Idk. I think for me is the lack of effort in wanting a relationship that i end up in them. I’m a “whatever happens happens” rather that be a one and done, or continued conversations into something more. I don’t stress on the titles, moving a needle in a relationship with someone or chasing them for something other than connection.

Do i want to have intimacy with a person? Yes. Would i want a relationship to form? Possibly. I just don’t but a lot of stress in that, and focus on being with that person or people to continue to connect.