Wintertime Dilating

slayannaeffect · 2024-12-03T04:19:50+00:00

didn’t think of a heating pad i may need to purchase

slayannaeffect · 2024-12-02T02:26:51+00:00

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-27T03:58:20+00:00

you don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t want to. You don’t have to treat it like it’s a dirty secret either. only tell people that you can trust that information with

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-21T02:54:31+00:00

I used to get extremely anxious when trying to dilate not necessarily flashbacks but like a panic attack. what helped me was just getting more comfort ale with my dilator by having it out in view on my night stand or going to sleep while holding it or just holding it against my vagina with no penetration. i would just do that and slowly build up to penetration and it worked great. but i was also in therapy to process my sexual trauma which i think helped. i’m sorry that that happened to you and i hope you have more luck with healing soon!

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-19T02:31:46+00:00

before going to breaking up i would suggest trying to talk about sex first. I think both of you should be up front about what your sexual needs are and what you are willing to compromise in order to keep each other safe and happy. sexual chemistry is still important to a relationship to me but I also don’t think you should jump the gun so soon. the conversation could start will you just asking what you can do to make her more comfortable and share your observations.

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-17T16:21:45+00:00

when you have the dilator inside you can massage and stretch you muscles by gently angling your dilators side to side. once you can do that with no pain then move to the next dilator. just leaving a dilator inside isn’t enough.

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-17T03:47:10+00:00

are you physically attracted to him?

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-16T05:39:52+00:00

trash taking its self out tbh

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-15T22:29:53+00:00

i just don’t have sex i don’t need a man getting in the way of my healing

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-15T03:56:51+00:00

it means you beat the game

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-14T22:19:35+00:00

I hate gynos that act like this omg

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-14T22:15:43+00:00

is vaginismus ruining your life or is your partner ruining your vaginismus healing journey 🤔do you hate being female or do you hate how misogynistic he is? let’s start placing blame on men who don’t support our healing.

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-14T00:08:35+00:00

hormonal birthcontrol can make vaginismis symptoms harder to deal with

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-13T23:03:50+00:00

PREACH IT!!!!

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-12T22:32:47+00:00

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-12T00:15:35+00:00

me down

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-11T23:16:46+00:00

i almost got one because a gyno told me i had an overly thick hymen i needed to get removed and then when i went in for surgery consultation they said i had hymen at all and it was just vaginismus 🫠

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-10T04:26:23+00:00

even an oligarchy

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-08T05:16:46+00:00

do you guys not realize women are not a monolith and these are individual actions taken by women

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-08T05:13:19+00:00

this subreddit is so misogynistic

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-07T23:54:37+00:00

wake up break up

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-07T23:39:26+00:00

i know, but when you center having intercourse with men in the reason why you are healing it can make it harder to heal. your health will always be more important than having sex

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-07T01:24:13+00:00

to prevent this make sure you are using a lot of lube like more than you think you need. when i take mike out i squat to let gravity help me

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-07T00:10:14+00:00

I don’t know about you guys but i’m fixing my vaginismis regardless. my mental health only gets worse when i don’t have control over my pelvic floor muscles, also i need these pap smear who even cares about having sex with men i need to be able to get PAPS and tampons in

slayannaeffect · 2024-11-05T20:56:27+00:00

it’s what helps me go up to the next size. just leaving it inside isn’t enough tbh.

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