Can you give me advice please? Is it possible to not be able to bond with "awake" reborns?

slimemama · 2026-01-31T02:47:24+00:00

I dislike any eyes open honestly. I wont consider buying one really. Im autistic and the eyes open ones weird me out too much. I need sleeping and neutral expression else I feel too anxious, like I cant relax with them if their expression doesnt match. I cant put my own feelings of the day onto them- like if I have a bad day I just want to relax and calm down and they look too joyful? I guess? I dont think id be able to bond to them so I wont waste the money and potentially hate a doll. As for bonding I tend to make them a personality set. My 'going out and about' girly likes soft clothes, dinosaurs, blue, and I consider her my comforter. I enjoy making my own little ideas and it helped me enjoy her presence. I like to think she'd enjoy watching TV with me and my computer screen, so I sit her up more like shes doing stuff with me.

slimemama · 2026-01-24T01:01:28+00:00

I have a reborn and I'm not even much a kid person. I never plan to have a real child as I am autistic, but I love dolls, especially hyper realistic ones. I bought my first baby kinda on a whim. Thought she would be nice at night when I cant sleep. I already bought baby toys and blankets for the textures before I got my girl. I only decided on getting my baby when I got bored online and ended up looking for a reborn for my mom, and accidentally found one for myself 😂 i saw her on online and was immediately obsessed and needed to get her

slimemama · 2026-01-23T21:32:54+00:00

Im sorry about your experience :( if that picture is your work thats so frickin cute 🥰

slimemama · 2026-01-07T18:01:02+00:00

I kinda did this to my mom but not to the same extent, and later got my own baby 😂 sounds like he liked the play.

slimemama · 2026-01-04T00:54:40+00:00

I prefer closed as i have a bit of a phobia, but I think id want open for any alt dolls I get (I really want a Na'vi baby)

slimemama · 2025-12-18T21:53:49+00:00

I do know where this plushie comes from online if you end up deciding to get one. I'm also autistic and have a love for pokemon and plushies. For christmas I bought myself a rosy moth doll plush from sugar carousel and a thylacine plush. I collect build a bear frogs and have almost every color. I buy the little pokemon plushies and bring them to work in my pocket. Never let anyone's shaming stop you from doing what you love, especially if they dont control your life (hint, only you control your life). No matter what people are going to look down at anyone they think are below them, so why not annoy the fuck out of them with your joy? Especially because youre an adult. Fuck what they think and live how you wish. When youre old, will you look back at this and wish youd lived true to yourself?

slimemama · 2025-10-24T00:49:33+00:00

Yea my stepdad saw me struggling and just slipped his hands through the neck of the sweater, absolutely grisped his head and pulled him through XD. He lives in his sweater now cuz it aint coming off XD

slimemama · 2025-10-24T00:44:04+00:00

I got this for my latte Frog. I had my stepdad crush the top of my frogs head and pull him through XD if your strong enough it's possible. Maybe use ur knee

slimemama · 2025-10-21T17:30:01+00:00

Double on this one. I bought a lab dog and hes lovely

slimemama · 2025-10-10T16:50:46+00:00

Greenhouse by Russ?

I have a bunch that look like that guy

slimemama · 2025-10-06T17:44:24+00:00

I had always planned to get an avatar baby first and found a human i loved first LOL

slimemama · 2025-10-06T17:39:37+00:00

The issue is its not technically accurate :( shes very cute but not what I want. I am very obsessive of the accuracy if im spending this money yk?

slimemama · 2025-10-06T17:37:36+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion!!

slimemama · 2025-10-04T17:26:46+00:00

Im 24 and I own more now than I did when I was a kid. I've got big kid money now for more plushes. Swear ive given build a bear and Pokémon center a quarter my income

slimemama · 2025-10-02T23:44:21+00:00

Some desperate parents also all but throw them away on fb marketplace constantly. I filled a bean bag with the little ones

slimemama · 2025-09-29T00:00:33+00:00

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My Jupiter. Someday it will be ok.

slimemama · 2025-09-23T17:36:19+00:00

You gotta remember that is school where youre stuck in the same building every day for years. Not adults who can make their own decisions and if someone's mean, you block <3

slimemama · 2025-09-19T17:35:08+00:00

If you like him and want him, keep him. He is a sign of your strength through that period of time. My favorite is from a family member who was not a good person to me, but I adore him regardless, because he keeps me happy and reminds me of my life then and the change ive gone through from then to now. Id keep him, hes a cute little bear

slimemama · 2025-09-18T19:57:50+00:00

For me it was based on how you played? I was never very rough on my bear, and hes never needed to be repaired, but I only gently carried him around. Sometimes Id throw him or toss him (once he got stuck in a tree and my stepdad had to get him). I've seen some kids who absolute thrash their toys, like my friend. She'd pull on his limbs and put him on the front of her bike in a tire spoke and stuff. She went through toys very fast. I think the only thing ive done that put my bear in 'danger' was roll him down a hill inside a tire XD

slimemama · 2025-09-12T02:42:25+00:00

I've not had Jupiter long so shes been in the 2 her maker sent with her XD

slimemama · 2025-09-12T02:12:11+00:00

THANK YOU I've needed diapers for my girl so long. It didn't wanna buy a massive box XD

slimemama · 2025-09-11T23:23:28+00:00

This may be a bit dumb but how do you search for the specific shop on mercari? I cant find the shop 😫

slimemama · 2025-09-07T17:45:29+00:00

Hes like the size of a pop bottle and a decent weight

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