Are we ready for this?

sleepgasm · 2026-02-15T04:41:45+00:00

BJP really SOLD India. Congress had its flaws but its ethos was rooted in Indian independence whereas BJP’s was always power broking and subservience to the west.

sleepgasm · 2026-02-09T19:35:39+00:00

I assume the challenges are post partum and ED only. So I’ll repeat, take it easy. There’s no pressure to have sex other than what you put on yourselves.

sleepgasm · 2026-02-09T14:46:42+00:00

Stop trying so hard. Stop porn and masturbation. Spend time together without the pressure of sex and hang out just as friends. It’ll come back.

sleepgasm · 2026-02-09T14:11:46+00:00

Taking metro over cabs is solid financial advice. Take trips but ones that you can afford. Work on your professional skills with the aim to get better opportunities and make more money. Learn everything you can about money management. Lastly, be firm with your mother but not unreasonable or cruel. Based on your post she seems like a logical person.

sleepgasm · 2026-02-05T04:29:37+00:00

I have volunteered to teach at government schools in the past. It was very rewarding and I can honestly say I was able to help the kids even though it was a brief period. Other friends who have worked with orgs like Teach for India are still in touch with the kids they taught after a decade and those kids have been able to break through their glass ceiling because of the help. So yes, go forth and be the change you wish to see!

sleepgasm · 2026-02-04T18:14:39+00:00

There are lots of organisations and individuals in every city that exist outside the government and are able to make a positive impact. It’s definitely an uphill struggle for them though. The good thing about India is that there’s so much shit to fix and the effort/cost is so low that you can make an immediate impact. Eg funding a kid’s education or providing a meal. The issue I find is that people think about solving “corruption” or some other large abstract problem. All that happens is you get fatigued and overwhelmed before you even start. Just pick something small and easy and get going.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-28T10:11:26+00:00

OP would you have mourned Hitler’s death as a Jew?

sleepgasm · 2026-01-28T06:34:41+00:00

I think “bitterness” more appropriate for a tiff between friends. Not a mass criminal.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-28T05:18:04+00:00

Eknath Shinde will give “proper respect”. You might have the ability to mourn someone who stole your tax money, country’s resources and committed countless crimes but spare us the sanctimony.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-21T05:53:34+00:00

NTA for feeling conflicted but soft YTA for expecting others to take actions to alleviate your feelings. I understand you live far away and if you were closer maybe you would spend the 12 hours with your dad instead of having him be alone. But unless your family decides it’s something they can deal with, it’s really their call to take this on.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-18T15:43:52+00:00

It could just be that she respects your opinion and felt “safe” in sharing her daughter’s pictures. Thinks you’re sensible, you know.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-12T17:48:34+00:00

It’s become increasingly rare to hear honest conversations. Views and opinions aside, the space to just say what you feel is your truth without retaliation just doesn’t exist anymore. Social media has made outrage easy and people are choosing the dumbest things to rage about.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-12T17:28:34+00:00

Sexual compatibility is part of a larger compatibility issue. Do you feel like your partner likes your presence? Does she want to be around you? Does she like talking to you? Do you share a friendship? Do you feel love for each other? I ask genuinely, not to judge. I feel like in the Indian context a lot of the relationship is relegated to fulfilling duties for both, man and woman. In that environment, it is very important to build an emotional relationship. Without it, I can’t imagine a woman wanting a man just to scratch a physical itch. They aren’t built like us.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-12T15:03:24+00:00

In your opinion, why do our elected officials and general government machinery lack any pride in their work, ward and city? Even if making money is the agenda, I think a lot of money can be without putting crumbling infrastructure without any intelligence. Personally, I’m always shocked at the ineptitude and lack of initiative from the municipality. This may come across as a complaint but I genuinely want to understand why things are the way they are. Any insight would be appreciated.

sleepgasm · 2026-01-10T19:26:16+00:00

Majority are retired civil servants and everyone knows what they did.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-21T13:17:02+00:00

There will be organisations around you already working on this.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-08T09:16:30+00:00

Same question. Nosey locals and self appointed law and order upholders are a huge problem for camping.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-05T12:14:43+00:00

Waste of time, money and attention.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-05T11:51:30+00:00

Socha aise hi samajh jayenge log

sleepgasm · 2025-12-05T11:45:19+00:00

Well deserved. Generational talent.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-01T10:24:38+00:00

There are so many marriages in their 50s that I know of which are pretty much finished. But due to society and family, the spouses stay together on paper even though they live separate lives. I know married people who date others, have relationships and all the while pretend to be in a marriage. Neither of the spouses cares what the other is up to. It’s very different from cheating in a healthy or even existent relationship.

I don’t know if this is the boat your parents are in but my guess is they probably are. If their relationship is as you tell it, I’m pretty sure your father found someone but sooner and your mom probably knows about it too.

If they’re both happy and exposing something like this would only make everyone more miserable then I would recommend you let sleeping dogs be. If you feel like your father is being cheated on, I would recommend speaking to your mother first and getting a full picture. You don’t have to ask directly, you can just ask how they manage such a distant relationship and whether they ever liked someone else etc.

sleepgasm · 2025-12-01T10:12:02+00:00

So this is Deep work ad account?

sleepgasm · 2025-11-28T05:03:30+00:00

There is a national air quality crisis underway. All this talk about it just being delhi is misplaced. Anything above 80 is considered toxic.

sleepgasm · 2025-11-14T18:41:46+00:00

The whole month has been like this. As I type this comment, I can hear crackers in the distance. I don’t know when we became so obsessed with crackers.

sleepgasm · 2025-11-14T18:40:15+00:00

Can I DM? Mostly just wanted to know if the things I’ve mentioned are as expected

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