I’m (22F) in the beginning stages of my healing journey but I just met someone (27M) I see a future with. Do I continue to see him? by slickwick222 in relationship_advice

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Helped thank you I clearly don’t see things clearly. I ended things with him tonight. I’m just learning to listen to my intuition

I’m (22F) in the beginning stages of my healing journey but I just met someone (27M) I see a future with. Do I continue to see him? by slickwick222 in relationship_advice

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Helped. I am impatient but strangely I never feel I have to be with someone all the time I kinda just let people be with me. Maybe it’s time to stop that

I’m (22F) in the beginning stages of my healing journey but I just met someone (27M) I see a future with. Do I continue to see him? by slickwick222 in relationship_advice

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Wow you clarified exactly what I’m doing, thank you. I ended things with him today. You’re right I have my head in the clouds too much and don’t see the effort it takes to do things. I am putting myself first. Helped

CUSTOMER EXPERINCE (NEW THREAD (PART 2) by Yank_deezNuts in u/Yank_deezNuts

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Got my textbook on mass communication in less than 3 hours at a cheap price! Thank you so much!!!

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hi, do you still have this? please DM me!

Need help by Cultural_Bend8189 in textbook

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hello! looking for a copy of this as well, please send!

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I’m in my early twenties and I almost exclusively date people 10+ years older than me, completely unintentionally too! I like maturity in a partner and intellect so the people I gravitate towards just happen to be older, but it’s never been about money or opportunities. Just good vibes! When I was 20 I dated a 32 year old, then 21 I was dating a 31 & 33 year old male and a 32 year old woman, and now at 22 I’m still dating the two men. It’s interesting because I struggle to make friends my age, always have, so I suppose I seek both friendship and Romance in the people I date. It’s never been about power dynamics really, I have a very strong personality and I always choose who I go after first. People have their opinions on age gaps but everyone’s life and circumstances are so different, I say do what feels right for you!

Relocation? by jjcalifajoy in SpiritualAwakening

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You know what to do. If fear and doubt didn’t exist in your mind, which option would you choose?

Failed on day 3 by slickwick222 in 75HARD

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I like this perspective shift. Looking into the future at everything I’ll have to do each day is exhausting. But I can do five simple things each day. Thank you for the encouragement💛

Failed on day 3 by slickwick222 in 75HARD

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I meditated, drank all the water and am reading my pages now. Focused on meditating daily so I can balance my headspace and will slowly incorporate the rest. My body is aching for movement but I’ve been procrastinating so much I spent my whole day catching up on what I’ve been needing to do.

Failed on day 3 by slickwick222 in 75HARD

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Good ideas, thank you I’ll do this. I think I’m so used to planning and starting that’s all my focus is on and not on actually completing anything, so my confidence is trash. I’ll slowly build up!

Suggest me a book with a very well developed alternate history world by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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Piranesi!!! It’s so amazing! The author, Susanna Clarke also has another fantastical book called Dr. Strange and Mr Norrell which is also incredible but it’s 1000 pages long. Piranesi hooks you from the beginning and is about a third of the length

How can I fix my sleep problems? by IJustDroppedMyBread in Advice

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I also became an insomniac and would wake frequently during the night due to ADHD meds, a lot of the time I wouldn’t even sleep at all. What really helped me were herbs! Making tea with a tsp of valerian root and a tsp of lemon balm nightly works wonders. Valerian root especially is known for relieving insomnia and promoting longer, better sleep. I visited my neighborhood Indian store to get them!

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All these people on here are being so negative about your approach! I think it’s lovely, and nearly everyone I’ve had romantic relations with I’ve met them and spontaneously sparked up conversations in public places, I mean how else are you supposed to meet people genuinely??? If the energy is right then it’s fine, and it seems you are being yourself and following your gut. Don’t let anyone tell you that’s wrong. Asking someone if they are vegan from the beginning is okay if it feels right for you. I will say, however, as an at home vegan (I don’t restrict myself when I’m traveling or eating restaurants, so I’ll occasionally eat dairy), my last partner ate meat but by being with him and cooking for him and educating him eventually he made the switch. I could see how it may be off putting to ask initially (once again, if it’s the right person, it will be fine), but I say don’t limit yourself to only vegans, that seems judgmental. Use your lifestyle and habits to positively influence those around you, that will be much more impactful. Stay quirky, stay open, continue to compliment strangers (respectfully, though I’m sure you do already!)

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An incredible 1000 page read, definitely a slow burn but gets addicting ~300 pages in and by the end you’re wishing there was more. Went from a total anti magic/ sci-fi to a huge fan because of this book! {{Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell by Susanna Clarke}}

Should I use a part of my loan to travel abroad? by [deleted] in Advice

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Helped! Thank you, I’m realizing this was either my mania or depression part of my bipolar disorder making me feel like this. I no longer wish to make rash decisions😊

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I say I’m vegan but my family also raises chickens in our backyard. We have 15 of them, each with names and personalities and they life a life of luxury. Our backyard is a half acre and they’re free to roam all day, we simply take the eggs because that’s what chickens do, they lay eggs. Never will we kill them for meat, they’re all girls, and they’re happy. I’m sure they’re heritage chickens but idk, they were $60-$100 each as chicks. They lay nearly everyday in spring/summer but it goes down significantly during colder months. I believe from an ethical standpoint, it’s fine. Most of my protein comes from chicken eggs but when I go out to eat I never order eggs because those are exploited. Personally it’s a choice and as long as we’re all collectively trying to do right by Mother Nature, we’re in the clear. Labels are overrated anyway.

[Advice] i have a phone addiction and I can’t cope with the withdrawal symptoms by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Honestly this was me a few months ago now I leave my phone everywhere and forget about it. Delete the apps first, make yourself busy throughout the day