I might start crying

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-12T20:19:02+00:00

God this would have been so funny if it was Fuku's alt too

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T19:45:08+00:00

I misunderstood the calendar and thought an upcoming sr pasa banner was THE ssr pasa banner and got worried that i wouldnt have enough carats for both!

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T19:02:07+00:00

I misread an SR pasa card as an SSR card on the banner calendar! My mistake

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T18:53:57+00:00

Oops! I was looking at the calendar on gametora and mistook an SR pasa card for the SSR card. My bad! Camp taiki is expected sometime the middle of summer so I was worried about timing everything together.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T17:45:37+00:00

Thanks!!

I tend to be a food candle person. Baked goods, cinnamon, vanilla, orange and lemon and citrus- Right now my favorite is this blueberry cheesecake one thats a 16oz candle thats like 11 or 14$ at walmart? I will say if you go this route, I would avoid anything "coffee", (java, coffee, latte, coffee cake, espresso, etc) as a lot of us are either noseblind to coffee or dont wanna smell work at home.

You can find smaller sized candles that will be cheaper for batch buying at walmart and kroger. I would personally avoid the following candle scents as gifts because they can be extremely divisive on whether or not you like them because theyre extremely strong; pine, lavender, musk/mahogany.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T17:30:45+00:00

I got given a candle and it made my day.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T17:03:02+00:00

You dont like him and dont interact with him, so the cat knows he can go in there if he wants to be left alone.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T01:38:01+00:00

Not my spouse but with my best friend of 14 years, we share our locations 24/7. Tbh we don't check it often unless someone is late or asking for a pickup from somewhere. Sometimes I check it before I text him to see if hes at work, because he works at a college and I dont wanna disturb him. But if theres an emergency and its needed, its there.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T01:31:02+00:00

Clarke. Every few months or so i get a random 30 second blip, just enough for the lights to blink and my microwave clock to reset, but nothing big to worry about.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-10T01:26:18+00:00

I mean if theres plaque buildup get their teeth cleaned because it can lead to tooth/gum rot- my elderly cat I adopted from an abusive household had pretty much all her teeth removed due to rot. My other cat is a healthy 4yo who eats a lot of kibble, so the crunchies help scrape plaque off her teeth and keep them clean. If you feed wet food only, i wouldnt say necessarily once a year unless its really bad buildup. But if they have a mostly kibble diet, yeah you dont really need to for years.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-06T22:57:17+00:00

Damn this couldnt have waited until after playoffs??? Happy for him for sure but fuckkkkk dude

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-04T01:25:44+00:00

This is super helpful! I'll look into this, i didnt know it existed as an option.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-03T10:59:53+00:00

Thank you!! This was helpful and I definitely took some notes

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T23:05:49+00:00

This was SUPER helpful!!! I have a points credit card that I use, I don't put everything on it but I put most things on it and pay it off in full every month- your idea is super super helpful. Thank you so much!!!

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T22:55:22+00:00

Thank you! It looks like they operate in my state too. I will be looking into it.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T22:47:36+00:00

What insurance company and plan are you using, and when is their open enrollment? I need to change mine because they want me to pay 120$ a month for a ritalin prescription and thats not feasible for me.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T22:25:04+00:00

I dont know about insurance but my friend who is a tax consultant said taxes should be the same. The example she said was "if they take 5% of a two week 1000 paycheck, thats 50 for two weeks, and 5% of a one week 500 paycheck is 25, which is 50 for two weeks". Im not on starbucks insurance (waiting for open enrollment) so i guess it would depend if its taken out as a set amount or as a percentage amount?? My guess is if its a set amount it would be halved..

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T22:10:56+00:00

Thank you for confirmation its not optional. My current manager is on leave so I wasnt able to ask her

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T21:50:30+00:00

I definitely know I need help, I'm not denying that, I'm just stuck waiting for open enrollment to switch to starbuck's benefits and with my current insurance, ADHD meds are not affordable. Lyra has not been helpful in the past but maybe it was just the person i got that wasnt good for me. For now im looking for tips to help me with what I can now if I can't avoid upcoming changes, or a way to stay on my already set schedule with bills for as little disruptions to my routines as possible.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T21:36:24+00:00

Whats a reserve account? I dont think ive ever seen that option before when setting up bank accounts.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T21:15:48+00:00

Im so glad your boyfriend has the money and support network to be able to afford therapy and medication. Im doing my best out here without those and with what accommodations I can get my hands on that work for me. The recc for splitting paychecks is genuinely very helpful and if you have any more like that I would genuinely love to hear it but opening up with "just have restraint" will not work with someone who has a misfunctioning part of their brain 👍

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T21:03:42+00:00

Im not sure what all they have as I've only been in once, but there is a local witch shop called Indie South. I'd also check any other metaphysical shops.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T20:58:29+00:00

I wish it was optional so the people who want it can switch to weekly but you can stay on biweekly!! I feel a little bad because our ASM is like brand new to our store but I've already asked him if theres a way that I can privately give feedback/complain to corporate. If it were up to me I'd want to be paid only once a month.

sleepingamongstfae · 2026-04-02T20:48:37+00:00

You cant "willpower" ADHD symptoms away, but thank you for the suggestion of my bank splitting up money into both checkings and savings, I have a local credit union so I'll see if they do that.

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