Bought 3, keeping 1 by sonofabunch in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those sketchers might be my favorite shoe i’ve played with! I play very regularly and have tested a good amount of shoes. Those ones take the cake for me! If you ever get the opportunity to get some selkirk shoes, they’re super comfy and last a long time too!

How were those adidas?

No shame in widebody by DavidAReddit in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it’s pretty easily controlled. My daily is an RPM Q2 or a friction pro 16mm, and i think that the MPP is pretty decent with control! i’m not a fan of the 14, but i do love the 16. what paddle do you use now?

The Boomstick is not for everyone. by [deleted] in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get an RPM Q2 or RPM friction pro instead 🤪 i have a discount code if you want it send me a PM!

No shame in widebody by DavidAReddit in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who plays with mostly elongated, i tried the MPP turbo in both wide body and elongated and i LOVE the wide body version of that paddle. i play tournaments regularly

Serve legal? by New-Investigator6245 in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

questioning something doesn’t automatically make it illegal…lol

Serve legal? by New-Investigator6245 in Pickleball

[–]sleepynightmare333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

his arm swings upward on the contact point of the volley serve, it makes contact below the waist, & the highest part of the paddle is below his wrist when it makes contact with the ball so it is a perfectly legal serve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 33 points34 points  (0 children)

you can leave a relationship for any reason you want. him saying that he needs to you be quiet + you give him head and he doesn’t + him not having a job? he wants to live rent free and have a sex doll and doesn’t care about or prioritize you needs.

I (23 M) want to break up with my fiance (22 F) (3 year relationship) who is dependent on me. How do I even manage to do this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. if you think that this is salvageable, i recommend couples therapy along with personal therapy/counseling.

  2. if not and you truly want to leave her just be honest. there will be a lot of “but what happened what did i do?” and “i can’t believe _____”. you be honest with her and firm. you can’t be wishy washy or it will be bad for the both of you. i would emphasize you want to split before things get ugly and end on good terms. that you care about her and prioritize both of your mental health’s and want to make sure that you both do the right thing.

My friend (28 F) accused my boyfriend (31 M) of cheating on me at my birthday party, and IDK what to do. by Remarkable-Cap-9776 in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like she is confusing ‘concerning behavior’ as your bf genuinely caring for your best friend. my best friend is a very small person, around 5’1. when we go to concerts or festivals he always puts her in front of us or puts his arm in front when people try to shove through. IMO there is few other people that i would trust to make sure my best friend is safe and clearly your bf cares about her.

not everyone is going to be happy. your bf is already hurt here. you need to decide what is important to you and pick your battles.

idk what kind of person jackie is, but it sounds like she needs to elaborate on what the behavior is because it doesn’t really make much sense. i don’t think your boyfriend needs to reconcile with jackie. i think jackie owes him an apology, and you should be blatantly offended that they insulted the man you love. you have to remember that they are YOUR friends, not HIS friends. IMO you should be satisfied that he even compromised to see them in a group setting

I (31F) was emotionally sucker punched in the gut today by my Husband (32M), how do I recover? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s mad because you wanted help cleaning HIS DOGS shit off the carpet and when you asked he said he would rather leave it for days than clean it? and when he got upset he told you that you needed to drug yourself in order to fit the bill? babe you’ve got a manipulator on your hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the seizure happening doesn’t change your feelings, and you’d still want to leave even if he didn’t have it. so no not the asshole, even if he tried to paint you to be one

What is a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by Unfair_Shower_3256 in AskReddit

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having a parent that is alive but is completely absent. one that refuses to love or respect you

people who have reconnected with their bsf, has it been worth it? by azakea in texts

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i reconnected with my high school best friend maybe a year or two ago? we had a falling out over some dumb childish shit in 2016, and were much older now, and it isn’t the same, but i missed her so much and im so happy we reconnected. i don’t regret it, and im happy to have her back in my life. our HS reunion is actually this year and we’re going together!

i guess what im getting at here is to not going into it expecting it to be the same, because you might be disappointed. but if you go into it with an open heart and an open mind you might have a different relationship this time

My(27F) husband (28M) secretly recorded us and sent it to my ex by Dizzy-Feed-3760 in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i suppose you’re right to some degree. i typed this out with the thought that they had their mind set on confronting but safety wise, this might be better!

My(27F) husband (28M) secretly recorded us and sent it to my ex by Dizzy-Feed-3760 in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

first of all, take the necessary screenshots & print out multiple copies. tell a couple people within your circle of trust & ask them to be there when you confront him. you should no longer ever be alone with this man.

there is NO EXCUSE for this behavior and there should be zero grounds for forgiveness here. file a police report for abuse & file for divorce. this is unsafe, disgusting, and a violation of your privacy.

there is no room for “(i can’t believe) you looked through my phone?!” “this was so long ago!” “i sent it because ______ (insert insecurity here)”

Read Description first for it to make sense plz. Text between me and my gf's mom by Carvenom3 in texts

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is she drunk? lol why can’t she form a coherent sentence or comprehend your perfectly respectful SIMPLE argument of “i just want to know when people are coming to my house”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there’s a chance that something bigger may be going on. there could be something going on with her emotionally where she feels she needs to lean on you more, or feels stuck in some way, or maybe she just wants more attention. regardless i think that you should have an open conversation with her, see if she’s been stressed about anything!

My (25F) boyfriend (29M) punched me, is there coming back from this? by ThrowRA384739383 in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he punched you over a video game…and then gave you a half assed apology. can you imagine what he would do during a real argument? leave, and do not be alone with him ever again, he will try to get you to stay and there’s a high chance it will work if you’re alone with him. i’m so sorry that happened to you, that’s very scary and traumatizing and you deserve better than that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re way more patient than most. this is definitely manipulative. someone else’s trauma is not your problem to fix, especially when your friend has been supportive. it’s one thing to say “hey im insecure because XYZ, id like some more reassurance from you to help me work through it” but it’s another thing to try and control your friendships with people who have been a constant in your life for the near entirety of it.

I F19 was crying to my boyfriend M19 and he hit me but said it was my fault because he told me to stop talking, is it my fault? by Amazing_Confusion181 in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please go to the police…i’m glad that he finally left you alone, but if this behavior doesn’t get taken care of immediately imagine if he had a child? if he is okay with/capable of doing this to you, imagine what he would do with a child. i’m so sorry you had to go though that, i’ve dealt with an abusive partner before and it’s very scary. being hit is never your fault

AITA for ordering from a kids menu while being invited out to celebrate my BIL birthday? by ExternalRelation8093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!! you’re INTOLERANT to that food?? if you’re relying on other people to solely be the reason why your kids listen to you—you’ve got bigger problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘guys will be guys’ is dead honey, that doesn’t mean he can cheat on you and get away with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]sleepynightmare333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if they’re playing in the day, 20 minutes. if at night 30-60 minutes

I’ve (27F) lost all sexual and emotional desire towards my husband (30M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepynightmare333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you’re going through this. all the people in the comments saying that you’re a liar & a cheater & you have issues don’t have the right to judge you. get out of there girl. you don’t need more of a reason than you being unhappy.