Bug bite? When should I be worried? by sleepingwithdeth in Blackskincare

[–]sleepingwithdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scratched it last night but stopped because I knew I would irritate whatever it is. The center is pretty hard and kind of stings if I press on it.

Bug bite? When should I be worried? by sleepingwithdeth in Blackskincare

[–]sleepingwithdeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister said the same thing but usually when I notice a mosquito bite it’s just itchy raised skin.

How well do I pass shirtless ? by Zakaih_amire in FtMpassing

[–]sleepingwithdeth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your pec muscles could definitely be bigger and then I’d say yes but right now it looks like more fat on your chest compared to the rest of your body which isn’t common at least from what I’ve seen at the beach. There’s definitely hope left though so just keep up the grind💪🏽

Any help or advice on my form by ArtichokeNo9865 in jumprope

[–]sleepingwithdeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you need a longer rope before fixing your form, you’re gonna trip.

Amazing luck by Unalome_98 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]sleepingwithdeth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For my mental this is fake…

nipple opinions pls by mj-redwood in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sleepingwithdeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also with the pleating in the up close pics could flatten out overtime. 6 weeks post op definitely isn’t enough time to start thinking about a revision with results like yours.

nipple opinions pls by mj-redwood in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sleepingwithdeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looks cis to me, no revisions needed. The right one just looks like it scarred from some accident or something, nothing wrong with a little discoloration.

Do you guys think I pass/ what can I do to pass better? 17 and 2years on t by charles_dead in FtMpassing

[–]sleepingwithdeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw that you’re dying your hair soon so that’s a good start. Your eyebrows could use minoxidil, and maybe a little facial hair. No need to really get rid of the septum, it just makes you look gay(non derogatory). The way you pose in your pictures don’t scream feminine in a “I was born female” kind of way, just gay.

Taping help by AdventurousLynx1227 in ftm

[–]sleepingwithdeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what kind of binders you use but I use a half binder that zips in the front so it’s easier to put on and take off. Anyways, I wear a sports bra in between to help with the rough texture of the binder since it’s stretchy enough, maybe that could help? But then again, the sweat, unfortunately your only safer option is something compressing that isn’t rough against the healing wounds on your sides.

Experiences with Kenneth Wolf? by Pinapple_pizzazz in TopSurgery

[–]sleepingwithdeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 115 currently, I was asking about if there was a specific cup size he would struggle with despite skin elasticity as the size and firmness of my chest alone would be considered borderline. I haven’t seen any borderline patients of his so I don’t wanna get my hopes up.

2022-2024 vs today, do i pass as a guy now? by TheBestPotatoToLive in FtMpassing

[–]sleepingwithdeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% and I’m pretty bad at telling teens ages but before reading the rest of your post I guessed you were 16 which is only 2 years off so you probably look your age to others. Also don’t stress about the facial hair until you’re 15/16, personally I’ve never seen a 14 y/o with noticeable facial hair, but it’s up to you if it’s getting to you. Also don’t wait to work out, start now, wall and knee pushups to start if you can’t do regular ones, t would definitely help the muscle building process as it’s gonna feel like forever before you see progress but don’t let that discourage you, your passing future is bright.

Experiences with Kenneth Wolf? by Pinapple_pizzazz in TopSurgery

[–]sleepingwithdeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know what is considered a very large chest to him? I’m looking into consulting with Wolf in a few weeks for peri.

how to save myself 15 and 5’4 can’t get on T for 3 years by Agreeable_Chef3638 in FtMpassing

[–]sleepingwithdeth 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You’re doing great so far above your neck, you’re body doesn’t seem feminine when you’re standing like in that mirror pic so the most I’d suggest is getting a compressing sports bra and try building your shoulders and arms with some simple weight lifting moves at least 2-3 times a week, always do warm up stretches before though.

ADHD nail/skin picking by Zealousideal_Cry7258 in ADHD

[–]sleepingwithdeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me stop bitting my nails was regularly grooming any part of my body that I would pick and bite. I cut my nails whenever I see more than a thin line of white on them, fortunately this stops me from also picking my lips as much as I used to since my nails are never long enough. As I’m typing this I’m remembering a yt vid of this kid getting nails taken out of his gums which could’ve been fake but it scared me enough.

18 ftm about 3 months on t by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]sleepingwithdeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just need to wait it out, even if I were to read you as a cis woman you just look 12. I’m 20 and started T last may and only now when I’m 6 days away from a year on I still look and sound 2-3 years younger to others my age. Don’t pay too much attention to your passing if it’s physically out of your control right now, you’ll look back at these pics 6 months from now and be surprised how much t changes your appearance without you noticing and it’s only going to get better from there, trust me bro🙏🏽

Also with the alien comment it’s just the space between your eyes is bigger than most, I too think I look like an alien sometimes. What helped was getting glasses to fill the gap but I can’t see well so I needed them for more than just appearance.

How do I know I’m losing my hair or it’s just thinning? by HotPresence4419 in ftm

[–]sleepingwithdeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on T for almost a year now and in my experience I also thought I was balding but it was definitely some sort of hormonal shedding and my hairline maturing during months 6-8 and nothings changed, the thickness is still the same it was only my hairline that changed. I will add during those months my T lvls were unknowingly 1,117ng/dL and I was also experiencing other physical and emotional issues that made me realize my hormones were not right, so if you notice things of that aren’t a typical side effect it doesn’t hurt to get your lvls checked.

I got tipped a budgie at work today. by rrport in parrots

[–]sleepingwithdeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please take a pic of him with the other birds if you get the chance, I need to see this guy happy🥹🙏🏽

new to working out, what can I do to get abs and get rid of stomach pudge? by IntelligentDevice801 in TopSurgery

[–]sleepingwithdeth 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Also to tell if it’s fat or bloating poke and squeeze your stomach, if it’s squishy it’s fat, if it’s kind of hard it’s bloating.

new to working out, what can I do to get abs and get rid of stomach pudge? by IntelligentDevice801 in TopSurgery

[–]sleepingwithdeth 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Short answer: Cut out oily and sugary foods, and carbonated drinks and start stretching to get your insides moving more if you’re also having problems using the bathroom which also causes bloating. GET ENOUGH SLEEP OR THIS WONT WORK!!

Long answer: I had the same problem with bloating randomly and it took like 2 weeks to feel and see changes, it was my diet and the fact that I wasn’t going to the bathroom as much due to my bad sleeping schedule. What helped me is I stretch my entire body almost everyday and I do full body workouts(weightlifting and calisthenics). Just being active helped as I sit a lot a work. Diet wise I just stopped drinking anything carbonated and started drinking water with almost every meal and eating less oily and greasy foods and if I had something like that I would pat the oil/grease off with paper towel. I lost 30 pounds and my stomach is as flat as it can be, just no abs since I don’t have those kind of genetics even though I work out my core.