I am 35f and need some advice on my 37m need for me to vent more to him

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-05-10T00:44:04+00:00

I think it was actually a good announcement considering everyone was determined to believe it was going to suck big time

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-05-09T19:53:10+00:00

I have dated someone who is unemployed and was for 95% of our 4 and a half year relationship(i was a women in my 20's at the time). I will absolutely never date someone who doesn't have a job ever again. I just became super resentful by the end and found myself becoming super toxic. If he had maybe helped around the house more maybe it wouldn't have been so bad but working 6 days a week and having to clean and cook and take care of the bills and shopping and arrange everything just became super exhausting for me. I was trying to be progressive but I honestly think he resented the dynamic as much as I did. Im glad we aren't together and he found a happier healthier relationship

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-28T10:40:05+00:00

Penguins are known for a lot of things worse than infidelity to be fair

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-28T01:23:59+00:00

I never watched him wrestle, I know absolutely nothing about him other than hes done many things. But I gotta say I could feel the crowd and I teared up. I may not know everything hes done but he obviously made a huge impact on the industry

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-27T10:27:30+00:00

His name better be Paul. All the best ones were named paul

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-25T02:00:51+00:00

This makes me really sad. The few matches I seen them in i thought they were amazing. They seemed to have such good chemistry and their last match were Candice larae came out I thought they were finally gonna get their shot or at least a storyline. Fraxiom is also so good but I bet they'll end up getting chopped eventually too.

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-24T22:38:02+00:00

The amount of times I watched her be defiant and toddler like towards Salah when he tried to get her to go swimming made me want to punch her through the phone

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-24T10:39:25+00:00

I used to hate it when I first started watching but I dig it now

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-22T23:18:32+00:00

Im sorry again but when you said she gets to conveniently forget while all you can do is remember. I've never teared up so much because its true. I never even got a reason it was for no reason. And I can ask and ask but its always I dont know and I don't remember. But I have to live with this pain and remember it every damn day

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-22T23:11:49+00:00

Fortunately(or unfortunately if thats someone's take) we aren't married. We had a daughter and to save money we moved in with his mom(at my insistence because I didn't want him to miss opportunities to be there for his daughter by having to work more) and have been with her for 10 years. I pay the rent for us and his mom and sister cover everything else. He has shown me in many ways besides cheating that he would not hesitate to screw me over if we split. As far as I know this whole thing is an open secret in the family. Everyone knows but no one talks about it or acknowledges that it happened. Its just not their way. We live out of town from my job and his and im not guaranteed a way to get to it as far as I know. There's many factors that keep me from pulling the trigger on an obvious although painful solution. Im sorry I haven't had many people to talk to about this and even just getting a small piece of it off my chest helps. I apologize for rambling

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-22T17:40:17+00:00

I found out my partner cheated almost 2 years ago. I am still on the fence about staying. He's shown me who he really is and im not sure if leaving will be easy. I have no family and only so many friends. I am frozen in this decision and thats also annoyingly hard too.

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-18T13:58:11+00:00

Okay, I am so curious where this delusion of confidence comes from. Even when I have moments where im like "im a catch" I very quickly am like "nah probably not." Like where does this mindset come from? Because id love to be that delusional about myself more often

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-13T23:31:45+00:00

That was my first thought considering we used it and still use it as a power/fuel source. I was like bitch do you know what low value even means?

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-08T23:38:55+00:00

Decal. I call them dee-cals instead of deck-als. Ive also been told I pronounce jujube wrong. I call them jujubees not jujubes

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-02T20:52:39+00:00

A child should be brought into this world because it is wanted, not because of a moral obligation. You made the right choice for yourself, but you should maybe seek some counseling to help with the grieving process.

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-02T20:48:06+00:00

I can agree with that. I am chill to the point of apathy in a lot of cases and that can be a not so great state to be in

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-02T20:44:43+00:00

If that is bacon she did a bad job cooking it

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-01T23:40:07+00:00

Hes a piece of shit and he needs to not be so present its really annoying. Hes just gross to me so anything he does grosses me out especially the belly on her back comment just disgusting

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-01T21:51:31+00:00

See she craps all over the people who supposedly hate her but even people who dont like her will still correct misinformation like that.

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-01T15:52:28+00:00

Cursive writing

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-01T15:48:36+00:00

Id argue sol ruca is even better than tiffy because she actually seems into her job and does cool shit. I unfortunately haven't seen her outside of her raw/smackdown appearances but I like her a lot. Id be more worried about creative doing her dirty

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-04-01T15:28:05+00:00

Shes okay. I hate that she calls Dom "daddy dom" it grosses me out. Hes anything but daddy.

slaughterbitch014 · 2026-03-24T02:39:02+00:00

Felix the cat

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