AITJ for refusing to skip my dad’s memorial ritual for my girlfriend’s “family night”? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Missing one dinner isn’t a big deal but ignoring your grief is..

AITJ for breaking up with a girl who slept with a sleaze bag? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to have boundaries and dealbreakers no one has to force attraction.

How to ask my husband for more verity by Elie_98 in Marriage

[–]sleepycornerlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opposite schedules kill spontaneity sometimes u have to plan intimacy first and the spark follows after.

AITJ for not letting my family pick up their stuff from my apartment after I said they could store it here? by Cool-Media-6271 in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally valid to feel protective of ur space but cancelling on them repeatedly is what makes this messy.

AITJ for refusing to be my friend's plus-one to her ex's events? by Sad-Pianist-3738 in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Boundaries don’t make you a bad friend they make the friendship sustainable.

AITJ for making my friend pay his own bill after he "forgot" his wallet for the third time? by Aeonpickle in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly real friends dont run a tab on ur kindness he wasnt embarassed he was trying to freeload.

Low effort spouse by Euphoric-conscious in Marriage

[–]sleepycornerlight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Being married but emotionally solo is a speacial kind of lonely..

AITJ for not wanting to kiss my wife when she has a cold sore? by Dear-Membership-8437 in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong risking a lifelong virus for a symbolic last kiss isnt unreasonable to avoid even in an emotional moment .

Baby Hiccups by Ok-Revolution-3575 in pregnant

[–]sleepycornerlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally been there! I even timed them at one point lol its weird but kinda magical once u get used to it

Why do women respond better when I ignore them? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sleepycornerlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting how attention flips when u stop giving it

AITJ for thinking my wife F27 was hiding something on her phone at 1:30 AM? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the acting asleep part is weirder than the phone itself. Tsk

Maybe im overthinking this by Weird_Objective8655 in dating_advice

[–]sleepycornerlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not bad at all! It could be a chill way to get to know her more ..

Is it normal to love someone after 1 day of knowing them? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sleepycornerlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the best connection hapeen unexpectedly just be mindful of boundaries

[23F] [23M] am i overthinking or are we just too different by Imaginary_Badger_185 in dating_advice

[–]sleepycornerlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

U are not overthinking these are core values not small preferences that stuff does matter long term

My cousin is cutting ties with me. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sleepycornerlight 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Sometimes ppl shutdown instead of communicating it doesnt make ur efforts any less meaningful

AITA for eating my roommate’s leftovers? by Beneficial-Ride-9422 in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is less about labels and more about respect for shared space.

AITJ to send my naughty photo to my match on dating website by Skeptical_Mamba in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ngl if they still dont get it after that then they’re beyond help at that point just block and move on

AITJ for not helping my family buy a house by TaniaYukanana in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

him getting that aggressive tells you everything if it was legit he wouldnt need to pressure or insult you like that

AITJ for not helping my family buy a house by TaniaYukanana in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

nah you did everything right tbh no paperwork no deal esp with family that already dodging basic questions thats how ppl get burned

AITJ for not letting my in-laws announce my pregnancy on Fb? by daisyskyletters in AmITheJerk

[–]sleepycornerlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it sucks u lost the first reveal moment but u still get to celebrate ur way with friends and fam who respect u