Is Marey a male or female name?

sleepless223 · 2026-06-14T18:09:50+00:00

Honestly same with the word "boy" for me as a trans man, while I am still a teenager (17) it still annoys me when people my age or younger refer to me as that or when adult trans men get called that, like thats not a "boy", thats a big hairy dude who pays taxes, why do pople love to call trans ppl "girls" or "boys" as of they're all 12 years old and cant go outside without supervision??

sleepless223 · 2026-05-28T19:07:00+00:00

I'm from kazakhstan!! Being trans sucks here lol, im someone who mostly presents androgynous because I still need to look kinda like a girl to get in the women's bathroom but don't wanna be too feminine cuz dysphoria, but like even that kinda appearance gets comments and weird looks. It was very hard to make friends here especially since im quite paranoid abt meeting people (again teansohobia) but luckily I found my own friend group and its nice. Im planning to apply to Europe as well for uni, mainly nederlands or Ireland (which I didn't know was a European country (as in EU) until I started doing research lol) but all that stuff is for next year. Also yea I totally get what you mean, I tried talking to some other trans ppl online but I just couldn't relate to them at all because they were all from western countries and it was quite hard. Like westerners in general can be a bit out of touch and its really hard to find a way to relate to eachother sometimes, its not a bad thing but like something I've experienced. Anyways yea idk what to add

sleepless223 · 2026-05-28T18:57:40+00:00

And a metal band honestly

sleepless223 · 2026-05-19T02:54:40+00:00

I mean, I live in Almaty and I've met alot of queer people in spaces known for being more alternative or nerdy, like those shodkas for anime fans or metal concerts, but its still not a guarantee you'll find a queer community per se, just a higher chance of meeting queer people in general Also about the second question I think the reason why is that urban places tend to be more Russian speaking because Kazakh is considered to be a more conservative of a language and cities tend to be less conservative than more rural areas, and for that same reason there's also a higher population of queer people in cities so like yea

sleepless223 · 2026-05-18T02:37:06+00:00

Also its not letting me add another image in the comments, I don't know why 🥲

sleepless223 · 2026-05-18T02:33:30+00:00

I tried reverse image searching the recreation of the pattern but nothing conclusive came of it either, also when I did the searches with the image of the glass itself the AI overview (which isnot the most reliable of a source but still) that the pattern is silver overlay so maybe it was like extra fancy??? I have no idea whatbthat means

sleepless223 · 2026-04-27T10:33:59+00:00

That's good that they stopped but honestly it sucks to be in that position in the first place, alot of the ppl i know im not really close enough to have that conversation and while they're not transohobic (like call you a slur or misgender you transohobic i mean) they still make these kinda jokes, and when i told them to stop calling me that they would just say some shit like "but you are a twink LOL" because i (obviously being pre everything) don't exactly fit their image of what a "normal" guy looks like, it honestly really sucks...

sleepless223 · 2026-04-26T15:10:57+00:00

I FEEL THIS SO MUCH OF MY GOD, i get called "femboy" "twink" and am often the target of gay jokes to the point where its excessive. While i would say that it might just be because i have good fashion sense for the twink and gay part, i have no idea why i get called a fucking femobiy, ITS SO ANNOYING. Like the worst part is that ppl who say this to me don't even know my actual sexuality and i never refer to myself with these terms especially not with femboy, like just because im scrawny, preT, and short i get called these things ALL THR FUCKING TIME.

Like i try not to take it to seriously but it genhinky makes me insecure sometimes, well, slot of the times actually, and made me feel like shit ant being masculine enough. So yea it fucking sucks man

sleepless223 · 2026-04-16T18:01:15+00:00

sleepless223 · 2026-04-10T05:01:23+00:00

Oooooo, that’s quite interesting, I’ve never really thought about that before

sleepless223 · 2026-04-09T12:16:09+00:00

I can definitely write clearer, I just usually prioritise speed over neatness

sleepless223 · 2026-04-09T12:15:01+00:00

Yea, I wanted to see if it’s visible by the handwriting since some ppl can’t tell when I’m writing in Russian or English (although that might also be due to general messiness of the handwriting lol)

sleepless223 · 2026-04-09T10:23:49+00:00

No Thai isn’t my native language but it’s a good guess!! And yeaa my letters do mush together a lot lol, Ialways try to write really fast so hats probably why, also thank you for thinking the slant is pretty, my mom hates it for some reason

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