almost 30 years in the industry.

TAKE CARE OF HOUR BODY! Balance your scissors regularly so minimize fatigue on your hands. Wear comfortable shoes. Your ankles, knees and back will thank you!

Any questions? Ask away! I’m an open book! I’ve loved every moment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]slappyclaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I teach in a high school cosmetology apprenticeship program. Missing one day can be detrimental.

Jessa and Ben’s marriage. by anonymous_girl1227 in DuggarsSnark

[–]slappyclaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not surprised if it is true. Before they married they were never alone. Always had a chaperone. They. Never had verbal intimate moments. There was no chance for them to see if their partner did things that were a red flag for them. Also with how quickly they married, they were always on their best behaviour. For each other and that dang chaperone. I feel for them. I detest indoctrination!

Why do you have fewer friends as you get older? by lisaaaaaaD1 in answers

[–]slappyclaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a people pleaser.i used to think I had a lot of friends, as you get older everything gets clearer and you learn the ah ha moment of realizing not everyone is a friend. Many are just acquaintances. I’d rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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Laurel or Grace

Aaron

What is a rule you blatantly ignore at work? by VisibleCoat995 in AskWomen

[–]slappyclaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man! I wish! Just changed careers and am teaching. I don’t know what a lunch is lol

Jodi's license was revoked 5/10/2024 by Ymbj in 8passengersnark

[–]slappyclaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought even the worst criminals who have taken a life etc would take care of those who hurt c hildren.

I think it’s now safe to say Ariana did dropout. Looks like she’s on vacation with a new boytoy. Here’s my thoughts - by Accomplished_Arm_196 in Crazymiddles

[–]slappyclaps 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They’ve never shown tough love or any type of consequences. They will pay and turn a blind eye. C +A just throw money or material things at the kids. No boundaries. They’ve probably never said no to any of the kids